Ukuba le nto ayikwenzi, ndikhonkxa eyona nto iphambili.
Nye. "Sisoloko sihleli" . YINTONI? Ukuba uhlala uhlala kwaye yonke indawo ihamba nesiqingatha sakho, ke kufanelekile ukuba ucinge ukuba kufanelekile oko. Ukungathembani? Ukunqongophala kwezilangazelelo zakho? Umntu ngamnye, nosapho, kufuneka abe nesithuba sakho-izinto zabo zokuzonwabisa, iintlanganiso zabahlobo, njl njl. Ukuba amaqabane anezinto zabo, bahlala benento yokuthetha ngayo. Ukongeza, ngenxa yokwahlula-nye, bahlala bonwabile omnye komnye.
2. "Ingxabano inokusonjululwa ebhedini" . Ewe kunjalo, ayinakwenzeka ukuba ayikhupheli, kodwa nako akufanele unxibelelanise ungquzulwano ngesondo. Oku kunokukhokelela kwimiphumo engathandekiyo. Akumangalisi ukuba oochwephesha bezesondo abafanayo: babone ubudlelwane ngaphandle kwegumbi lokulala! Uninzi lwabantu lunzima ukwenza uthando emva kokuba amaza eemvakalelo ezimbi ezikhoyo. Kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo.
3. "Abantu bayathandana bacinga ngokufanayo" . Intiyo yale ntsomi ijamelana neengxaki ezinjengokuthi "Awundiqondi" kwaye "Awundivayo." Kwaye konke kuba kubonakala ngathi iqabane elingagqibekanga kufuneka licinge kwaye lifuna into efanayo nathi. Kwimeko egqithisileyo, funda iingcinga zethu kwaye uphinde ufunde kunye nabo. Kodwa ngamnye kuthi unemithwalo yayo ngamava obomi, uluvo lwakho kunye nomkhwa. Ke ngoko, ndiyathemba ukuba iinjongo kunye nezinto abanomdla kwintanda yakho baya kuyithobela, abangebobulumko. Akukho nto imbiyo ngayo. Kufuneka ufunde ukumamela kunye nokuva omnye komnye.
ezine. "Izibini ezonwabileyo azifungi" . Sele ndiyichazile kwenye yezithuba zangaphambili, ke andiyi kuphonononga. Ndikukhumbuza nje ukuba ngokudibeneyo "Izibini ezonwabileyo" kunye "neengxabano" akukho nto ichasene noko.
Ntlanu. "Ukuzalwa komntwana kusondela" . Uninzi lusebenzisa le ntsomi xa befuna ukutshata nendoda okanye basuse imeko yeemvakalelo kusapho. Itshekishwe-ayisebenzi! Ukuvela komntwana kunokujika kube kuvavanyo olukhulu kubudlelwane. Unonophelo olusisigxina, olungenalo ebusuku, utshintsho lupheleleyo kwi-opengogord-yonke le nto ayizuko lungonwabi, kodwa nakwingxaki. Ibhinqa lixakeke ngokupheleleyo, ngenxa yoko umntu uziva elahliwe. Kwaye endaweni yokubonelela ngenkxaso oyintandokazi apho akhutyekisiweyo.
6. "Abantu abatshatileyo babona ulonwabo olungalunganga kwisondo" Okanye "ukwendlwa kwesondo kube yinkqubo." Ngokuchasene noko, ubudlelwane bexesha elide bongeza iimvakalelo ezilungileyo kuphela kunye nemvakalelo yokusondelelana enkulu. Ukongeza, amaqabane ayazazana ngakumbi kwaye unokunika iimvakalelo ezikhanyayo ngakumbi.
7. "Ubomi bosapho obonwabisayo bunethamsanqa." Noba yintoni! Ubomi bosapho obonwabisayo sisiphumo somsebenzi wamaqabane ngokwakho, ezi zizityalo mali zabo rhoqo kwikamva elidibeneyo. Kubalulekile ukuba unqwenelele kunye nokukwazi ukwenza ukonakaliswa, yivane, nika uvuyo.
Olu ayilo luhlu luphela, kodwa endaweni yesi-7 ephezulu. Uyazazi, ungathintela amanye amaxesha angathandekiyo. Ngendlela, ukwandisa amava akho kunye nokutshabalalisa iintsomi, kubalulekile ukuba ndityelele umtshato wesibini esitshatileyo esihlala kunye iminyaka emininzi-unokufunda kakhulu;)