Ntabwo buri gihe bishoboka gufata umwanya mugihe umubano utangiye kumva ku kashe. Abashakanye benshi birengagiza gusa ibibazo mumuryango, bahitamo gufunga amaso mugihe kidashimishije cyubuzima bwabo. Kandi gutandukana kwintangarugero ntirizwi rwose. Twahisemo gusenya ibimenyetso bitanu bivuga cyane kubyo ukeneye gufata ingamba, bitabaye ibyo, umuryango uzatandukana.
Umwe mu bashakanye atangira kunegura igice cye
Umva amagambo yubudodo bwigitabo nabi cyangwa ibikoresho bidasubirwaho birashobora, ariko, mugihe kunegura bireba imiterere ya mugenzi wawe, ntabwo bikwiye kwihanganira ibyo. Gushyingirwa ntibigomba kukuzanira amarangamutima adashimishije.
Ibimenyetso nyamukuru byo kutanyurwa na kamere yawe bizaba interuro zitangirana na "Uhora ...", "Ntuzigera ...". Mu buryo nk'ubwo, umwe mu bashakanye agaragaza ko atanyuzwe na mugenzi we, avuga ibibi kandi bidafite ishingiro.
Niba udatekereza ko gutandukana nkibisubizo byumvikana, gerageza guhindura inzira kugeza igice cyawe cya kabiri, ni ukuvuga ko ukurikiza ibyo ukurikiza uwo mukunzi. Kunegura ntabwo umuntu, ahubwo ni ibikorwa, niba ubabajwe n'ikintu runaka, menyesha uwo mwashakanye, aho kwerekana ibirego bidafite ishingiro.
Wige kuvugana numufatanyabikorwa
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Umwe mu bashakanye atangira gusuzugura uwa kabiri
Rimwe na rimwe bihagije kugirango ubone kugirango umuntu agushinje. Kandi ntushobora kuzirikana ikintu cyose kibabaje, ariko umufatanyabikorwa ushaka gusa impamvu yo gutongana kandi arangiza ibiganiro byurukoza. Muri ibi bihe, ugomba kwiga uburyo bwo kwirinda ayo mafaranga kubo mu bashakanye, asobanura ko amagambo ye n'ibimenyetso bye bidashimishije. Na none, gerageza kurigukurikirana kandi ntukoreshe interuro zitoroshye zijyanye numufatanyabikorwa.
Ibirego bihoraho
Rimwe na rimwe, umuntu aregwa cyane ku buryo yari akeneye kurekura inyamanswa maze ava mu gice cye cya kabiri: uwahoze asekeje n'ibirego bisekeje, uwahoze ashinja bisekeje, uwa kabiri atangira kwirwanaho ndetse rimwe na rimwe yiteguye. Umuryango ntuzaramba muburyo busa.
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bagira inama kenshi kugira ngo bashyire mu mwanya wundi muntu, gerageza gucengera muri iki kibazo. Ntukihute gushyira amafaranga ateganijwe, wumve icyaguteye imyitwarire nkiyi.
Reka gushinja mugenzi wawe
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Uwo mwashakanye arafunga
Rimwe na rimwe, umuntu agerageza kwirinda ibibazo byose byamakimbirane kandi akajyamo igihe gikonja ari inkoni. Umufatanyabikorwa yizeye ko amagambo ye ayo ari yo yose azagerwaho, bityo ahitamo kutagira uruhare mu makimbirane, nacyo kikaba atari cyo. Niba udashaka kwitabira amakimbirane, ntibisobanura ko atari byo. Mubayiro ni ngombwa cyane gushyiraho ibiganiro kandi muri rusange bivuga byinshi, bitabaye ibyo kutumva neza kandi nzaguherekeza mu bashakanye.
Umufatanyabikorwa yibutsa inzika zashize
Buri muryango ufite ibihe bidashaka kwibuka ko haribindi bisaba kubungabunga no gushimangira umubano. Kwibutsa burundu ibihe bidashimishije byahise biguha gusa kandi amaherezo ibintu byose bizarangirana icyuho cyawe. Abaterankunga ba psychologue basaba cyane kutazarangazwa na kahise, babaho mubyukuri kandi bakareka kuvuga ibihe bibi, bashinja ibyo bagezeho. Witondere ikintu cyiza ufite ubu, bitabaye ibyo umuryango wawe uzagabanywa vuba.
Hindura ibiganiro
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