Abantu bafite byibura umwana umwe bamenya neza uburyo bigoye guhuza inshingano ebyiri - Ibihe byiza kumurimo nababyeyi bafite inshingano. Hariho ibihe nkibi mugihe ntakintu gisigaye uretse kunyura mu biro. Nigute ushobora gukora uburyo budasanzwe bwo gukora neza kubantu bose? Muri ibi twagerageje kubimenya.
Umwana akeneye kwitegura
Tekereza ko umwuga w'umwana uboneka mu mwanya - ikosa rikomeye. Kugira ngo imyidagaduro idahinduka ikizamini cy'umwana, reba niyihe mu myidagaduro y'abana izakwira mu biro bishinzwe mu biro. Irashobora kuba imikino yubuyobozi hamwe nubundi buryo bwo guhitamo. Icy'ingenzi ni uko umukino utagomba kuba urusaku, ariko icyarimwe umwana agomba kuba yibaza ko atakurangaza muburyo butandukanye.
Ntukajye mu rugendo rwo gutungurwa - Umwana agomba kumva neza ko utagiye muri zoo, atari muri firime kandi atari mu kigo cy'amahako, ushimangire ko aha hantu ari ngombwa kandi urashaka Umwana kugirango afashe mama arakumva byose. Birumvikana ko bidashoboka gutera ubwoba umwana, vuga gusa kubikorwa bya mama buriwese arimo gukina umukino nkuyu aho utwara atuje.
Ntabwo bikwiye kandi gukomeza umwana mubufasha Mttens ugereranije ibiryo - urashobora kujya mu iduka munzira usukura umwana, nyuma yakazi ku mwana, bityo bishimisha abana cyane ikomeye.
Umaze kugera ku kazi, ntugahita ufate mu bucuruzi, kugirango ukore ibi kare, umwana akeneye byibuze igice cyisaha kugirango amenyere ahantu utamenyereye. Niba umuntu wo muri bagenzi azerekana icyifuzo, urashobora kumenyekanisha umwana, kandi niba mugenzi wawe ari igice cyubusa isaha, arashobora kugendana numwana wo muri kariya karere - ubushyuhe ntibuzababaza.
Hitamo imyidagaduro ituje
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Amasomo meza kumwana mubiro
Tumaze kuvuga ko imikino yumwana igomba kuba igihe kirekire gishoboka, niyoko izaba imyidagaduro yuzuye. Uzane mbere cyangwa ufate alubumu n'amakaramu y'ibara, ariko nibyiza kureka irangi, kubera ko hari amahirwe yo kuvugurura urumuri.
Igitabo kirashobora kandi gufasha gufata umwana, ariko ubu buryo burakwiriye abana kuva mumyaka 5, mugihe igitabo ari ukuri. Ariko, nubwo umwana atagizi gusoma, azakunda ibitabo n'amashusho - nanone amahitamo meza.
Ariko ibidakwiye gukorwa, niko bisaba kubyara terefone cyangwa tablet. Ubwa mbere, ibi bikoresho birasa cyane niba umwana azareba ikarito. Byongeye kandi, ibikoresho bidasubirwaho byoroshye sisitemu y'imitsi - gutuza umwana bizaba bigoye cyane.