Abantwana bakopa abazali babo - kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bayoyika. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, izityalo zilungisiwe kwi-subconstoning yethu, ethi kamva ibonakaliswe kwimodeli yobudlelwane bawo, isimo sengqondo sabo, isimo sengqondo sabo kunye nomzimba wabo, abantu ababathandayo. Akunakwenzeka ukuzikhusela kuzo zonke iimpazamo, kodwa kubalulekile ukunciphisa inani labo kwizinto ezithile. Funda malunga nokuCinkco zemfundo onokuzivuma kwizinto zethu.
"Shahila!"
Mhlawumbi into yokuqala echaphazela umama ngumyinge wentombi yakhe kuye emzimbeni wakhe. Ukuba awuvumelanga umntwana kwasebusaneni ukubaleka ezenziwa ze nasekhaya, ayonakalisa izandla, wagculela umzimba wakho, kwaye akazange athethe ngesondo, izinto zimbi. Le ntombazana isafunda ukuba yintoni ubomi obusondeleyo, kodwa ayikwazi ukonwaba ade afike kwi-psychologist. Imfundo engqongqo kwiNqanaba leNqanaba eliPhakathi iqinisekisa umbono wokuba ubunqunu, isondo kunye nezinye izinto eziqhelekileyo.
"Ewe, akukho mntu uya kutshata"
Intombi yakho izalelwe njengento eyongezelelekileyo kwindoda, kodwa ibe njengomntu ozimeleyo. Yifunde kuye kwi-iron, upheke kwaye uzalise nezinye iimbopheleleko zekhaya ukuze azinyamekele de ifumane umvuzo owaneleyo wokuqesha umncedisi wokutyela. Sibethelela ingcinga yokuba ubomi buxanduva oluqhelekileyo, ukuze kwixesha elizayo aliyi kukhalaza ngomyeni ovuthayo, kodwa shiya iqabane elingafezekanga lemicimbi yezezindlu.
Vuka intombi eluthandweni kunye nenkathalo
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"Ulutsha alukho Ngonaphakade"
Hayi! Ulutsha luhlala kanye njengoko uziva mncinci. Jonga iifoto zikatat'omkhulu: Sele ku-30 bakhangeleka kwisibini seminyaka ubudala abadala, ingeyiyo yonke intombazana yale mihla. Sukuyicinezela le ntombazana ngamagama makatshatshazelwe, sibele abantwana kwaye senze konke kufuneka sibe yi-30. Uya kuthatha isigqibo kwaye athathe isigqibo sokuba ufuna abantwana okanye bathathe isigqibo ukungaqhubeke. Into ephambili kukuba wenza ukhetho ngokwakhe kwaye onwabile.
"Kulungile, ndilumkile, ndiyathetha!"
Akukho sidingo sokukhathalela umntwana-sikhathalele ukhuseleko sayo kwaye ufunde imigaqo yolumkiso, kodwa ungazikhuseli iimpazamo. Awufuni intombi ukuba iphile nawe ekukhuleni kwaye icele ukuhamba kunye neentombi? Siyayiqonda indlela yokuqalisa ukuba intombazana yakho ikhulile, kodwa sele kusanda kunyanzelekile ukuba umnike inkululeko eyaneleyo yokwenza amagqabaza akhe aze abafundise ikamva.
"Utata wakho sisidenge!"
Ukwenza umfanekiso ombi kaBawo, uyakhula kubuntu. Okubi nangakumbi, ukuba uqhekeze bonke abameli abangamadoda ekuthwaleni ubuqu. Zama ukuvuma ngokunyaniseka i-PROPY yeqabane kwaye uxoxa ngomntwana ovuthuzelileyo, kodwa ungalibali malunga nezenzo. Bonakalisa intombi yakho ukuba ubuntu bomntu buninzi kwaye akukho bantu bafanelekileyo. Ke uya kuyisindisa ekukhangeleni iNkosana, kodwa niyinike iqonde ukuba akufaneleni ukubanjwa.
"Ndikwavumelekile ukuba ninxibelelane notata!"
Xa baqhawule umtshato, bambalwa abantu abanokuqhubeka nolwalamano oluhle. Ukuba iqabane, njengoko ucinga, liyingozi emntwaneni, xhapha amalungelo akhe abazali ngenkundla. Kodwa kwezinye iimeko, musa ukunqanda unxibelelwano phakathi kwentombi notata, kungenjalo kwixesha elizayo uya kuphosa umntu wokuqala olinde ingqalelo amahla anengxaki yokufumana ingqalelo kunye nobushushu. Amantombazana akhulileyo ngaphandle kotata ahlala ephethwe bubudlelwane, avuselele i-scands kwaye ayokufumana nantoni na, ukuze afumane ingqalelo kwaye avakalelwe yimfuneko. Ndikholelwe, kunzima kakhulu kubo - musa ukuba nefuthe lakho elincinci nentombazana yakho.
Nokuba awungelilo intombi yam noTata, kufuneka anxibelelane naye
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"Ngoku undifumana"
Hayi ihlaya, ayisoyiki ngokwenene ubundlobongela. Kuya kufuneka uchaze iintombi zokuba naluphi na ugonyamelo oluvela kwabanye abantu alunampilo. Izithuko, ukuguqula iimvakalelo, ukungangqinelani, akukho nto yako ayinakukhathazeka, kwaye kumntu owonileyo kufuneka uhambe ngokukhawuleza. Xa ndandiseRussia akukho mthetho kubundlobongela basekhaya, intombazana kufuneka ikhusele kwaye ilumkise iimeko eziyingozi kwindawo yolawulo lwayo.
"Ingazama ngcono"
Kucacile ukuba umntwana akasayi kusoloko efumana ubugcisa kwaye uya kuzisa abahlanu esikolweni. Kodwa wena, njengomzali kufuneka uqale mnye ngokumdumisa ngemigudu, kwaye ngokudibeneyo xoxa ngento oyifunayo nokuba kungcono. Kungcono ukubamba umntwana kunokuba angamxeleli amazwi okuvunywa kunye nenkxaso.
"Lindela, andikuphulanga kuwe"
Nokuba ixakeke kangakanani, kuyimfuneko ukuba uqonde ukuba umsebenzi awuzukuya naphi na, kodwa umntwana uya kukhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye uya kuyeka indlwane. Ungalahli ixesha kwaye unikezele kangangemizuzu eli-10-16 ngemizuzu yokuthetha ngayo yonke into esehlabathini. Ngexesha lonxibelelwano, umntwana ufunda ukuqiqa, esebenzisana nomnxibelelanisi, ahlalutya umbono womnye umntu, uyanyamezela kwaye unikela ingqalelo. Ukuba unabantwana abaliqela, nganye nganye kufuneka uchithe ixesha yedwa, xa bengafuni kukhuphisana nomzalwana / udade othathelwe ingqalelo, kwaye unokuba nguwe.
"Jonga abanye, uphila kuzo zonke
Xa unika intombazana kumzekelo weentsapho apho ingeniso encinci, abantwana okanye abazali bayagula, awungcono wenze umntwana wakho. Ufunda ukuba neentloni ngento enayo, kwaye uzame ukuthelekisa nabanye. Ewe, kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba unethamsanqa lokuzalwa kwintsapho ekhuselekileyo, kodwa akufuneki ukuba udilize ukuze ufezekise ngakumbi.