Nubwo izina "icyumba cyo kuraramo" riva mu ijambo "gusinzira", gusinzira biri kure y'isomo ryonyine, bireba aha hantu. Reka twise icyumba cyo kuryamaho - "icyumba cyo kuryama". Mubyukuri, icyumba cyo kuraramo nimwe mubyumba byimibonano mpuzabitsina munzu. Hano niho dushobora gutakaza "masike" kandi, amaherezo, ube ubwacu, twishimira imigenzo yuwo ukunda. Ariko biracyari icyumba cyo kuryamo ni ahantu hose byemewe. Ibintu bimwe abagore bakora muburiri ntabwo batifuzwa gusa, ariko ntibyemewe. Ibi bintu ni ibihe, kandi ni ukubera iki bashobora gusenya umubano wawe?
Julia Lansk
Mbwira "Oya" usobanura umubano mubyumba
Icyumba cyo kuraramo ni ahantu ho kuba hafi yimbitse y'abakundana babiri, kandi ntabwo dusobanura neza umubano. Kwimura "Indege Gutandukana" mu cyumba cyo kuraramo, urabihindura uwuhindura "igitsina" mu "munwa". Dukurikije imibare, babiri bahira mu cyumba cyo kuraramo, nyuma yigihe, reka kureka iki cyumba nkahantu ho kuba hafi. Ibi bigira ingaruka mbi mubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina byubuzima hamwe niterambere ryumubano muri rusange.
Reka icyumba cyo kurarambe ube ubwoko "ikirwa cyuje urukundo" kuri wewe, aho ntahantu ho kurahira no gusiganwa. Ahantu urukundo, ishyaka n'ibyishimo bibaho. Ibi bizagufasha gushimangira umubano numukunzi wawe, ubagire ubwumvikane.
Ntukore "feri"
Abagore n'abagabo babona inzira yegeranye yo kwiteza imbere muburyo butandukanye. Niba kandi ubwenge bwumugabo mugihe cyimibonano mpuzabitsina, akenshi "bizimya", noneho igitsina gore, muburyo, kiragenda, gisaba kumenyekana mu rukundo rw'iteka. Ariko, ibyifuzo byumwuka bikunze gutera imbere ibintu bidasanzwe: umuntu ubona neza cyane nkinzira yo gutsinda umugore, yumva yitiranyije.
Nibyo, "kurengana" ibiganiro byerekeranye nurukundo bifatwa nabagabo neza nka "feri" yimikorere. Kubwibyo, mugihe cyimbitse, gerageza kwibandaho, nibiganiro byerekeranye nabyiyumvo byimuka ahantu heza kuri ibi.
Icyumba cyo kuraramo - Ahantu yo kuba hafi yabakunzi babiri, kandi ntusobanure umubano
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Ntukihanganire ibyo udashimishije
Imibonano mpuzabitsina - ibintu byinshi, hamwe nibi bintu nkumufatanyabikorwa umwe birashobora kutemerwa kurundi. Ariko kubwimpamvu runaka, abagore bajya bakunze kwihanganira ibihe bidashimishije byo kuba hafi, kandi rimwe na rimwe ndetse no gusoza amaso kubyo ibyiyumvo bibabaza. Kugirango wishimire abafatanyabikorwa bombi, mbere ya byose, birakenewe gushiraho umubano wizerana numugabo. Agomba gutega amatwi ibyifuzo byawe, kububaha, kugufata nka vase ya kirimbuzi. Gusa muriki gihe umubano uzatera imbere nkuburyo bushoboka.
Kugirango ugere ku mibanire yumugabo, mugihe cyigihe cyambere cyimbitse birakenewe. Ntigomba kubaho imburagihe, ariko nanone gutinda umwanya. Niba ushoboye guhindura igitsina cya mbere kumugabo mubishaka kandi utegerejwe ", noneho mugihe kizaza bizakubaho nkumwamikazi.
Ntukihutire kurenza urugero
Ntukajye utera urunuka cyane, urebye ko umuntu agomba "kugerageza" mu buriri, kandi icyarimwe uzabijyana. Uruhare rwa "Abagore-logs", ibinyoma muburiri nta kugenda, nimwe mumikorere idahwitse. Nyuma ya byose, igitsina, mbere ya byose, guhana imbaraga, no kunyurwa no kudatanga ikintu na kimwe mubisubizo, ntibishoboka kugera kubwumvikane.
Muri icyo gihe, mu mibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo ari ngombwa kuba Altruis rwose, gushimisha umugabo wawe "muri byose" no kugerageza kumutangaza buri gihe. Imyitwarire nkiyi ntabwo iranga umugore ushaka gutsinda.
Mugihe cyimbitse, kurikiza zahabu. Gufata ba shebuja kumugabo no kumuha kubisubiza, urashobora kumva ubumwe bwihariye buzagufasha kwiyegereza.
Ntukambure umunezero
Niba mu buriri hamwe numugabo wawe ukunda utageze kuri "Apogee", ntuhagarike kwimuka muri iki cyerekezo. Ikigaragara ni uko abagore benshi bemeza ko orgasms atari ibyerekeye bo, kandi bagakora imibonano mpuzabitsina kuri inertia. Mubyukuri, kugera ku ndunduro ni ikibazo gusa n'amahugurwa ahoraho. Amaze kumenya umuntu neza, uzatangira kumwizera, gufungura byuzuye kandi wige nta mbogamizi kugirango muganire ku buzima bwawe bwimbitse: Oya, ariko ibizagerageza.
Abagabo badakunda orgasms, abagabo bashima cyane. N'ubundi kandi, ni ngombwa kuri bo kutakira gusa, ahubwo no gutanga umunezero.
Gukora "amategeko yimyitwarire" mubyumba, uzashobora guhuza umubano numuntu wawe ukunda cyane, wige kumwizera no kutigisha umunezero.