Amacumbi ahuriweho nabasaza nikizamini kigoye kubakiri bato ndetse nabasaza ubwabo. Imyaka irahinduka ishyiraho icyuma ku mibanire, akenshi iganisha ku makimbirane, igihe igihe kizakura gusa, kwirinda kumva abantu benshi kavukire. Kubwibyo, twahisemo gutanga inama nke zingirakamaro kubantu batewe nibibazo mubihe bisa.
Ntugahishe ibyiyumvo byawe
Rimwe na rimwe, ikibazo cyamakimbirane gishobora guhuza umubano, amaherezo kibatera abasaza igitekerezo cyicyo, birashoboka ko utagifite ibyiyumvo bishyushye nka mbere. Kubantu bageze mu za bukuru, igitekerezo nk'iki gishobora kuba imizigo iremereye bizakomeza kwitwawe mu bwihebe kurushaho, kandi imirwano yawe mito yo murugo ntabwo izagira imperuka. Ni ngombwa hano gutanga gusobanukirwa nababyeyi ko uhura numutima ususurutse kandi nta gutongana birashobora kugihindura. Ntutinye kubiganiraho.
Ntuzashobora kubihindura
Rimwe mu makosa nyamukuru yabana benshi bakuze bagerageza guhindura ababyeyi babo. Birumvikana ko mubihe nkibi hari igihe bigoye kwiyunga numuntu uhanganye cyane, rimwe na rimwe kuburyo utangira kuvugana numubyeyi, nkuko ukeneye gukora muri kimwe cyangwa ikindi kibazo ahinduka amakimbirane menshi, niba asanzwe ari mubi. Ntigomba kubikora. Wibuke ko hiyongereyeho ibibi mumibanire yawe hariho inoti nziza, kuki utazirikaho aho gukosora umuntu ugeze mu za bukuru?
Gukira no gusobanukirwa kwa bene wabo bageze mu zabukuru
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Dukora kugabana imyaka
Iyo umubano utangiriye "guhangayikishwa", umuhungu mukuru cyangwa umukobwa wakuze rimwe na rimwe biragoye gukomeza kuba ababyeyi kuva kera atari bato, kandi imyaka yubahaga buri gihe itanga ibitekerezo bya Isi kandi usubire inyuma. Ntibikenewe kurakara bitewe nuko ababyeyi bawe bashobora kuba barabaye gato cyangwa impanuka. Ikintu kibi cyane ushobora gukora mubihe nkibi nugutangira kumena. Buri gihe ujye wibuka imyaka.
Gerageza kurangaza umuvandimwe ugeze mu zabukuru
Urashobora kandi kubabaza kuba nyina cyangwa se bamara igihe, nkuko ubitekereza, ariko bakandikisha umwanya wabo - iminsi yabo ihinduka kimwe, bityo ubuzima bwabo busa naho bugaragara kandi bugahanurwa. Ntibagomba kubiryozwa. Aho gushinja, gerageza gushaka uburyo bwo gutuma ubuzima bwabo butoroshye, kurugero, bazana umwuga kuri bo, ubarangaza ibibazo nibitekerezo bibabaje. Irashobora rero gukemura ibibazo byawe.