Umugore uwo ari we wese yitaye ku mugabo, ariko iyo umuntu atamura imipaka yemewe. Rimwe na rimwe, abagabo bibagiwe kandi bamenye inseko z'umugore mu gusubiza amagambo yabo nk'ikimenyetso ku bikorwa, nubwo mubyukuri umugore yashubije ikinyabupfura. Igikorwa icyo ari cyo cyose cy'umuntu gikubita hafi kandi abagore bakorerwa ubushake bushobora gufatwa nk'ihohoterwa. Twagerageje kumenya igitera iyo myitwarire nuburyo tutagomba kuba igitambo cyifuza.
Ibibazo byumuryango
Abagabo bafite abagore batwange hafi cyangwa ntibatwikeho icyifuzo cyo guhaza ibyifuzo, gerageza kwiyegurira umunezero ku ruhande, gerageza kwiyegurira ku mpanuka, bagerageza kwiyegurira ku ruhande, bagera ku kazi ndetse no mu kazi - uwahohotewe - uwahohotewe Umukunzi ukiri muto udashobora gukomeza.
Ntibishoboka guceceka
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Ibibazo ku kazi
Iyo umugabo ananiwe kugera kubyo yifuzaga mubidukikije, atangira kubona imihangayiko idasanzwe, kuko buri uhagarariye igitsina gakomeye ashaka gufata "umwanya munsi yizuba", ni muri voltage ahoraho kubera amarushanwa yo kwiyongera. Iyo imigambi ye itagenewe gusohora, umugabo atangira gushaka uburyo bwo kugabanya imihangayiko kandi agerageza gushimangira, nk'uburyo, ni ikingira gihe cyakoresheje bagenzi be inyuma y'urwego rw'umwuga.
Ibibazo bya psychologiya
Ibi bintu biragoye kandi, urashobora kuvuga biteje akaga: Umuntu ufite imitekerereze yangiritse ntashobora gutekereza neza kandi ntatekereze ku ngaruka. Niba umugabo yakundaga uyu mugabo, amaze kubona kwanga, azabana no kwihangana kwa maniaconal kugirango agerageze kuyibona. Umuntu nkuwo arashobora no kurenga ku mategeko kugira ngo agere ku ntego ye.
Nigute ushobora kwirinda gutotezwa kukazi?
witonde
Ibyinshi mubibazo bivutse bitewe nuko umugore, abaye mu ikipe nshya, akaba uri mu itsinda rishya, akabura kuba maso kandi ntahita amenya seduder, ahisha imigambi yayo munsi yubupfura. Kubwibyo, ntukibuke kugerageza kugaragara kwa rapprochement nkicyifuzo kivuye ku mutima cyo gufasha - komeza intera.
Ntukemere
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Ntugire ibitekerezo bidasobanutse
Gukundana byoroshye na mugenzi wawe, gukundana kugirango ushireho umubano nigice cyigitsina gabo kubagabo gusa kubagabo bakora cyane. Kwakira amayeri y'abagore ntibigomba kuba byibuze kuberako ugukangutse mu mfuruka gusa hamwe nibishoboka byinshi, kandi uzagushinja - wowe ubwawe wohereje "ibimenyetso". Noneho, reba uburyo bwawe bwo gutumanaho.
Erekana Hardness
Umuntu ugerageza kuba inshuti yawe meza, ariko icyarimwe usobanukiwe ko ubishaka gusa nkikintu cyimibonano mpuzabitsina, bigomba kumva neza aho imipaka yawe bwite itangira. Reka twumve ko witeguye kuganira kumirongo runaka, kandi ntabwo igiye gukora isosiyete "ku gikombe cya kawa" nyuma yakazi.
Ntuceceke
Reka umuntu atunge imbaraga, arakangurira no kugerageza guhagarika imyitwarire - ntuzigere uceceka. Niba ubonye byibuze ibimenyetso bike byo gutotezwa, tangira urwanya niba bidafasha, nanone gukangisha kuvuga kuri uyu murima. Niba wumvira kwihangana, birashoboka ko ari byiza ko umugabo ari dosiye agagerageza kugutera inkunga.