Muburyo hafi ya buri muryango, haza umwanya mugihe ari nto, birasa nkaho, ndetse nigihe nyuma yo kwitabwaho no kwitaho. Bakunze gushaka gufata ibyemezo byabo byigenga, bahitamo amasomo yabo muyindi mujyi cyangwa igihugu, teka umuryango wabo mushya. Haje stage statuts itandukanye numubyeyi wubuzima. Nubwo ubusanzwe iyi nzira, akenshi irengana abantu bose. Kuki bibaho nuburyo bwo kubyirinda?
Niki "syndrome ya singrome idahwitse" ninde warababaye
Kurera Abana Mubukure bizana ababyeyi kutamererwa neza, gusenya, kumva akababaro gadasanzwe, rimwe na rimwe kurakara bidashobora kuba bibi, umubabaro, ubwoba bwimpinduka, imbaraga zabo.
Ibi byose birashobora gutuma umuntu yiheba. Iki kibazo cya psychologiya cyitwa "Syndrome ya Systrome." Ugereranije, ababyeyi bafite amezi menshi kugeza kumyaka itari mike.
Benshi bibeshye bavuga ko bagaragara abagore gusa. Ariko, mubihe bimwe, umuntu urwaye iyi syndrome ntabwo ari make.
Nadezhda Korneeva - umutoza wa psychologue, umutoza witerambere bwite, umutoza mpuzamahanga yemewe, impuguke yuburezi bwabana
Nigute wakuraho syndrome
Birashoboka koroshya ibyabaye kubabyeyi? Basanga he imbaraga zo kurokoka "syndrome of thest yubusa"?
Ikintu cya mbere cyo gukorera ababyeyi na papa byose ni ukwitegura iki gihe cya byanze bikunze mbere. Urashobora gutangirana ningimbi yimyaka umwana mugihe akomeje kubana nawe. Ariko ntabwo ari ugushaka, ariko kubyerekeye guhererekanya ubumenyi. Wige ubuzima bwigenga bwumwana: Nigute wabika bije, uburyo bwo gutegura ubuzima, uburyo bwo kuba inshingano kuri wewe no kubandi. Rimwe na rimwe, iyi nzira irakenewe kubabyeyi kuruta abana. Bizagabanya impuruza kandi ikagabanya icyifuzo cyo kugenzura ejo hazaza. Ingingo ya kabiri y'ingenzi ni ugutangira gutekereza ku buzima bwabo bushya, kugarura imiti ikoreshwa, guhuza urugwiro, shakisha abo tuziranye.
Niba syndrome ya "ubusa" yasanze utangaje, ntukihebe. Ikintu cya mbere ushobora kwikorera wenyine nukugerageza gukora ibintu uko biri, hamwe nibyiyumvo byose byubu (umubabaro nubusa, bidashoboka kandi ubwoba). Ibi ntibizi kubagore gusa, ahubwo nabagabo.
Umubano hagati yabashakanye urashobora kwiyongera cyangwa, kubinyuranye, kugirango ugere ku cyiciro gishya cyo kumenya neza. Kubwibyo, ni ngombwa guhagarara, ntukive mubyakubayeho, reba hirya no hino, wenda, wige kongera gushyikirana, kwizerana, guhimba amategeko mashya yubuzima n'imigenzo mikuru.
Igihe kirageze cyo gutangira kwiga ikintu gishya, ibuka ibyo ukunda ukunda, burigihe kibura igihe. Urashobora kuzana imihango mishya: kurugero, buri wa gatanu kugirango ugure indabyo za Live cyangwa imbuto zidasanzwe, ibintu byose bihagije. Urashobora kandi gusubira mu nzozi ndende wibagiwe wanze, uterera imbaraga n'umutungo wo kurera abana. Kurugero, urashobora kugura imbwa wahoraga urota, ariko ntushobora, kubera ko umwana yari afite allergie, cyangwa ngo yinjire mugenzi, ashobora kujya kwa Bali.
Niba wumva ko gupima amarangamutima mabi, kandi utumva amahirwe yo guhangana nikibazo wenyine, ugomba guhamagara psychologue yabigize umwuga.
Hamwe na epilogue .... Syndrome "ubusa" rwose ikomanga ababyeyi kuva mu rurimi rusanzwe. Ariko birashobora gufatwa nkinshuro yinzibacyuho kuva mubyishimo mubindi, nkumwanya wo kuzuza ubuzima bwawe hamwe nibisobanuro bishya bitangaje kandi bikangiza amabara meza.