"Abafundi abanamachaphazwe avela eJamani babekhe bafumanisa ukuba i-ogo oxytocin inceda okhenyuzileyo ukugcina ukuthembeka kunyulo lwabo. Ngaphantsi kwempembelelo yale hormone, abantu abatshatileyo bayakuthintela uluntu lwabasetyhini abangaziqhelazweni, nokuba bahle kakhulu. Ndivela kum, ndinokongeza ukuba isixa sekhanya hotho kule minyaka inyukayo kwipesenti yenqanaba lokuqokelelwa kwamava obomi.
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Phakathi kwabantu endibaqhelileyo, akukho namnye umntu onokuphumelela ngenxa yenoveli ecaleni. Kodwa amabali malunga nemiphumo emibi yentlekele ye-mimolet ties endiyinike ngokwaneleyo. Xa ndicela abahlobo bam, bakwazi njani ukuba nentshukumo ye-oxytocin, emva koko kwafumana impendulo efanayo - iindlela zemveli, ezizezi, i-vodka, i-champagne.
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