Ukuvumelana nosapho kubalulekile, ukuba ayingoyena mntu uphambili kwimanyano yosapho eyomeleleyo. Inyaniso enomdla: Xa kukho imbeko kusapho, akukho mntu uya kukuxelela ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuze ikho. Kodwa xa kungekho mvisiswano, nantoni na ibiza ngokulula izizathu ezibini eziphazamisayo ekuphazamiseni impumelelo yayo. Ngokuyintloko, ezi zizathu ziya kunxulunyaniswa nendlela iqabane eliziphatha ngayo - umyeni okanye umfazi aziphethe ngayo. Uninzi lwabantu abangalufumananga ulonwabo emtshatweni bakholelwa ukuba nomnye, iqabane elifanelekileyo, kwaye baya kwahluka ngokwabo, bonwabe. Kodwa imfihlo kukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba ngumntu ofanelekileyo okanye iqabane lokufumana i-invision.
Zonke iintsapho zineengxabano, ukungaqondani, iingxabano kunye nokungavisisani. Kodwa iintsapho ezonwabileyo nezingonwabisiyo ezihlangabezana nezi ngxaki ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Umbono ofanayo kunye nokuqonda okuxabisekileyo, ukuthembeka komnye nomnye, ithuba lokuthembana, umnqweno wokuxhasanani-ezi zezona zinto zibalulekileyo zokuphumelela. Yiva umahluko: ukuthembeka kwiqabane lakho, nokuba awuvumelani kowemibuzo, okanye ukuchasana nayo. Kulula ukuba kwinkcaso, ukunyaniseka kule meko kufuna umgudu, ulwazi kubudlelwane. Kwaye nantsi ilele komthetho ophambili kubudlelwane obuhambelana nobudlelwane: ubudlelwane ngumsebenzi osisigxina.
Kukho ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo phakathi kweemvakalelo nezenzo.
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Ewe, ukusebenza kubudlelwane ngumsebenzi kuwo omabini amaqabane. Umntu omnye, nokuba wayekuhle kangakanani na, akakwazi kuthwala iimpahla zobudlelwane kumagxa akhe, kwaye andifanele ndiyenze loo nto. Ewe kona, hayi kumandla ethu 'ukuphakamisa "umyeni wakhe okanye inkosikazi, ukuzama ukwenza amaqabane akholekileyo. Konke esinako - ukuphinda siqwalasele isimo sakho sengqondo emtshatweni, zama ukufumana nokulungisa iimpazamo zakho, sebenza kwiqabane lakho kwiqabane. Kutshintsha kuphela, sinokubangela ukuba uphendule kwiqabane. Kwaye ngelo xesha kuphela kwendlela yokufikelela ngokuvisisana nosapho.
Kukho ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo phakathi kweemvakalelo nezenzo. Xa siluthando, izenzo zethu malunga neqabane ziqwalaselwe ziimvakalelo zethu. Ke, xa inkanuko iqala ukuhamba, yizenzo ezinokuba ngumthombo wobugqi ozondla ubudlelwane bakho, zizalisa ngothando kunye nothando. Le yinyani engqiniweyo: Yenza oku ngokungathi uyamthanda kwaye uhlonipha iqabane lakho (yenza nje ukuba injalo), kwaye ke umthanda ngokwenene. Zithathele isigqibo sokuba awufuni nje ukuba uphile ecaleni komntu, kodwa hlala ngolonwabo.
Yiba nobulali, musa ukufuna iqabane. Nokuba uthe walityela okanye ngempazamo, mncede agcine ubuso, abe kwicala lakhe. Cinga ngala mazwi ofuna ukuwathetha, ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukwenza ngcono kunokuvuma ukungqubana.
Eyona nto ixhaphakileyo, eyomeleleyo isiseko sobudlelwane
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Yiba nesibindi xa kubalulekile. Musa ukoyika ukuya kuxolelwaniso, musa ukulinda ukuba utyhile okanye ukuthoba. Khumbula ukuba unento eqhelekileyo malunga nosapho lwakho, kwaye oku kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nesibindi.
Zabalazela ukuze ube uqhelekile phakathi kwamalungu onke osapho. Ngale ndlela, izithethe zosapho, izinto ezinomdla, izinto ezinomdla, imithetho, ezidityanisiweyo, njl njl, zisebenza ngokugqibeleleyo. Esona sixhaphakileyo, esomeleleyo, esomeleleyo, esomeleleyo, esomeleleyo, esomelela ngokomelela.
Musa ukulindela iqabane lakho ukuba lifunde ukufunda iingcinga zakho okanye ukuqagela iminqweno yakho. Ufuna ukuhamba nomyeni wam kwiimuvi? Ndixeleleni, musani ukulinda ade abe yindoda yokwenene, azokumema.
Sukuzama ukukhululeka kubudlelwane, yonke iqhubela phambili. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uphile kubudlelwane ongonelisekanga-kodwa ungaphili kubudlelwane obunje, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuthetha neqabane lakho, uxoxa ngazo zonke iingxaki ezibalulekileyo. Kunzima ukuyithetha ukuba zingaphi iintsapho ezinokusindiswa kuqhawulo mtshato ukuba abantu bayazi ukuba banokuthetha njani.
AmaGrikhi ayezimisele ngokuhambelana 'nemifanekiso yokungavisisani. " Ukufikelela ngokuvisisana nosapho, musa ukufuna ukudibanisa omnye komnye, ukuba ube yinye yazo. Hlala, hlalani nelizwi lakho, kodwa ulilungelelanise ngezwi leqabane. Kwaye oku akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kwentlonipho, ukwamkelwa ngokuhlwa. Kule nto kufanelekile ukukhangela imvelaphi yemvisiswano kusapho.