U-Olga Kazeshini wangena ngokunyuka kweenethiwekhi zentlalo emva kokuba eyalelwe ukuba le ntombazana ihlangana ne-sten gighanyan. Ukugxekwa kwaba nokunganyamezeleki kangangokuba i-KazeInch yeKazengeli yafudukela eUnited States.
Kutshanje, umntu obhinqileyo wabonakala ebomini babathandi, owathi wayenolwalamano lothando noDzhigrhagi. Amabali anjalo achukunyiswe kakhulu nguOlga. Umfazi kunzima ukwamkela inyani yokuba akukho mncinci akahambi yedwa.
Ngoku uStena uphila kumazwe, kunqabile kakhulu eRussia, ke u-Chachenko uchitha ixesha elide kwindoda yakhe, kodwa akakhawulezi ukuya eGigarhahan ukuya eMelika, kuba akanakushiya umntwana kunye nabazali apha -Ukuba uyahamba, nonke kunye.
Ulwalamano kumgama alulula, kuba nganye yee-halves ayayazi indlela umntu amthandayo achitha ngayo ixesha. Ngaphandle kwesibini ngasinye sinezilingo ezinesilingo, okukhokelela ekubambeni ngokupheleleyo ubudlelwane. Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumanise ukuba zeziphi izinto ezilungileyo nezilila zilinde abo bagqiba kwelokuba bayeke ukuya kwesinye isixeko okanye kwelinye ilizwe ixesha elide.
Zithini izinto eziluncedo?
Ixesha lamahala
Ngelixa unexesha, unokuzinikela ngokupheleleyo ngokwakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo emva kokuba ungene kubudlelwane, umdlalo wakho wokuzonwabisa, ukhathalele uye ngasemva? Ukuba eli lixesha, lixesha lokutyelela iseshoni ye-massage oye wahlehliswa ixesha elide, okanye ekugqibeleni bhalisela iikhosi zakho zamaphupha.
Unento yokuthetha malunga
Ngenxa yexesha elinayo kwisiqingatha sakho, mhlawumbi ebomini bakho kukho izinto ezininzi ezinomdla, ezazinokuxelela iqabane kwelinye ilizwe. Ukongeza, xa unganxibelelani mihla le, uqala ukuphosa olu nxibelelwano, ke yonke iSaziso sokubiza okanye umyalezo phantse umsitho.
Ubomi abokwalusa
Uninzi lweengqungquthela zenzeka kwisiseko seengxabano zendlu, kunzima ukuphikisana nayo. Indlela yemihla ngemihla ikwazi ukwaphula nkqu nolwalamano olunamandla. Ngelixa ukwindawo ekunyanzelekileyo, ubomi abuniyekise, kwaye ukuthandaza akunanyama.
Yintoni i-minus?
Ikamva liba bliarry
Eyona ngxaki iphambili yolwalamano olunjalo kukuba kunzima ukucwangcisa nakwisiqingatha esilandelayo ngonyaka. Ukuba awukatshati, ukuphuculwa kolwalamano lungaphantsi kombuzo omkhulu, kodwa imeko nganye ngumntu ngamnye kwaye, mhlawumbi, iikhilomitha zakho ezinkulu azisosithintelo.
Nganye nganye ibazimele kakhulu
Kwimeko yokwahlula ixesha elide, umntu aqhele ukusombulula zonke iingxaki ngokwayo, eza kuphazamiseka kakhulu xa uqala ukuhlala kunye. Iqabane lakho okanye ngokwakho uya kucaphuka malunga nento yokuba umntu uzama ukuphuma kwaye usombulule yonke imibuzo. Umntu uyekile ukufuna ubudlelwane, kuba wayeqhele ukuphila ngokuzimeleyo.
Uya kuhlala ugxekwa
Uninzi lwabantu kunzima ukuqonda ukuba lubandakanya njani kubudlelwane kwaye kwangaxeshanye. Lungiselela imibuzo evela kwizalamane, izihlobo kunye noogxa abazakutyunjwa, kufanelekile ukuba uhlale unyanisekile kwiqabane lakho kwaye "khange kubekho ukusondela?"