Nyuma yo gutandukana bisa nkaho utazigera uhura numuntu. Ariko, igihe kirarengana, urakonje, none umuntu mushya agaragara kuri horizon, igaragaza impuhwe. Mubisanzwe, ijya kumibonano, kandi utangira ubwoba - Nigute byose bizaba no gutenguha niba bombi? Tuzagerageza kugufasha guhuza ijoro ryambere hamwe numufatanyabikorwa kugirango ibintu byose bigenda neza.
Kandi witeguye ute?
Birumvikana ko atari byose, ariko abakobwa benshi bagerageza kwerekana ubwabo nabandi ko, nyuma yo gucika, nibyiza, bihutira, bihutira kwihubanaga. Ikintu nyamukuru nugusuzuma mubyukuri uko ibintu bimeze - umubano mushya urakenewe kuri wewe cyangwa ibidukikije? Niba ukeneye igice cya kabiri kandi ntushobora kuba wenyine, noneho hariho imyumvire yo gutangira gushakisha neza kandi, ahari, yemeranya kumunsi numusore ukunda muri club, ariko niba wowe ubwawe ubishaka. Ntabwo rero uzabona kumva ko "wazimye aho."
Mubwire ibyo nkunda
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Ntutegereze cyane
Umaze guhitamo rwose ko biteguye umubano numuntu mushya, utangira guhuza ibitsina byambere, aho ukunze gutegereza ikintu kidasanzwe. Nibyo, kumenyana gushya birashobora kuba biteye ubwoba, urabashimira, ariko ni ngombwa kumva ko ari umuntu usanzwe kandi utegereze itariki yawe akomeza gukorwa nko muri firime y'urukundo - rwose ntabwo bikwiye. Ibirenge binini utegereje umugabo, urwego rwo hejuru rushobora gutenguha ruragutegereza.
Hitamo imyenda n'imbere
Nkuko imyitozo irerekana, abantu ntibakunze kubabaza kubyerekeye imyenda, cyane cyane iyo zitwikiriwe n'ishyaka. Ariko ntibisobanura ko ushobora kwambara ibyaguye. Kwitandukanya nikibazo: Niba aguhamagaye muri resitora, shyira imyenda, kandi munsi yacyo imyenda yoroheje, ashaka kukuvamo nimugoroba. Araguhamagarira kumara nimugoroba murugo? Ntabwo ari ikibazo, fata imyenda myiza, aho utagomba kubabazwa no kwifuza. Ariko wibuke ko imikino yimyenda yimbere, imyenda yuzuye imyenda - rwose ntabwo ikwiriye nimugoroba.
Ntutegereze ntakintu ndengakamere
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Muganire kuri byose "ku nkombe"
Nibyo, ibinezeza byimibonano mpuzabitsina uzabona byinshi niba umukunzi wawejo hazaza azirikana ibyo ukunda. Niba hari amahirwe nkaya, gerageza utabishaka kuvuga kuri uyu mugabo: kwitabwaho bidasanzwe byishyurwa ku kintu "ibyo ntakunda". Ibi bizafasha murwego rwo kuburira umugabo mubikorwa bizaguha ibyiyumvo bidashimishije. Ubundi, urashobora kwitoza, gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina muburyo busanzwe, ariko witegure guhura no kubarwanya - ntabwo buri muntu yiteguye ubushakashatsi kumurongo.