Ndine chokwadi chekuti munhu wese ane mafungiro awo pamubvunzo uyu. Zvinoratidzika kunge zviroto - ichi chigadzirwa chose chekusaziva, asi kune misangano inoshamisa muchiroto nevedu vadiwa. Semuenzaniso, tinowanzo funga nezvemumwe munhu, chimwe chinhu chisingatore mumwe munhu, usave nenguva yekutaura zvakanaka. Ko hope dzinogona here kutibatsira hurukuro yedu kune zvinodhura vanhu, ita chimwe chinhu chisina kutaurwa?
Heano mimwe mienzaniso yezviroto zvakadaro.
"Musikana wangu aive oda kubereka. Sezvo isu taive mumaguta akasiyana, ivo havana kutaura mazuva ese. Chinhu chakajeka, pese pandakabvunza kuti: "Watova here?" Asi mwana wake akange asiri kukurumidza. Uye ipapo ndakarota nezve zvatinosangana naye, uye anga atova nedumbu. Uye ndakaziva kuti zvino iye akazvara. Uye kunzwa kwaive kudedera, kwakasimba. Kunzwa kwekufara kwemwoyo wose kune mumwe munhu. Mangwanani takasarudza - ndikarota usiku hwake. Uye, zvakare, chimwe chinhu chakafara, chakachena. Usiku hwakatevera iye akazvara.
Kana muenzaniso, nenzira, zvakare nezve nhumbu uye kubereka mwana. Zvimwe chete mune ino mamiriro emuviri uye mweya vakadzi hope dzerudzi urwu rwezviroto?
"Ini nemusikana wangu nechikepe pachikepe - mitambo kayak. Tiri kupfeka oiri, asi rwizi ruchine simba. Isu takasimba kwazvo. Uye rwizi rwegomo - kune mvura yemvura, kuyerera nekukurumidza. Ini ndinogara pamberi, ari kumashure. Ini ndinopopotera: uye uko mweya uri. Pfungwa yangu yekupedzisira: "Ndiri kubata izvozvi, ndinoda mhepo!" Ndakamuka ndichivhunduka. Chokwadi ndechekuti uyu musikana wangu aive zuva nezuva aifanira kubereka. Ndakaedza kumubata naye. Kwemazuva akati wandei, haana kupindura, uye ipapo zvakazoitika kuti aive nebasa rakaoma uye rakaoma uye nekutya kuti mwana anoshaya mweya, iye aishanda. Nenzira, zvino zvinhu zvese zvinoshamisa pamwe navo. "
Kana imwezve:
"Ndiri pabasa renyu." Uye musikana wangu anouya kwandiri mukuzorora ndokuti: "Ndauya kuzotaura zvakanaka, tiri kuenda. Zvachose! (Muhupenyu chaihwo, nemurume wake chaizvo enda parwendo rurefu kwemakore akati wandei pasina zuva rekudzoka rekudzoka uye kunyange, zvimwe, vasina hanya neni. Zvandinonzwisisa zvino zvakadii kuenda kwake chaiko! Isu tinotanga kutaura zvakanaka, zvinosuruvarisa, kumbundira. Ini ndinomuudza kuti ndaizomusuwa iye nemurume wake, nemajee avo, akashata uye nekutora chikamu kwechokwadi muhupenyu hwangu. Uye panguva imwe chete iyoyo vanofara munhambadzi yavo yeushingi. Uye ndinomuka nekusuwa kwekuparadzaniswa uye kukunda kweizvo zvandinoona chiitiko chakakosha muhupenyu hwevanhu vari muhupenyu. "
Nenzira, ini handitaure nezve zviroto izvi. Vasiyei sedanho. Zvichida uye mune chiitiko chako pane zviroto, mune kutaurirana pamwe nemweya yevadiwa kwaive chaiko. Kunyangwe pedyo kupfuura chokwadi chaunganzwe uye kuziva zvinoitika kwavari.
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Maria Dyachkova, Psychologist, mhuri yekurapa uye inotungamira kudzidziswa kwekuwedzera kwekudzidzira kudzidzisa Center Mika Kika Khazin