Phantse kuwo nawuphi na umfazi, elinye lawona maxesha achulumancisayo liza kwi-gynecologist, kwaye olu lonwabo alusoloko lumnandi. Sele sithethile ngendlela i-sort, nokuba iingcali ezipholileyo zinokubakho, ukanti ukubonisana kukagqirha kuyimfuneko kube kanye ngonyaka. Ngamanye amaxesha sizixhalabisa kangangokuba asinakukwazi ukugxila kwaye sikubuze imibuzo emnandi kakhulu. Sigqibe kwelokuba sikuncede kwaye silungiselele uluhlu oluncinci lwemicimbi ephambili yengcali yakho edla ngokuba nexhala labafazi abaninzi.
Ungakuqonda njani ukuba andinazo iingxaki kumjikelo?
Ugqirha wakho we-gynecologist kufuneka axoxe nawe ixesha lomjikelo wakho-sisiseko sesiseko. Izalathisi eziqhelekileyo zithathwa njengemhaga ukusuka kwiintsuku ezingama-21 ukuya kwezingama-35. Ukuphambuka kwelinye icala okanye kwelinye icala kunokuba kuthathelwa ingqalelo umqondiso wokufuna uncedo kwingcali. Rhoqo malunga neengxaki ezinkulu ngenkqubo yokuzala, lulibaziseko okanye umjikelo omfutshane kakhulu.
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Kutheni ukuqaqadeka kubangela ukungonwabi?
Imvakalelo engathandekiyo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo akufuneki ibe yinto eqhelekileyo ebomini bakho, ngakumbi ukuba ixesha elide ukuba yonke into ilungelelwano. Izizathu zokuba ungavuyeli ukuba usonwabele nomntu wakho othandekayo, kwaye uninzi lwengqondo ngokwengqondo, kwaye ke i-Gynecologist inokukuguqulela kwingxaki yengqondo eya kuqonda kwingxaki enzima. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lweentlungu ngexesha lika-Itity sisiphumo sosulelo okanye ukuvuvukala, ekunzima kakhulu ukujongana nako ngaphandle kokuzibandakanya kwengcali.
Kukangaphi kufuneka udlule kwiimvavanyo kwi-STD?
Ewe kunjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi, sicela uncedo xa siqala ukusasaza iimpawu ezingathandekiyo, kwiimeko ezinjalo kukho rhoqo izifo, ukuphuculwa kwayo kunokuhlolwa ngokufanelekileyo. Kwaye okwangoku, nokuba awuziva ucinga ngokungathandekiyo iimvakalelo, kodwa awukwazi ukuqhayisa iqabane eliqhelekileyo, kuya kufuneka ujonge iqabane lakho, kufuneka uhlole emva komntu ngamnye onxibelelana naye nomntu omtsha, vumela ukuba ikhuselwe.
Ndibene…
Xa i-gynecologist ibuza umbuzo malunga nenani lamaqabane, akakho kubuqu, kodwa kuphela kwinzala yobungcali. Akukho sidingo sokukhohlisa ingcali nathi, thina, sikhulisa ubungakanani babo, ke ngoko unqanda ukufumanisa isifo kwaye uwabele unyango olufanelekileyo. Akukho mntu uya kukugweba (ukuba ingcali inobuchule) kwaye ayiyi kuba yingcambu.