Birashoboka, hafi ya buri wese muri twe afite umukobwa wumukobwa cyangwa inshuti irota kurongora umunyamahanga, kandi birashoboka ko nta guhagarika kuvuga ukuntu Spaniya yahuye n'ikiruhuko muriyi mpeshyi. Cyangwa birashoboka wowe ubwawe ntutekereze kumena igitabo kidasanzwe? Ariko, abatezimbere ba psychologue ntibashyizweho ibyiringiro - mubucuti na cyane cyane mubucuti numuntu wundi muco muri "imitego". Tuzakubwira icyo ugomba gutekereza mbere yo kujya mu kindi gihugu kumugabo winzozi zawe.
Indangagaciro zawe ntizishobora guhura
Niba mutagira ihame ryerekeranye numuco, amateka nubuzima bwabantu, mugihugu ugiye kwimuka, urashobora gutegereza iki kibazo. Ibikorwa byafashwe mumuryango wumuntu wahisemo birashobora kugenda inyuranye n'icyawe, kandi niba mugihe kimwe kitazaba inzitizi kumuryango ufite umuntu mubidukikije, bibaho kuri diametricial ibitekerezo bituma bidashoboka gukomeza.
Indangagaciro zawe ntizishobora guhura
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Hagati yawe hazabaho inzitizi y'ururimi
Urashobora kubona ibyemezo byose byisi byemeza ubumenyi bwawe bwururimi rwawe, ariko ntuzigera winjiza mugenzi wawe kurugendo rwa mugenzi wawe. Nibyo, ntakintu kizabangamira itumanaho, ariko uzakomeza gukorwa n'isoni igihe uhuye na bene wabo cyangwa inshuti, ntuzasobanukirwa kuri bamwe "chip", zizajyanwa muri wewe kandi Kurakara, muri iki gihe kizahinduka gisizwe hamwe na Halve yawe.
Uzagomba "gusubiramo" ubuzima bwawe b
Yakugize icyifuzo, ukuraho ibintu kuri iyi nyandiko ishimishije ukagikomeza. Igihe kirarengana kandi usobanukiwe nibyo ukeneye kuba ibikoresho - gushaka akazi, urashobora gukomeza kwiga, cyangwa gukora siyanse. Hano utegereje gutenguha: ibyinshi mubyemezo byawe na dipolome ku ifasi yikindi gihugu ntacyo bitwaye. Birumvikana, niba utagifite ikibazo cyo kwakira inyandiko zemewe mumahanga. Uriteguye gushinga ubuzima bwawe kubatoranijwe kugeza "umutekano" uburenganzira bwawe bwumwuga? Mubyukuri.
Mugihe cyo gutandukana, ingorane zimwe zishobora kuvuka.
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Ibibazo byo gutandukana
Nubwo batashimishijwe gute gute mubucuti bushya, burigihe bufite inzira yo gusubira inyuma. Umuntu wese azarushaho kuba ingorabahizi niba abana bafite umunyamahanga bazagaragara. Ntamuntu ukuraho ibisaru ko igihe yakoraga uwo mwashakanye, uzataha utuje murugo, kandi umwana azagumana na Se, kuko umwana wawe ari umwenegihugu windi. Iki kintu birashoboka ko aribyingenzi, nishimiye cyane bihagije ejo hazaza hawe mubutaka bwabandi: Uriteguye kurwanira abana mugihe utandukana? Kurwanya abana bitewe n'ubwenegihugu bw'ababyeyi - inzira rwose izakugeraho n'icyemezo cy'urukiko gifite ubutoni bukomeye.