Kurugero, imwe yinzozi yisanze kwihesha agaciro kasanzwe wenyine, kukazi, ariko mumyambarire yo mu kinyejana cya 19, itari mu myambaro ye. Undi yumvise mu nzozi muto kurenza uko ari, umukobwa afite imyaka 10, nubwo ubu afite imyaka 30.
Undi baruwa ni uko inzozi zibona umutwaro we wanduye ukora imyenda mu nzozi, nubwo mubuzima yambara urushinge.
Ibi bice byose nibyingenzi cyane mugukwirakwiza inzozi, nkuko ibyo bisobanuro nibicuruzwa byitsinda ryacu kandi ni ubutumwa ubwabo.
Nk'itegeko, twimenyekanisha n'imyenda yacu. Birakwiye gushyira ikintu cyiza - impinduka zihinduka, ziba rikomeye. Kubuzima bwa buri munsi, duhitamo kandi imyenda yihariye ituma imyifatire runaka, ihumure no kumva bamwe barinzwe. Kurugero, twinjije amabara yijimye, ariko birakwiye ikintu cyiza, bisa nkaho buri wese atureba.
Mu nzozi, ibisobanuro byishusho byacu nabyo nohereza ibihugu bimwe. Nko mu rugero rwa mbere, inzozi zivuga ko umukobwa ari uwe wenyine nkaho akomoka mu kinyejana. Noneho urashobora kurota ko we, kurugero, ntabwo bihagije kukazi umubano witonze kandi wubaha, nkuko bishobora kuba mumwaka mbere yanyuma. Birashoboka ko yireba kubera ubushishozi bwuko bwihariye ko muri iyi si ya none bitandukanye rwose.
Niba tuvuga kurugero numukobwa muto, inzozi zerekana ko urota muribi bihe rufitanye kuri we, nkuko umukobwa akora ibyo akeneye cyangwa amahirwe. Ahari yitwara insinantile. Ahari inzozi zerekana kandi ibyabaye kera, kumyaka 10. Birashobora gutekereza ko noneho ari ngombwa ko ikintu gikomeye cyabaye kuri herne. Kandi ibyabaye mubuzima busanzwe bimwibutsa ibyabaye muri iki gihe. Niyo mpamvu arota amoko ye yimyaka icumi.
Cyangwa inzozi zibona mu bakozi b'imyenda. Birashoboka, nubwo gloss yo hanze, kubintu binenga na mikorobe ubwayo, birahabwa agaciro, bityo mu nzozi, no mu nzozi zambaye imyenda yanduye.
Witondere ibitotsi, kuko ubufasha bwabo urashobora kwiga cyane kuri wewe!
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Maria Zebeskova, umuganga wa psychologue, Umuvuzi wumuryango, Amahugurwa Yambere Yimiryango Yiterambere Yumuntu Marka Khazina