Bikunze kubaho ko dusangamo ibisobanuro byikiruhuko buri gihe turota, twohereza umwirondoro, tukira igisubizo, kandi rwiza, kandi hano ni ikiganiro. Birasa nkaho hano ashobora kugenda nabi? Mubyukuri, ibintu byose, kubera ko akenshi dukora amakosa atabitekereza. Uyu munsi twahisemo kumenya icyaba impamvu zitera kwangwa gutunguranye nyuma yikiganiro cyawe nabahagarariye isosiyete.
Ntushobora gusubiza ibibazo bijyanye nincamake
Mugushushanya incamake, akenshi ntitwibuka ko twongeyeho byimazeyo inyandiko. Mubisanzwe, urashobora kwibuka ibintu byingenzi, ariko biroroshye cyane "gutsitara". Ndetse ikosa rito mugusobanura inshingano zabo cyangwa ibitagenda neza umwaka urashobora gutura mubugingo bwabashaka. Mbere yo kujya kubaza, soma reme yongeye kuba umunebwe, gerageza kutarafata mu mutwe ukuri, ariko "Simbukira" binyuze wenyine, wige kuvuga kuri wewe utagira urupapuro mbere y'amaso yawe.
Ntabwo uzi aho ujya
Akenshi, abasaba bakeneye akazi mugihe cya vuba, gusa ntibamara umwanya wo kwiga amakuru yose yerekeye aho batanga incamake. Eychar yahise abibona. Ntabwo ari ukuri ku kiganiro uzakora kuri iyi ngingo, nyamara birakenewe gutegura ikibazo mu buryo: "Wavuga iki kuri sosiyete yacu?" Ntukemere gutangazwa.
Ntushobora no kubitekerezaho.
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Uri mubi cyane
Kimwe mu bihe bikomeye cyane abasaba gukurura ibitekerezo, kandi n'ubusa. Niba urimo gushakisha icya kabiri, hanyuma akazi ka gatatu, uzagusaba rwose impamvu zo guhindura gitunguranye. Hano biroroshye cyane kugendera mu kunegura, cyane cyane niba ibintu ahashize akazi gasize byinshi kugirango wifuze. Ibyo ari byo byose, ntukeneye kubikora. Uhindura mu mucyo mubi wenyine, wamagana ikipe yabanjirije hamwe muri rusange. Nibyiza kwibanda kubihe bitaguhaye ubuhanga. Ibi bizatera kubaha gusa abashaka akazi.
Uhora wuzuye
Nibyo, ntabwo buri muntu wese ashobora kwigira neza, nyamara ubu buhanga ni ukwemera. Kenshi cyane mumyanya bisaba ubuhanga bwiza bwo gutumanaho, kwanga neza abadashobora byibuze mu nteruro nyinshi zisobanura imico yabo yumwuga ibereye uyu mwanya. Nkuko babivuga, uburyo bwiza bwo guterwa no guterwa imbere, bivuze ko ugomba gutegura gahunda hakiri kare uzagaragaza mugihe cyo kubazwa, mubisanzwe, ushyiraho ingingo za gahunda mubiganiro na EICRA.
Uri mwiza cyane
Akenshi, abantu bameze neza kubibazo byose byabakozi, baramwenyura neza, birinda ingingo zidashimishije. Kubibazo bijyanye nimico mibi, umuntu atiteguye gushira kandi yose muri roho, usaba nawe atihutira gutanga igisubizo, guhindura ikiganiro kubyerekezo bidafite aho cyangwa byiza. Ntabwo rero bizagenda, kandi rero gerageza kurenga impande zityaye kubazwa, ni ngombwa gusa gukoresha neza gusa. Abashaka akazi bagomba kubona ko usuzume neza nkumwuga.
Ntabwo urangiza kubaza ibibazo
Nk'ubutegetsi, nyuma yo kuvuga ku nshingano zawe z'ejo hazaza, umwanya uza mugihe ugomba gufata hasi. Ariko akenshi usaba aracecetse gusa cyangwa nta kibazo afite. Kubishaka abakozi ntibidasanzwe, kubera ko umuntu uri murihame ashobora kugira ibibazo mugihe cyabajijwe. Ni ngombwa kuba ingenzi kugirango werekane ko ushishikajwe nigihe kizaza ukabaza byibuze abashaka akazi mugihe gisanzwe mubiro byabo. Nyizera, bizaba ingenzi kuri wewe.
Isura yawe ntabwo ihuza nigihe kizaza.
Byasa nkaho umwanya ugaragara nuguhitamo imyenda muburyo n'amahame yisosiyete, ariko oya, akenshi abantu birengagiza amategeko yoroshye. Birumvikana ko abashaka akazi bushobora kuba bafite ipfunwe cyane, kandi ntushobora no kubitekerezaho, kurugero, tatouage yawe itangaje mubibanza bikomeye birashobora kuba inzitizi kuri sosiyete nini numwanya ushinzwe, nubwo uyumunsi urwego rugaragara ni yarushije cyane. Buri gihe wibande kuri sosiyete runaka hanyuma ugerageze guhitamo ishusho izahuza bishoboka.