Nye . Rhoqo siliva eli binzana: "Kuya kufuneka uzithande kwaye uzithathe." Nangona kunjalo, ayinguye wonke umntu oziqondayo ukuba kuthetha ntoni na. Abafazi bathetha ngokucaphuka: "Ndizithanda kakhulu, ndazizisela ingubo, ndenza i-hairstyle. Ufuna, umyeni uyamcaphukisa, abantwana beentsontelo, akanalo ithuba lokuba yedwa ... uthando kunye nokwamkelwa kwakho yenye yeendlela eziphambili zebhinqa kunye nothando, Kwaye kubudlelwane kunye nabantu obathandayo kunye nempumelelo yomsebenzi, kwaye, kunjalo, ukungabikho kweengxaki zempilo.
Masicinge ukuba yintoni Ndithanda ? Ukwenza oku, bhekisa kwi-PREAT yakho. Sinomzimba wethu omuhle, iingqondo zethu, iimvakalelo zethu, umoya wethu ... kwaye yonke le nto ifuna kakhulu ukhathalelo lwethu olonwabileyo, ingqalelo nothando. Intombazana yethu encinci ifuna ukuviwa, ilinde indumiso kunye nezipho. Kwaye endaweni yoko uva: "Hayi", "Hayi ngoku", "Sele simdala kule nto", "kufuneka ndizibingelele", "eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukunyamekela izithandwa."
Masiqale ukuzikhathalela: malunga nomzimba wakho, malunga nemvakalelo yakho, malunga nophuhliso lwakho nomphefumlo wakho!
Uthando lwakho ayisiyonto. Inako, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba nokuzingca, kodwa kuxhomekeke kumgangatho womntu ngokwakhe.
2. Khumbula ukuba Umntu uthanda amehlo akhe kwaye ufuna ingqalelo . Inkangeleko ehlaziyiweyo, isikhumba esigcinwe kakuhle, iinwele ezigudileyo kunye nevumba elimnandi, livela kuwe-yonke le nto ibaluleke kakhulu kumyeni wakho.
Kukho umgaqo obalulekileyo: Xa umyeni eze ekhaya, kubalulekile ukuba kwimizuzu engama-20 yokuqala ukumnika ixesha lakhe. Amadoda ahlala ekhalaza ukuba emtshatweni inkanuko ihamba kancinci lo mgaqo, ivula umnyango kwidyasi endala, iqala intlanganiso kunye nezikhalazo malunga nabantwana, ngolwazi olubi. Zibuze umbuzo: Kutheni le nto indoda iza ekhaya emva kosuku olunzima lomsebenzi? Ufuna izixhobo. Kuya kufuneka abuyisele amandla akhe. Ukuba akayifumani, uya kuya kwenye indawo.
3. . Ndinomdla Ubomi obusondeleyo : Vavanya umhlaba weziyolo zemvakalelo kunye, funda i-tentra, impahla kwicandelo lezesondo. Zive ukhululekile ukuba utyelele abafundi abanomdla kwesi sihloko, yiya kwivenkile yesondo. Uninzi lwesibini lomtshato siyavuma ukuba amaqabane enze uthando alusekho rhoqo njengoko ookhokho bethu benza ngaphambili. Abanye babhekisa ekutyesheni emsebenzini, abanye-kusithiwa kukungabikho kwamathuba okukhula ngokutsha ngenxa yokwabelana ngesondo ngenxa yokufika komntwana okanye ngenxa yezinye izizathu. Nangona kunjalo, kufanele ukuba iqondwe ukuba ubomi obusondeleyo budibanisa amaqabane, kubavumela ukuba bave iyonke kwaye baphelisa izilingo "ecaleni". Cinga ngempilo yakho yebhinqa kwaye akukho thuba labathi "umama weTeresa" kunye "nexhoba" kunye nenkqubo: Bonke abantwana! Ngapha koko, umntwana wakho unokuhlala ngaphandle kotata. Jonga ngokwenene imeko: Ngaba sikho isizathu sokuba umntu othile okanye into ekuthintela uthando, okanye kukho izingqengqelo ezinzulu, kwaye wena uyoyika ukuba awufuni? Kwaye ukuba kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyiqonda le ngxaki. Kuyimfuneko ukunxibelelana nengcali-i-psychologist okanye ugqirha wezesondo-kwaye usombulule zonke ezi ngxaki. Ukuba awunampilo (nokuba, okanye into ethile kumzimba wakho obhinqileyo ungahambi kakuhle), ungafiki kumyeni wam. Kungenjalo, uya kucinga ukuba awufuni, kwaye uqalise ukhathazekile nguwe.
Ubomi obusondeleyo asisiyo ngqo ngqo, sibetha umyeni wakhe, sinesisa kuyo, isokola ngokulula ngelixa ujonge ifilimu. Olu luhlobo olufanayo kunye ne-tactile fowunelwa kuyayimfuneko kwisibini esitshatileyo. Thandanani, nibe novuyo kunye nokuyila, fumana ixesha elitsha nelinomdla lokutshintsha ubomi bosapho.
ezine. Funda yiya kwingxabano kwaye wenze ngokuchanekileyo izikhalazo. Nceda omnye komnye ukuze uxoxe. Kwaye, kunjalo, ungaze ugxeke umyeni wakho phambi kwabanye abantu okanye izalamane. Ingqondo yamadoda iluhlaza kakhulu. I-ego yakhe inokuqondwa, kwaye ngenxa yoko, iingxaki ziya kuqala kwinqanaba elisenyongweni, kunye nomnqweno wokuba kunye nomfazi "ongamhloneliyo ngonaphakade!
5. Soloko uhlala umyeni wakho ukuba angaqondakali , Ngamana ungayifumana eyakho i-hobby, iimfihlo zakho zomfazi. Guqula umfanekiso wakho rhoqo. Ngamanye amaxesha "i-coquette", ngamanye amaxesha "ibhinqa-vamp", ngamanye amaxesha ifanitshala "yentombazana" elula, kwaye yonke le nto iya kunceda imbambano yakho.
6. Musa ukoyika ukuphulukana nomntu wakho kwaye Sukuzithoba ngomona . Yiba nobulumko. Musa ukuzithelekisa nabanye abafazi. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uthathe isigqibo sakho kunye nonke ukuba ungoyena mfazi uthandekayo nomama kunye nonina. Iingcamango zakho zinethuba lokwenza izinto ezibonakalayo, ngenxa yoko musa ukubanjwa kweyona nto imbi. Kwangelo xesha, hlalani phaphazela kwiimeko zosapho lwakho. Xhasa ukunxibelelana nemvakalelo nomyeni wakho, jonga umdla wakhe kunye nemvakalelo yakhe. Kwaye ukuba loo nto, jonga inqaku lokuqala: Zithande. Ukuba umfazi ngokwakhe akanamdla ngaphakathi kwakhe, akanomdla kwaye umyeni wakhe. Xa omnye wabathengi bam waqalisa ukrokrela umyeni wakhe ekuphulukaneni nomdla (kwaye mhlawumbi ngokuvukela), into yokuqala esiqale ukuyenza kukuvusa umfazi ekuvuseni. Kwaye bazoba lonke ingqalelo kunye namandla kuye. Ke xa waqalisa ukuqhuma ngokungalindelekanga (wenza imisebenzi yamandla, wakhokelela ngolungelelwano lwesondo), umyeni wakhe wafumana umntu owayenoyolo ngequbuliso kwaye emhle? Kwaye ukudunyiswa ukuthanda kwakhe, ngathi yinyoka yenyoka.
7. Kubalulekile ukuba umntu anike umntu ukuba "ukufunyanwa" . YENZA IZIGQIBO (Nokuba sesi sisombululo sodwa). Ukudumisa ngakumbi kwaye ixhase, ngakumbi nabahlobo kunye nezintombi, ngokungathi ngamathuba. Ewe kunjalo, mncede aqonde. Thetha ngeminqweno yakho kunye nezinto ozithandayo. Ngapha koko, ifuna ukuba yimfuneko kwaye ithandwa ngenxa yakho,
Khumbula ukuba ubudlelwane bubizwa ngokuba "tueal", kuba lo mnqweno wokudibana kuwo onke amaqabane akhotha ebomini bakho kunye. Ke ngoko, ngamanye amaxesha sinokufundisa eyindoda yethu ukwakha ubudlelwane obonwabisayo. Kwaye makwamkelwe omnye komnye iminyaka emininzi!