Emeranya, abantu bafite imyaka itandukanye nkintego zimwe mubuzima. Mu myaka 3, rwose turasa nkikintu cyingenzi - kubona impano imwe cyangwa umwanditsi umwe mukwamamaza, kuri 7 - kuba umuntu mwiza cyane, hanyuma ibintu byose birambiranye - kurangiza kaminuza, shaka A. Umwanya ukomeye, kugirango urongore neza kandi uganire kubana bafite ubuzima bwiza kandi beza. Kandi mumyaka 60 gusa, mugihe icyiciro gikora cyane cyubuzima, turahagarara no gutekereza: niki tutarabona kandi niki wifuza gukora kandi niki wifuza gukora?
Imyaka ihuriweho muri psychologiya
Mu nyigisho, byavugaga ko ikibazo cy'imyaka 3 rufitanye isano no gushiraho igitekerezo cye, igihe umwana atangaje uburenganzira kuri "Njye" kandi bisobanura ibyifuzo no kwanga ibyifuzo kandi byanze. Ku myaka 7, abaho ikibazo cyimirimo ijyanye nintangiriro yishuri, afite imyaka 14 - Ikibazo cyibidukikije, kuri 23 - mu mirimo, mu ntego n'intego nyabyo, muri 60 - kumenya twoment niba umuntu yabayeho neza neza. Urashobora kubibona mubana muburyo bwo guhagarika umutima, no kubantu bakuru - bagerageza guhindura ibintu, gufatanya, gukora cyangwa ikintu icyo aricyo cyose, kuko ikibazo icyo ari cyo cyose, kuko ikibazo icyo ari cyo cyose, kuko ikibazo icyo ari cyo cyose cyangiza kubwo kwihesha agaciro nikintu gisanzwe y'ubuzima.
Icyo gukora niba hafi mubibazo
"Nashakaga byiza, ariko vyahavuye nk'uko buri," iyo mvugo ishobora kuranga impungenge bene na ukugerageza gufasha umuntu yagonganye ufite ikibazo existential. Nubona ko inshuti yawe, umugabo, umwana yaratekereje kandi akenshi agerageza kumarana umwanya wenyine, amuhe amahirwe. Fasha mubibazo byo murugo hanyuma ureke anyuze ibyiringiro bituzuye. Noneho, niba abajije, urashobora gukora gahunda nshya y'ibikorwa hanyuma ugahitamo intambwe zikenewe kugirango ugere ku ntego.
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Birakwiye kujya mumitekerereze
Buri gihe twaba tuvugana na muganga. Umutego wo mumitekerereze arakenewe kuri buri wese, kuko umuntu uwo ari we wese azagira ibikomere by'abana, uburambe bwo kudukura cyangwa gutandukana hagati y'imbere n'inyuma. Muri ibi bihe, inama izagufasha kureba ikibazo cyamaso yabandi, hanyuma uhitemo kurenga akarere keza hanyuma ugerageze ikintu gishya. Kuri iki cyiciro, ufite akamaro ko usubiramo inkunga yabakunzi hanyuma ubasobanurire ko ubu urimo unyura kuri statution.