Buri mugore wa kabiri yibaza impamvu umugabo adahutira kwerekana ibikorwa mubaziranye, nta yandi majyambere yumubano. Ntabwo biterwa nubwigenge bwinshi bwabagore ba kijyambere ubu bashoboye gukemura ibibazo byinshi badafite abagabo.
Twagerageje kumenya impamvu abagabo bahagaritse gushaka aho abagore, bidashoboka kwiyumvisha imyaka 30 ishize.
Abagore barigenga cyane
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Abagore barigenga cyane
Mu bihe bya none, umugore ashobora guhangana n'ikibazo icyo ari cyo cyose cyo mu rugo, kugira ngo abone inyungu, kugira ngo abone amafaranga ataba mu mibanire, n'ibindi. Abagore ntibakiterwa n'abagabo, nk'abo Hari hashize imyaka 20 ndetse no mu myaka 15 ishize.
Hamwe na hamwe n'ubwigenge, hari ibibazo bikomeye mu itumanaho ry'imari, iyo igorofa yari ishaka gukundana atari ukubera ko idashaka, ntabwo ikeneye gusa kureshya umugabo. Niba umugore ahisemo akazi aho kuba umubano, ni muburyo bwerekana neza impamvu agomba gushaka umugabo kandi ko ashobora kumuha. Abagabo bumva neza muriyi myumvire kandi bakaba benshi mukundana, kuko badashobora kumenya neza ko umugore akeneye iyo mibanire.
Kuboneka ntabwo bikurura
Ikindi gikabije - umugore abona ibisobanuro byubuzima mugushakisha abagabo. Nk'itegeko, iki cyifuzo kirasomwa neza mumaso ye, ko amasezerano akomeye atera uwo mugabo gusa. Niba akomeje kubangamirana numugore witeguye gukorera kumunsi wambere, tegereza ko wubaha kandi ushimishijwe cyane no guhindura umwanya kandi uhinduke byoroshye, bityo umugabo ntabona ibisobanuro byakazi Kurenza umubano numugore nkuyu.
Umugabo atinya kwanga
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Abagore bagenda banyerera
Umugore ukishaho ntashobora guhindura crane gusa, ahubwo anafata umugabo ukunda. Ubutwari bwonyine, ariko, imyifatire nkiyi iraruhura abagabo bahoze batekereza. Kubwibyo, niba ukomeje gutegereza mubikorwa byabafatanyabikorwa, umuhe umudendezo mwinshi wo gufata ibyemezo.
Umugabo atinya kwangwa
Ishema ry'abagabo - Ikintu ni cyoroshye. Gutanga ibitekerezo bishobora kwigirira icyizere gishobora guturika, cyane cyane kunanirwa k'umugore ukunda. Nk'uburyo, imyitwarire nk'iyi irihariye kubagabo batarakunzwe, kandi nubwo baba bafite imyaka ingahe. Umugabo nkuyu muruhame ntabwo yiteguye gutsinda umuntu uwo ari we wese, nuko umubano nukwumvikane, niba utateganya kuba umubyimba wumugabo.
Abagore baragenda barushaho kwiyongera
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Abagore bafite ibisabwa byinshi
Birashoboka, igice kinini cyabagabo cyanze kwinjira mu bwoba ko umugore azabisaba cyane. Mubisanzwe ubwoko bwubwoko bwubahirizwa ninshuti ze n'abavandimwe, bityo biga mu mibanire yabandi, rimwe na rimwe banze rwose umubano uwo ariwo wose numugore. Birumvikana, byose biterwa numugore runaka, niko umuntu agomba gukomeza mugihe cyambere kugirango yisobanukirwe, niba azakurura umubano ukomeye kandi uko bishoboka, shakisha umugore nkuwo wahuye numuntu we n'inzego z'amarangamutima.