Bayakuthiya abafazi abatshatileyo, kodwa akukho sibini sine-inshurensi ngokubonakala komntu wesithathu kubudlelwane. Abafazi abaninzi baba ziimpazamo ngabom ngamadoda atshatileyo, ngamanye amaxesha bengazi ukuba zingaphi iingxaki ezinokuzisa unxibelelwano.
Isithandwa singena ngokuxhomekeka kwiimvakalelo kwiqabane
Khawufane ucinge ukuba ulungiselela usuku lwakho nomntu omthandayo, chitha usuku lonke kwityala, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uchithe ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezimbalwa ukuba ulindele kuwe, hayi umfazi wam. Ngenxa yoko, uyabiza aze athi akayi kuba nako ukuza, njengoko befumene izicwangciso kunye nenkosikazi yakhe. Kwaye ngoku awuseyiyo ulindelo lonwabo, kodwa uqhuba kwi-hysterics. Zilungiselele "ukutshintsha kwemvakalelo."
Yintoni ingozi?
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Kuya kufuneka uzifihle iimvakalelo zakho nendoda yakho.
Enye yemizuzu ephambili yokunxibelelana nomntu ongamaziyo uba sisidingo sokufihla ubudlelwane babo. Kunzima ngakumbi kwabasetyhini abaqhelene nabo bonke abaza kuyenza. Awuyi kuba nako ukuya kumsitho njengesibini esinabahlobo, kuba ke indoda ingangena kwifoto, kwaye intsingiselo yobudlelwane bakho kukuba akukho mntu uyamkela nantoni na. Ingabetha kakhulu ukuzithemba kwakho. Ngaba uyayifuna?
Ungazithemba wena kuphela
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Ufumana kuphela "iintsalela" kuphela
Kuya kufuneka wabelane ngendoda ngalo lonke ixesha nomntu obhinqileyo, kwaye uyakuhlala ukwiindima yesibini, njengoko umfazi uhlala ephambili. Uya kuchitha intsasa nomfazi wakhe, neengokuhlwa kunye nawe, okanye ngokuchaseneyo, kwaye amiswe rhoqo kwimeko entle. Ewe, kwaye isini sakho sihlala sixhomekeke kumnqweno weqabane, kuba kufuneka ajamelane namabhinqa amabini, kwaye kunqabile ukuba luhlobo olunye umntu.
Ubusuku bunokuvela ubunzima
Awukisa usapho olufana nendoda enomntu onjalo. Nokuba unomntwana, uninzi lwemisebenzi luya kuwa emagxeni akho. Kuyathandabuzeka ukuba umntu uza kucela umngeni kumfazi wakhe, ngenxa yokuba uzale. Ithemba lolu lungiselelo alifanelekanga. Ungathembela kuncedo lomthandi otshatileyo, kodwa uhlala ukhumbula ukuba unokuzifumana ukuzonwabisa "ngaphandle komthwalo."
Uhlala kwindima yesibini
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Ukuzithemba kwakho kuya kubandezeleka yonke imihla
Uthando aluthethi ukubandezeleka, nangona kunjalo, kubudlelwane apho uhlala khona okwesibini, awunakudibana, umfazi uphulukana nexabiso layo emehlweni abo. Kwisimo sengqondo sendoda enenkosikazi-uhlobo lonxibelelwano olungenakwenzeka kunye nenkosikazi yakhe, ngokufuthi indoda inenkani, kuba umfazi wakhe unento eninzi, ngenxa yokuba akoyiki ukuphulukana nawe . Kuwo nawuphi na umfazi, isibongozo esiba luvavanyo lokwenene. Ke ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba ungene uqhagamshelo, ulungela bonke "ngo" "kwaye" nxamnye ".