Benshi, niba atari benshi, birasa nkaho itandukaniro ryumwuga hagati yabagabo nabagore, mugihe cyanyuma, mumyaka icumi ishize, mumyaka icumi ishize, mumyaka icumi ishize, mumyaka icumi yakazi yagiye akora cyane kwisi ivuga ku nshuti - atari umuntu wese Guhangana nibibazo kumurimo, ibyo bababaje hafi ya buri wese uhagarariye icya gatatu mu mibonano mpuzabitsina myiza. Kuba akenshi biba ikibazo nyacyo ndetse nabagore batsinze mu murima wabo, twahisemo kuvuga.
Inzira yo hejuru yumwanya mwiza
Birumvikana ko abagabo bagomba kurwanira "umwanya munsi yizuba", ariko igitekerezo cya "ikirango cy'ikirahure" kizwi cyane ku bagore. Birashoboka ko isiganwa ryumwanya wo hejuru aho umugabo numugore bigiramo uruhare ari uko umugabo azaba mubayobozi, ni hejuru bidasanzwe. Reka abagore bakire umwanya utagira imipaka wo guteza imbere umwuga mugihe cyo kuyobora, benshi mubayobozi bahitamo kwiringira umugabo we, kubera ko mubyiciro byihariye haracyizere ko umukandida uhagaze hejuru rwose guhangana ninshingano. Umugore atera kwigirira icyizere, birakenewe guha agaciro inshuro ebyiri.
Ikwirakwizwa ry'imyanya ntabwo buri gihe ringana
Ikindi kibazo kubagore benshi bakozi bakora mubigo binini ni ubwoko butanga umusaruro muke. Urebye, birasa nkaho bidasaba cyane umugore mumirimo myinshi igomba kwishimisha abagore ubwabo, ariko abashaka kwishimisha no kwinjiza, mumuzi ntibazemeranya nawe. Jya ku nzego zatsinze biragoye cyane, na none, umugore agomba kuzamuka mu ruhu kugira ngo yerekane ubushobozi kandi akurura byinshi kuruta mugenzi wawe.
Abagabo akenshi batera ibyiringiro byinshi mubuyobozi
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Umubare utagereranywa wigihe cyakazi
Dukurikije imibare, abagore bamara ku kazi igihe gito, kuva nyuma yakazi koherezwa kuri "Shift" ya "Kora ku nzu, atari byinshi, kandi rimwe na rimwe birenze urugero kuruta akazi. Ni muri urwo rwego, umushahara w'abagore akenshi uri munsi ya gatatu kurenza uw'umugabo ushobora kumara umwanya munini kugirango asohoze inshingano zabo kandi muri rusange, mugihe umugore akunze kwihutira kumuryango. Birashimishije kubona ko ikwirakwizwa ryimiryango ridahari - umugore agomba gukora muburyo busanzwe muri kaburimbo ibiri, mugihe ubwishyu bwimirimo ye buri gihe bwo munsi yurwo rugendo.
Irungu mu mujyi munini
Hariho kandi uruhande rwinyuma rwumudari, niba umugore ageze kumwanya ungana hamwe na bagenzi babo b'igitsina gabo. Mugihe yashakaga gufata umwanya wo hejuru kandi yamaze igihe cyo kwiteza imbere, umugore, nkubutegetsi, atakaza ireme abagabo benshi muri mugenzi wabo bashaka kumva gato kwibiza kwabantu ikurura nka rukuruzi. Umugore atongana, ntabwo aratonganya kandi ntabwo yihanganira kuba umwere mu mibanire. Abagabo ubwo buryo bukunze gutera ubwoba, bugabanya umubano. Nkigisubizo, umucyaha watsinze Wanman akenshi ni umwe kuri umwe hamwe na we no gutsinda mu mujyi munini.