Aho umutonda wakuwe
Ntabwo ari ibanga ko buri mwana afite psychotike yacyo, yakozwe mubantu ba genetike no kwiga mumuryango na societe. Mu miryango imwe n'imwe, ababyeyi basabana nabana babo kuva kumwanya wimbaraga, ntamuntu usobanura ikintu icyo aricyo cyose, ababyeyi bashoboye gushyikirana gusa kumabara meza. Kubwibyo, umwana wo muri uyu muryango ararokoka, kandi afite igitekerezo gihoraho ko gusa atsinde gusa, afite imbaraga. Kubwibyo icyifuzo cyo kwinezeza kuba intege nke. Kenshi na kenshi, abakinnyi bakorewe gutotezwa ni abana batazi uko bamyanda. Ibi ntabwo bivuga cyane, byatewe ubwoba, rimwe na rimwe ababyeyi ubwabo, abana. Umwana agomba kwigishwa kurwana, kwirwanaho, gushobora kurengera igitekerezo cyabo byombi ndetse no kumubiri. Niba ababyeyi badashobora kubyigisha, noneho ugomba kuvugana ninzobere.
Nigute Wozumva igishishwa kumwana
Birashoboka cyane, uzabona ibyo bigaragara nkibi byegeranye, impinduka zimyumvire, stutter, kwanga kujya mwishuri. Azatangira gushaka uburyo bwo kwirinda gusura amasomo. Ku mwana, Aburamu, gukomeretsa cyangwa gushushanya birashobora kubaho mugihe. Impinduka iyo ari yo yose mu myitwarire yishuri igomba kubamenyesha ababyeyi. Hamwe numwana, birakenewe kuganira no kumenya impamvu nyayo yo guhindura imyitwarire.
Julia Kovavalchuk
Icyo gukora niba umwana yarohamye
Nta na hamwe bidashobora guhagarika umutima. Birakenewe kuvura ibintu bimeze ubu hamwe no gusobanukirwa no kugerageza kumenya umwana uburyo ababyeyi bashobora kumufasha. Noneho ugomba byanze bikunze kwemeranya numwana ibindi bikorwa. Kubwamahirwe, ababyeyi bakunze kwizera ko bazi neza, uburyo bwo kubikora, icyarimwe bakora ibikorwa bitagaragara bigira ingaruka zikomeye mumitekerereze yumwana kandi barushaho kwiyongera umwanya utoroshye mwishuri. Birakenewe kuvugana numwarimu wicyiciro kugirango wumve uko bitwara ibibera. Niba ishuri rifite psychologue, noneho ni ryifuzwa kumumenyesha ko ashobora gukorana nabandi bitabiriye ibi bihe byose. Ishuri rigomba kumva ko ababyeyi bakomeza kugenzura ibintu byose bibaho kumwana wabo. Niba umwarimu wishuri yemera ko iki atari ikibazo cyishuri, ababyeyi bagomba kugisha inama serivisi ya terefone ndetse nabavoka bakorayo. Bazashobora gushushanya algorithm ibikorwa bikwiye byemewe n'amategeko. Kandi ahari, imwe mu ntambwe muriyi algorithm izakiranwa abapolisi. Ibintu byose bizaterwa nuburemere bwibihe.
Ninde ushobora gufasha uwahohotewe
Umunyeshuri wishuri arashobora kwiyita serivisi yicyicaro cyumujyi aho abanyamwuga bakora bazafasha guhangana nibibazo, ibyiyumvo ndetse nabyo, birashoboka, hamwe na leta yihebye cyangwa yiyokeje. Birashoboka cyane, inzobere muri serivisi izagerageza kuvugana na psychologue nishuri kugirango umenye ishusho yuzuye y'ibibera. Hanyuma ikagenzura ingamba zishuri kugirango zikureho umuto.