Ndibuka ukuntu mu bwana bwa kure, mu myaka yashize, njyewe, umwana, yahaye amacunga, ibitoki, inkweto ... ni ababyeyi bangahe barishimye! Nanigiriye gutegereza ikindi kintu ... ibikinisho. Hano nimpano nyamukuru kumwana. Ako kanya uhinduka umutungo we, ntabwo urangira, akenshi birashyirwa kurutonde. Nk'uko byatangajwe na psychologiste byemewe, hamwe ninshuti nyazo, ibikinisho bigomba kuba bike, kugirango umwana ashobore kujya kuri buri wese.
Ni ngombwa!
- Ntugomba kwibanda ku cyifuzo cya mbere cyumwana, kuko byihuse, impinduka, wibagiwe. Niba hari ikintu gikurura ikintu mububiko cyangwa kuri mugenzi wawe, kandi ibyifuzo bikomeza byakugwa kuri wewe, bihindukirira ikindi kandi umwitondere cyane.
- Gerageza kudasohoza ibyifuzo byawe. Gusa wibwire ko uburyohe bwawe bushobora guhura. Niba kandi atari byo, umuriro wawe urashobora gukurura umwana, ariko niba atari uwe, azahita asohoka. Cyangwa azakina uyu mukino gusa.
- Impano kubana nababyeyi kubana - ntabwo arikintu kimwe. Turimo kuvuga ibintu umuntu ukuze azakoresha ku mwana, ariko akaba atarashobora kumva ko ari "we."
"Wibuke ko umwana ahita amenyereye igihembo cyibikoresho kubwimyitwarire myiza, intsinzi mukwiga, kandi itangira kuyisaba nyuma yo gusubiramo rimwe cyangwa bibiri. Kubwibyo, nibyiza kumuha ubundi: Imikino ihuriweho, kugenda, akazi.
Impano nziza Impano ni ibintu byakozwe intoki. Ni ngombwa ko ababyeyi bawe bashishikariza kurema ibikinisho n'amaboko yawe. Gerageza gukora hamwe ibyo ushobora kugura. Muri icyo gihe, witondere kuba igikinisho cyo murugo ari cyiza, cyaguzwe neza. Wumve neza ko uhuza bene wabo "ukuboko" bose - bizaba umukino mwiza hamwe nibisubizo bifatika.
- Igisha umwana gutanga - ntabwo yishimye cyane kuruta kwakira. Niba utekereza nawe, ko utuza ku mwana: azandura iboneza ryawe, kandi ikibazo cyinkingi kizashira wenyine.
Kugeza ku bijyanye no gushaka abana
Fasha umwana kwirinda "kurya cyane". Mureke ameze nka gari ya moshi, ariko ntabwo ari ngombwa guhindura gari ya moshi yose. Niba wabonye ko umwana akunda ikintu kibi, adahuza, ubugome, - guhagarika amakarito, imikino ya mudasobwa. Mu kugaruka, jya ubifate ku ishusho, ifoto yububiko, inzu ndangamurage. Muganire kubyo nkunda ibyo nta n'impamvu. Reba amazu yomyo. Hitamo uko wamanika kurukuta.
Ni ngombwa ko ababyeyi bato bamenya ko imbaraga zikabije ziganisha ku bisubizo bitandukanye. Tekereza ko wafashe igikinisho cyiza (cyiza, cyiza, mubikoresho bisanzwe, ikipe yigihugu, nibindi), kandi umwana), kandi umwana arahindukira. Icyo gukora muri uru rubanza?
- uburyohe bw'abana buhinduka vuba. Uyu munsi ntabwo nakunze impano - erega: Hisha kugeza ejo hanyuma wongere werekane.
- Ntabwo ari Doros. Akeneye kumenya ubumenyi bumwe bwo kwibaza.
- Niba igikinisho gishyizwemo, ntukihebe: wabonye impano nziza kubana zinshuti, kandi wenda umwana wawe utaha!
Imikino ya elegitoroniki
Igomba kugarukira gusa nkimbaraga no kwihangana birahagije. Mu myaka yacu, umwana azakomeza kumenya vuba ubuhanga bwo gukorana na mudasobwa, ariko urukundo rwo gusoma ruragoye cyane. Ipad ni byiza cyane kubabyeyi, biragoye cyane kubyanga. Ariko gusezeranya gutya kwanga iterambere ryinshi: Gukina imiyoboro y'abana birakura bitarenze umunsi, ariko ku isaha. Kandi inzibacyuho kuva gahunda zamahugurwa (Ishusho-inyuguti) kumarushanwa no kurasa bizabera umurabyo kandi utunguranye kuri wewe.
Urupapuro rwahendutse kubabyeyi
Impano mbi:
Tamagotchi;
Imikino ya elegitoroniki;
ibipupe hamwe nabantu batera ubwoba cyangwa babi;
ibikinisho byoroheje;
Impano yimiterere (terefone, ibinini, nibindi).
Impano nziza:
- Ibitabo;
- Ibikoresho bya muzika (xylophone, swater, kuri Dacha - Ingoma);
- Mosaic / Domino;
- Ibicuruzwa byimbaho (byinshi, ariko ntafana);
- Umwubatsi rusange;
- ibikinisho byo mu rugo;
- siporo / ibikoresho.
Uburyo bwo Gutanga - Inyandiko yawe
- Utanga igikinisho kiva ahantu hakurura akarere. Arashaka. Musabe kukwereka uko wayikoresha.
- Uhaye ikintu gishya, utamenyereye. Imyiteguro irakenewe hano. Inkuru ibanziriza iki nta shusho, noneho kubiryozwa, hamwe no gupakurura. Kandi umenye neza gukina hamwe. Niba inyungu zitakangutse, kuvanaho ibintu byose kugeza igihe gikurikira. Rimwe na rimwe, bisaba inshuro eshanu kugirango umwana amenyereye, yashimye igikinisho.
- Umwana vuba amenyereye impano zijyanye nimpamvu ngwate. Nibyiza gutanga mu buryo butunguranye, kandi muminsi mikuru - mubwinshi.