Inkweto nini, shokora hamwe nasaga muri resitora zihenze - umubano uhora utangira neza. Ariko nyuma y'amezi abiri, kandi ahari nko mumyaka, uzategereza aho ugomba guhitamo - kugumana numuntu cyangwa kumusiga. Niba uhisemo amahitamo ya kabiri, twiteguye gushyigikira no gutanga gusobanukirwa icyo gihe bitabaye impfabusa.
Nta yindi mbogamizi
Guhura numuntu, tugenda tumenya inshuti zabo, umuryango wabo, abo dukorana kandi ... dutangiye guhangayikishwa na bose! Hamwe no kwiyongera kwabantu mubuzima bwawe, inshingano wumva ko zikura. Sinshaka kwibagirwa isabukuru y'inshuti ye magara, shimira nyirasenge hamwe no kubyara cyangwa gutegura gutungurwa ku isabukuru y'ubukwe bw'ababyeyi. Kandi muminsi mikuru nayo yinjiza ibibazo byawe bwite. Niba uri kamere yubusa kandi nziza, rwose ubuzima bwite bwa buri "corari" - umutwe urashobora kubabara mubiganiro hamwe ninama zidashira. Ariko, impundu, ubu urashobora kwibagirwa abantu bose! Inshuti ze zizahagarika buhoro buhoro kuvugana nawe, bene wabo bazahita bayihagarika, bivuze ko ibibazo byabo byose bitera hamwe kera.
Hooray! Noneho urashobora kumara umwanya munini kubakunzi bawe
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Ubushobozi bwo gufungura
Umaze igihe kingana iki utekereza gusa kwicara gusa ucecetse no kwishimira, kurugero, ijwi rya buji yaka cyangwa kuririmba inyoni mwidirishya? Ufite amahirwe niba kubana numusore washoboye kubungabunga umwanya wawe no kwishyura umwanya uhagije wo kuvugana nawe, ariko, Yoo, birashoboka kuba bake. Ibiruhuko bazishimira ko ubu babaye ikibazo cyo kutagira impungenge rusange gusa, ahubwo no ku giti cyabo.
Igihe kirageze cyo gutegura amatariki mashya
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Nta muco
Kuba mubucuti, turimo kugerageza ku myitwarire idahwitse kubandi bagabo, kandi kubyerekeye gusomana cyangwa igitsina kidasanzwe ijoro rimwe ntirushobora kujyayo kuvuga. Ariko ninde wavuze ko ubujijwe gukora nyuma yo gutandukana? Umuntu wese ahitamo amayeri yayo muburyo bwihebe. Ahari uzashobora gukiza mumatariki abiri cyangwa abafatanyabikorwa babiri bashya?
Soma kandi: Gusimbuza abafatanyabikorwa: Birashoboka kurohama ububabare bwo gutandukana nubusabane bushya
Niba kandi utabonye urumuri nyuma "kwiheba" bitagira akagero, noneho ugomba gushakira inama kuri psychologue, kandi ntukishingikirize gusa kubakobwa bakobwa gusa. Inzobere izafasha kunyeganyeza ubwonko no gushyira ibintu byose mu mwanya wayo, bityo uzongera kwiyizera kandi utangire kwishima imico yawe myiza.