Ingengo yimari yumuryango ... Ingano ikwiye cyane yo gutongana kandi irahungabana! Ninde kandi akwiye kubona angahe, icyo wakoresha, uburyo bwo gusuzuma akazi k'umugore murugo - ibibazo byinyenga! Muri iyi nyandiko y'uyu munsi, nzagerageza gutanga urumuri kuri iki kibazo cyaka. None, ni ubuhe buryo bwo gukwirakwiza amafaranga mu muryango, ni izihe nyungu zirashobora kuba n'ibidukikije.
Uburyo bwa mbere nicyo bita "boiler isanzwe". Abashakanye bombi binjiza kandi bazenguruka amafaranga mu kirundo kimwe. Ubu bwoko bwakunze kuboneka mubakinnyi bashya cyangwa mugihe cyo gushyingirwa, mugihe abana bakuze, kandi umugore yongeye kujya kukazi. Icyitegererezo gikora neza - Abafatanyabikorwa, nk'itegeko, ibikenewe nk'ibyo hamwe n'uburenganzira bumwe bwo gufata ibyemezo. Ingaruka zonyine mubihe nkibi birashobora gutegurwa. Ntabwo ari kumwe nuyu mwashakanye atangira kwerekana uburyo bwo gukoresha amafaranga menshi: Umugabo yagura imodoka ihenze, cyangwa umugore "yamenetse" byose kumyenda. Nk'uburyo, iki nikimenyetso cyabatishoboye mumuryango, kuko, nkuko nabivuze, kandi mumyanya yabanjirije iyi, amafaranga nubutaka burumbuka kugirango asobanure umubano.
Icyitegererezo gikurikira ni "amafaranga yo murima." Umugabo akora, umugore akora imirimo yo murugo (mubibazo bidasanzwe - kubinyuranye). Muri icyo gihe, umugore akenshi atazi uburyo umugabo yinjije. Atanga gusa amafaranga ye kumuryango. Ubu buryo bwo kugabana ingengo yimari yumuryango busanzwe bufatwa mumiryango ifite abana bato. Ibibazo bibiri birashoboka hano. Iya mbere ni ibyago bya getter (umugabo we). Ashobora gutekereza ko afite uburenganzira bwo kuvuga neza kandi akanga gutanga amafaranga ku bitabaye, uko yakoresheje. Kubera iyo mpamvu, umugore amubona ko anyerera kandi ashobora no kugerageza kwihorera, gukoresha abana cyangwa ababyeyi kubwibyo. Hanyuma ukunyurwa bigomba kuba ngombwa kwihutisha ibiruhuko kubabyeyi. Akaga ka kabiri - Guhinduka kwa mugore mu mwete. Atangira kumva umugabo utegekwa, kubera ibyo kwihesha agaciro yaguye vuba, umugabo ntiyemerewe kurera abana, ariko bidatinze kandi muri rusange atangira gusa kuba umunyagitugu.
Inzira ya gatatu yo guta ingengo y'imari y'umuryango ni "umushahara wose w'umugore we." Umugabo akora, atanga umugore we amafaranga ye, ayoboye umurima kandi utegura amafaranga yose akoresha. Ubu buryo bwari busanzwe muri GSSR, kubwibyo, igitekerezo cya "Surdhana" cyagaragaye;) Iyi moderi ifite akamaro kanini mubijyanye no kuzigama umuryango. Byongeye kandi, abahanga mu by'inararibonye benshi bavuga ko imiryango ikurikiza irahagaze neza, kubera ko umubano wabo utunzwe ku buringanire, ariko urangije: buri wese afite aho akoreramo inshingano kandi buri wese ashingiye ku rundi. Ariko hano hari imitego. Mbere ya byose, umugore yababaje ibyago byabo. Akenshi bagirira ishyari abagabo bafite amahirwe yo gukora mu bwisanzure kandi icyarimwe bakishimira urukundo rwabana. Indishyi, batangira gutegeka umugabo we, ni bangahe kugirango binjire, bashinjwaga ntabwo ari hejuru bihagije. Kandi abagabo nabo ubwabo barashobora kumva bafite icyaha kubibazo biriho. Ntakindi bafite usibye gukora kubera imbaraga zanyuma no guha umugore we bose kwishyura ibyangiritse. Rimwe na rimwe, iyi myumvire y'icyaha ikinira hamwe na urwenya rusa n'urwenya - abana bakura kandi bumva ko se mwiza wa se, batangira kumukambaho.
Nibyiza, inzira yanyuma ni "Ubuyobozi bwigenga." Abafatanyabikorwa bayobora amafaranga yabo ukundi, konti zose zasangiye zigabanijwe igice. Ubu ni bwo buryo bworoshye. Irashobora kubahirizwa mubafatanyabikorwa baba mu "gushyingiranwa kw'abaturage" cyangwa mu ishyingiranwa rya kabiri. Nubwo byari byiza gute, kandi ubukwe bwa mbere busaba inshingano zamarangamutima nimari - abana, ubucuruzi, umutungo. Kandi birashobora guhinduka isoko yibibazo byinshi. Ingorane zishobora kuba muriki gihe - umwe mubafatanyabikorwa yinjiza cyane undi. Ibi mubisanzwe byakemuwe no gushiraho "ibyawe, ibyanjye" na ".
Iki nikimwe gusa mubitekerezo bishoboka kukibazo, ariko ahanini byerekana ukuri kwubuzima bwacu. Muburyo butandukanye, ntidushobora guhora dukomera kumasomo dukunda. Ariko ubumenyi bwibibazo bimwe bishoboka birashobora gukumira neza kugirango babeho kandi biturinde igice cyamakimbirane mumuryango;)