Kuti ubatanidze kutaurirana kwenguva pfupi pasina kuzvipira, saka maitiro ekuvaka hukama hwakatemerwa hwakareba hwakawanda hwakaoma. Unogona kuve nematambudziko ese apfuura uye kutya kwevana uye matambudziko parizvino anozoshayiwaidzana neakasarudzwa. Kana iwe watosangana nemudiwa wako, edza kushanda pamwe chete. Uye avo vasati vawana rudo, tinotibatsira.
"Anondipwanya moyo"
Achipona kamwe chete murwere naiye mudiwa, uchave wakangwarira - izvi zvinotsanangurwa uye zvakajairika. Nekudaro, zvakakosha kutarisa mamiriro ezvinhu chaizvo uye anzwisise kuti vaviri vevakaroora vasina kubudirira havareve kuti haumbofi wakasangana nemunhu wako. Usatya kuwana pfungwa dzisina kunaka, nekuda kwehupenyu humwe hwakanaka hachigone. Zviri nani kudzidza wakasarudzwa uye kuverenga zviratidzo zvine njodzi zvinoratidza kuti psyche yayo isina kugadzikana, iyo ichatungamira mukuparadzaniswa. GAP ine munhu akakwana haazounze iwe kurwadziwa kwakawanda, nekuti kuparadzaniswa, kana zvikaitika, zvichaitika mushure mekutaurirana kwakadzikama mune toni yakadzikama uye sarudzo yekubatana, nzira yekugara.
Kutya kwako kubva pane zvakapfuura kupindira munguva iripo
Kana iwe uine ruzivo rwakashata kubva kuhukama hwakapfuura, ita kusimbisa pane nyaya:
Ndedzipi sarudzo dzakakosha dzandakabvuma muukama uhu?
Ndakatsungirira here chimwe chinhu chakanditsamwisa kana chakagumburwa, nekuda kwekuchengetedza hukama?
Ini ndakaronga hysteria kana kutsamwisa mhiko dzekukwezva kutarisa kwevanhu kwatiri?
Ndakavanza manzwiro angu echokwadi kuti ave munhu akafarirwa naye?
Ini ndakapa zvakawanda, asi handina kunzwa zvakaenzana?
Achipindura "Hongu" kana mubvunzo mumwe chete, iwe unofanirwa kushandira musoro iwe pachako pachako kana kubata psychologist uyo anobatsira pedyo neGestalt.
"Handidi kujaira"
Kazhinji kazhinji uye marefu kuti munotaurirana nemunhu, iyo inoswederana pedyo. Vasikana vazhinji vanotya kuwira murudo nemurume uya kusvikira vaona nhanho dzekutanga kubva kwaari - rinoratidzika kwavari kuti murume anoenda navo pazuva rakangomirira bonde. Kana iwe uchinyatsofunga kudaro, iwe unofanirwa kushanda nekuzvishingisa. Varume ndizvozvo chaizvo vanhu vamwe chete vanotya kurambwa nemunhu anogona kugara achikurudzirwa, kunyange achihwanda kumashure kwemask ye "murume" ekuzvivimba, uye nekungwarira paukama nevakadzi ava kunyatsofarira. Enda kumurume ane moyo wakavhurika uye uwane iwo manzwiro akafanana kubva kwaari - Koshesa nguva, uye kwete tarisiro yekubudirira kuroora. Kazhinji mazuva akati wandei ane munhu anonakidza achave akakosha pakukura kwako kupfuura hukama hwakareba neiri mukomana anokweretesa uyo asina chekuita newe.
Kutaurirana nevanhu vakasiyana uye kuwedzera hupenyu hwako hwehupenyu
"Ini ndoda kutsvaga sarudzo iri nyore"
Nechimwe chikonzero, vasikana vanotenda kuti varume vakanaka vanozvitsvaga vakadzi kwavari - vanonyatso simbisa vasikana vakakwirira vane bvudzi refu. Nditende, kazhinji murume uyu haatombofunga nezvekuti kwakanaka sei - unowanzo funga nezvechitarisiko chako? Vanosangana, asi, usakanganwa, enda pfungwa. Mufananidzo, ruvara rwebvudzi uye kunyange ruvara rweziso runogona kuchinjwa: Unogona kugara uchiedza kutaridzika kuchiva kwako pachako. Asi uropi hwakanaka haupiwe kune vese - kukudziridza kune vakawanda. Kufamba, verenga mabhuku emhando yepamusoro, tarisa mafirimu, enda kune mairatidziro uye mumaresitorendi emubhadharo wakasiyana, taurirana nevanhu vanobva munyika yako nevatorwa. Ipapo iwe uchakwezva munhu angave ane ruzivo rwehupenyu hwako uye huwandu hwakawanda, uye kwete hukuru hwemabhureki.