Pasinei nenyaya yekuti vanhu varipo kufunga kuti: "Ini handina zana remazano, uye ndine zana shamwari," izvo zvinoruramisa izvo zvaungaverengere kubatsirwa kwaunoita vari muhukama hushamwari, kukwereta mari uye kupa chikwereti kushamwari dzaunoda kuti uchenjere. Kana Muscovites akaparadza mubvunzo wefurati, saka shamwari dzakabvumirana mari.
Ehe, zvese zvinoenderana nehukama uye mavara sekutora njiva uye kubvunza. Tora chikwereti kubva kushamwari - haisi chaiyo teboo. Kupfuura zvese, kwenguva dzose dzekuvapo hwevanhu, pakanga paine mienzaniso yakawanda apo shamwari yakatora chikwereti uye yakapa kunyange pasina zviyeuchidzo. Asi zvakaitikawo zvakasiyana: kana vanhu, kunyange zvishoma, uye vanovimbisa kudzoka kubva muhomwe, mupfungwa chaiyo yeshoko rakanyangarika, kunyangwe ivo vakabatana neushamwari kwenguva refu kubva kuKindergarten. Chii chandingati? Chinhu chimwe chete chakadai: Kusachena uye kusarudza, izvi zvivakwa zvehunhu zvinogona kuzviratidza pachako mumamwe mamiriro kunyangwe mune ivavo vanhu vaunoita sevanyatsoziva. Naizvozvo, zvinogona kutaurwa uine chivimbo chekuti ushamwari hwousina kuongororwa nenguva uye zvisingaonekwi nemanzwiro kana zviitiko, kazhinji pfungwa, kuti unzwe kunzwa kwakakura uye kwakapenya kwakaremerwa kana kudzoserwa nezvinorehwa.
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Nenzira yakanaka, pamwe, inofanira kunge iri seiyi: Kana iwe ukava nechokwadi chekuti unogona kupa, usatore! Kana iwe uchida kutora mari yakakura, usatora shamwari, tora chikwereti mubhangi, uye ipapo iwe haungave uine zvikonzero nei usingakwanise kudzorera basa. Ehe, zvimwe, vanhu vanouya, avo vasingadi kuremedza shamwari dzake nematambudziko avo uye vanorega hukama navo kana kamwe kamwe mamwe matambudziko akamuka. Aya vanhu vanonzwisisa vari mumudzi. Asi pakati pevakuru, uye vanoita kunge vanhu vanonzwisisa, kune avo vanofunga nezve chimwe chikonzero (kuvapo kwechimwe chikonzero (kuvapo kwechikwereti nezvikwereti pamusoro pavo, semuenzaniso) vanoramba vachikurukura mari ikozvino vatovazivana. Uye mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, kana munhu achiziva mamiriro echokwadi emumwe munhu anomubvunza muchikwereti, anofanira kunzwisisa kuti njodzi dzipi, nekuti panogara paine mukana wekuti chikwereti chacho chisingadzokeri kwaari. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa uye magweta muvanhu vakadaro zvinorayirwa kunyora zvisungo zvezvikwereti zveshamwari zvinokumbirwa muchikwereti. Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, bvunza anokwereta kuti agamuchire kuti akatora yakawanda sei uye apo iyo mari yakatarwa ichadzoka. Nenzira yomuzvarirwo, kune nzira yakadaro kushandura hushamwari musango repamutemo hazvina kugadzirira. Asi kana zvasvika pamari, huwandu hukuru uye zvikwereti - hachisi chinhu chekuita nemanzwiro uye nemanzwiro, zviri pedyo neyakaenzana, saka kana usina chokwadi, usada kuisa pangozi uye kurasikirwa neshamwari, ipapo zvimwe usarega chikwereti, kana kutora risiti. Nekuti iwe wakafanana neanokwereta, iwe unokonzera kutengeserana uku uye unofanirwa kuzvisimbisa.
Kana iri nyaya yematombo eushamwari mune yakafara izwi reShoko, pano pane imwe neimwe uye zvinoenderana neushamwari ichi, nekuti vamwe vanhu vachange vachichema pane zvimwe zvinhu, vamwe vakatsamwa uye vachishuvira zvakanyanya ne Shamwari haambotombo kutaura.
Taba muushamwari zvinoenderana nehunhu hwehushamwari uhu pachako
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Zvichida misoro yakadaro, pamwe, inogona kurapwa neshamwari yemumwe wako, kazhinji, haazokanganwira shamwari zhinji. Asi pane izvo zvinopesana nemutemo. Kazhinji chigumbuso chigumbuso mune hushamwari hukama hunova kutengesa, izvo zvinogona kuratidzwa mukupararira kwerunyerekupe pamusoro peshamwari yake yepedyo kana "ichimanikidza" ruzivo rwakavanzika kune mamwe manhamba echitatu. Uyu maitiro haakwanise kuregererwa shamwari yepedyo anovimba nemi.
Vamwe vanhu vari muushamwari vane godo uye vanoda kuti vana vave shamwari chete navo chete. Kazhinji inova kana isiri taboo, saka chinetso mukubatana nemunhu asina kuchena uye anogona kukonzera kupatsanurwa.
Kune vanhu vasingafarire shamwari dzavo kuti vatangezve miganhu yemunhu, vakabvunza mibvunzo yakawandisa - kazhinji, vakakwira kwavasina kunyatsotaurwa. Izvi zvakare hazvina basa, pane zvimiro zvemunhu mumwe munhu anoda kunzwisisa uye kutora.
Hushamwari hunowanzo kuvakwa pane kugamuchirwa kwemumwe munhu, sezvo zvakasikwa zvakamuita iye. Naizvozvo, zvomuzvarirwo, isu takamirira hutsinye hushamwari kwatiri. Chikamu chikuru chehukama hushamwari mukuvimbika kuvimba kunoshanda kune ese mastheres ehupenyu. Naizvozvo, mukushamwaridzana hazvigamuchirwi nhema, kutyorwa kwemirairo yekuvanzika, kusachena, kushushikana nehafu yechipiri kuseri kweshamwari.