Xa umfazi esonjululwe ukuba azale umntwana wokuqala, uhlala esoyika. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi bayakuthanda kangangokuba ababoni ukuba bazale kangakanani na abantwana ngakumbi nabantwana ngakumbi. Kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo, inani leentsapho ezinkulu likhula ngokuzinzileyo: abantu abaselula baziva benentembelo ngakumbi kubuchule babo, okuthetha ukuba ungazala ngokuzolileyo. Makhe siqonde ukuba zeziphi izinto eziphakamileyo kwaye ziyisixhobo xa sisenza usapho olukhulu kwaye olunobuhlobo.
Ayingabo bonke abantwana abaya kuphoswa
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Uya kuba nezibonelelo ezongezelelweyo
Emva kokuzalwa komntwana wesithathu, isibini, njengommiselo, vuka ngeengxaki ezinkulu ngezemali. Oku akumangalisi, kuba kwanomntwana omnye entsatsheni kufuna iindleko ezininzi, kuthetha ntoni ukuba babini okanye ngaphezulu abantwana. Kule meko, kukho izibonelelo ezahlukeneyo kunye nezibonelelo eziya kunceda usapho aluhli ngokupheleleyo.
Abantwana bakho baya kufezekisa ngakumbi
Njengommiselo, abantwana abavela kwiintsapho ezinkulu bahlala bephumelela, ukusukela ebuntwaneni beqhele ukuhlala kwiimeko zoKhuphiswano oluPhezulu. Kunqabile ukuba umntwana wakho abe ngumntu omdala ozingcayo, ukuba usebutsheni bakhe, usetyenziselwa ukwabelana nabanye nabantakwabo bonke, ngaphandle kwentsapho enkulu, unokufunda indlela yokwenza inyathelo lakho ukuba liya kuba luncedo ngelinye ishishini.
Ufundisa ukuzimela emntwaneni
Uninzi lwabantwana kwiintsapho noodade abaninzi bayaliqhelana nalo mfanekiso, umama odiniweyo ovela kumandla okugqibela alungiselela isidlo sangokuhlala sivela kule meko. Umntwana kufuneka afumane indlela yokuphuma kwimeko apho abantu abadala bengayi kumnceda, kodwa ayingomntwana ozimeleyo - iphupha lomntu?
Ngokwemvelo, kukho nemizuzu yokudala usapho olukhulu kakhulu. Amaxesha amaninzi, abantu abanakulungelwa njengababunzima, ngenxa yezinto ezininzi ezivela, zihlala zikhula zibe sisikhubekiso kwaye uqhawulo mtshato. Kwaye ukuhlala umfazi omnye onabantwana abane okanye abahlanu - uvavanyo lokwenyani.
Qiniseka ukuba unokubanika bonke abantwana
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Qiniseka ukuba unokubanika bonke abantwana
"UThixo unike i-bunny, unike kwaye uLeng": Ibinzana elifumene i-curratity enkulu kwiinethiwekhi zentlalontle kwaye ngoku ifunyenwe, endaweni yoko, imilo ye-comic. Nangona kunjalo, yonke into ebomini ayisiyo rosy. Asingabo bonke ababini abakwaziyo ukujongana nomntwana omnye, kuthetha ntoni malunga neqela. Ewe, unokufuna usapho olukhulu, kodwa ukuba iminqweno yakho iza ngokuchasene nokukwazi ukuthintela iingxaki.
Umama uya kuba nzima ukukhathalela
Xa ngaphezulu komntwana omnye, umfazi kuye kwafuneka abingelele iiyure zokusebenza ukuze abeke umntwana ezinyaweni zakhe, kwaye mhlawumbi ucinge ukuba unabantwana abahlanu abagulayo ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo. Kuyacaca ukuba ukuba ngumsebenzi ophumelelayo kwiimeko ezinjalo akunakwenzeka. Ngaba ukulungele oku?
Akukho mntu urhoxisiweyo
Inani elikhulu labazalwana noodade banokuya kuzo zombini baxhamla kwaye babe yityhefu ubudlelwane kusapho. Ngokwemvelo, awuyi kuba nakho ukuhlawula ilinganenkene kubo bonke abantwana, ngenxa yokuba abanye babo baya kuziva benengxaki yokomelela. Zilungiselele ukubonakaliswa kobundlobongela babantwana kwiizalamane ezincinci zokutsala umdla wakho.