"Yintoni ingxaki yakho? Kodwa ndinayo ... "- uqala incoko ngomhlobo obobuka egxalabeni lakho. Yazi ukuba loo nkxaso ingumntu onobubele kwaye utshaba alunqweneli. Kwimeko yoxinzelelo, kufuneka ukwazi ukuziphathela ngokuchanekileyo kwaye unike ngokuthe ngqo isahlulo kunye nomlinganiso wenkxaso osweleyo umntu osondeleyo. Ngengcebiso enobungozi, njengoko oogqirha bezengqondo bajonga le meko kwaye ziziphi iingcebiso ezinikwayo.
"KUFUNEKA UQHAWULE!"
Udiniwe kakhulu kukumamela intombi ephumayo ukuba usathanda "ngaphambili", esele ihamba nentombazana entsha. Siyakuqonda, kuba ezo meko zinabahlobo ngakwaThixo ngamnye - kuphela egxothiweyo emsebenzini, abanye bagxothwa ngamatyala, abanye abajamelana nendima yomzali. Kwezi meko, awuyi kunceda kwinkxaso enye, kubalulekile ukubanika umntu uluhlu lweengcebiso ezisebenzayo emntwini. Kodwa kufuneka nje uboniswe ngesithembiso esingalunganga, kodwa ngokuchasene noko: "Massha, ndiyakuthanda kwaye ndinqwenelela okuhle ebomini. Intombi yam ilibale izemidlalo ngaphambili, masizame ukuya ejimini kunye? "
Ndixelele intombi indlela yokuphilisa intliziyo eyaphukileyo
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"Ngokukhawuleza i-subsing ..."
Ingabonakala ngathi umntu unento yonke: Sebenza ngomvuzo onesidima, izindlu, ithuba lokubhabha kwiholide amaxesha ali-nye ngonyaka - yintoni enye onokuyifumana? Uninzi lwabantu kunzima ukuqonda ukuba uxinzelelo lunokuvela ibonakala ngathi ikrakra. Oogogo wethu baya kuqaphela ukuba zonke iingxaki zivela kwindalo. Nangona kunjalo, oochwephesha bengqondo bakhala ngokungazenzisiphesheya ngokungxama malunga nemeko yomntu. Rhoqo kuvela iingxaki zokuzithemba kwaye ingcali kuphela iya kunceda ukujongana nazo. Ndixelele abafowunelwa be-psychologistmest umhlobo wakho, kwaye kungcono ukuya naye ukuze akwazi ukwamkelwa kunye.
"Kulungile, ngaba yingxaki?"
Khumbula: Awunako ukuzithoba iimvakalelo zabanye abantu. Isibakala sokuba kunokubonakala ngathi lithambekele kwabanye, ijika ikhuthaze abanye ngengqondo kwabanye. Uthando lokuqala, iNdawo yokuNgaza, i-Gossip, i-Gossip Geagogia ngasemva, ukunqongophala kwemali - kuzo zonke ezi ngxaki ungadlula ngaphezulu kwesinye kwaye uphume kubo ophumeleleyo. Kuyabonakala ukuba umhlobo wakho akanaso uphawu oluqhubekayo- kwaye asilotyala lakhe. Yenza inceba kwaye uzama ngokunyaniseka ukuxhasa umntu. Kwaye ukuba isimo sengqondo esifanayo somhlobo sikubonisa, kungcono ukuba umxelele ngokunyaniseka ngayo kwaye ahambe okwethutyana.
Cebisa umhlobo wengcali yobuchule
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"Amami wethu asebenza kwimisebenzi emithathu, kwaye wena ..."
Amaxesha otshintsho - abantu abancinci banamhlanje, ngokutsho kwezengqondo, bathambekele ekuzicikizeni. Oku kungachazwa ngokufumaneka kolwazi, imeko ye-psychoanalysis kunye nenqanaba eliphakamileyo loxinzelelo lwemihla ngemihla. Ngenxa yezi ngcinga zingezantsi, iingcinga ezingenamdla kunye neengxaki zokwenyani zengqondo. Akunamsebenzi ukuba uzalwe ngokwakho - uqonde iingxaki ezinjalo njengezinyo okanye i-angina. Awuyi kwenza ngathi abanakuzithoba okanye bazame ukuzinyanga? Ke kule meko, kuya kufuneka uqhagamshelane nengcali.