Ngaba uhlala ucinga ukuba umphefumlo wakho ufuna ukule njani? Uninzi lwabantu luya kuphendula kakubi lo mbuzo, njengoko luhlala lusiqingatha sobomi babo kwimowudi ye-autopilot okanye ulandele iitemplate zokuziphatha. Isiphumo soxinzelelo olungapheliyo, ukungoneliseki ngumgangatho wobomi, ukungabikho kobomi kuwo naliphi na ithemba.
Ngamnye wethu unokhetho. Ukukhetha ukuba ngokwakho, zikholosile, ukuba nigqithile, ukuba umphefumlo weza emhlabeni emhlabeni. Yintoni efunekayo ukuze ube nento ehambelana noko, iphumelele kwaye ilungele?
Fumana indlela yakho
Ngaba ungaphendula la mabinzana alandelayo:
• "Le nto ndiyenzayo ndingumsebenzi wokwenene. Ndonwabile ukwenza umsebenzi wam. "
• "Andixhomekekanga kuvavanyo lwabanye abantu, kodwa ndikwazi ukunyanga ukugxekwa okwakhayo."
"Ndinoluvo lwam kuyo yonke into."
• "Andizange ndizigqale ixhoba, ndinoxanduva ngezenzo zakho."
• "Ndiyalithanda lehlabathi, inobuhlobo ebantwini."
Ukuba le iyinyani, ungumntu osebenza naye owaziyo ukuba ufuna ntoni ebomini. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo? Ke lixesha lokutshintsha, kwaye inyathelo lokuqala kule ndlela kukuyeka ukwenza into engavuyiyo. Sukucinga ukuba kukho iresiphi emnandi okanye umlingo womlingo onokufumana umntu ophumeleleyo ngexesha elifutshane. I, njengogqirha wengqondo, ingcali ye-NLP, inokukhuthaza, iingcali, kodwa koku kufuneka utshintshe indlela ocinga ngayo kwaye ulungele ukuthatha uxanduva kwimiphumo yotshintsho.
U-Anna Saintanenikova
Nyaniseka kuwe
Phendula ngokunyaniseka kwimibuzo: Yintoni endiyifunayo (a) yenza yonke imihla? Yintoni inkanuko yam? Ngawaphi amandla endiya kuqala ishishini lam? Ukuba amaxesha ngamaxesha anyamalale umnqweno wokuthatha okanye awubangeli inkanuko, oku kubonisa ukuphulukana naye.
Unelungelo lokuba unqwenela, yiva. Funda ngokungazi kakuhle. Zibuze: Ndiyoyika ntoni? Yintoni oyikisayo ukuyibetha ngokungazithembi? Kholwa ukuba ihlala yezi ngcinga iphakama ekuzihlaziyeni. Funda ukujongana noloyiko lwakho. Vumela ukuba wenze iimpazamo. Lahla imikhwa emidala kunye neepateni zokuziphatha.
Qaphela ukuba kwiimeko ezininzi iingxaki ezenzeka kuwe ziziphumo zokuphendula ezenzekelayo ezenziwe phantsi kwempembelelo yokunciphisa ukukholisa ukukhulisa ngokomoya. Utshintsho. Yoyisa ubuthathaka bakho. Olu luphuhliso lwamandla obuqu.
Khetha inkuthazo ye-Aspition
Ukuba uzama ukuveza amandla akho angaphakathi, izithintelo ze-DUARE kunye nobunzima. Dibanisa umsebenzi omkhulu. Yandisa ubuchule bakho. Khumbula: Ukuphumelela kwishishini lakho, italente akwanele. Kubalulekile ukuba ubhale ukuziqeqesha, ukulungiselela ngokufanelekileyo izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka, ngenkqubo ngokucwangcisiweyo kwithagethi ekujolise kuyo.
Nantsi into esebenzayo kwinkuthazo. Yenza umfanekiso kwingcinga yakho, yongeza iimvakalelo kunye nesandi kuyo, kwaye emva koko, ngaphambi kokulala, yidlale ngokuzicamngca okanye ukucamngca.
Susa imikhwa emidala kunye neepateni zokuziphatha
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Gxila kwinto ekuzisa kwiyona njongo iphambili
Yonke imihla thatha amanyathelo kwindawo yakho yokwenyani. Ukuba usuku uzalisekisa umsebenzi omninzi, kodwa akukho namnye kubo owasondeza kwithagethi, uhlala elilize. Endaweni yokuba nolwaneliseko, uya kufumana kuphela ukucaphuka kunye nokudinwa.
Hlala ngoku
Ukwazisa-yile nto kusinika imvakalelo yokuphelela yonke imihla. Yazi iingcinga zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho abazenzayo. Nje ukuba wenze le nto, izakhono zesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo sobomi ziya kusekwa ngokukhawuleza, okuthetha ukuba uza kukhawulezisa indlela yakho kwimpumelelo.