Niba kumuntu wimibonano mpuzabitsina adashobora gukora nkigice cyimibanire gusa, ahubwo no gusohora, hanyuma mubyerekeranye n'ibinyabuzima, umunezero no kwegera imibonano mpuzabitsina biratandukanye rwose. Imyifatire y'amarangamutima ni ingenzi bidasanzwe kubakobwa, kandi igitsina cyiza kibaho kumugabo uwo umugore agira ibyiyumvo. Ariko, ntabwo buri mukobwa aba ashoboye kumenya intego umugabo amubwira ibitsina. Twahisemo kumenya icyo "muhamagaro" kigomba kukumenyesha mu mukunzi wawe: Nigute twakumva ko akeneye "umwe gusa" kuri wewe.
Tekereza ku mutekano wawe
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Umugabo uri muburiri yitwara wenyine
Nk'itegeko, umugabo, inyota yo kugukurura kugeza kuri byose kugirango ugere ku ntego yawe: azakubwira icyo ushaka kumva azasohoza ibyifuzo byawe byose, ariko ukimara kwisanga mumwanya utambitse, Ntabwo bizatekereza no urutoki rwawe rwikumbi - erega, ntabwo intego ye. Biragoye imyitwarire nkiyi yakuvuze ibyiyumvo bikomeye kuri wewe.
Arabaza ibibazo byubupfu
Birashoboka ko kimwe mubimenyetso byizerwa - urebye niba umugore ukunda. Umugabo wari uhuze gusa ntiyashoboye kumva umubare wagize uruhare muri iki gikorwa, bityo isabune ye "yari nziza?" Urashobora kubaha nkubupfura cyangwa inzira yo kwihesha agaciro. Umugabo wuje urukundo ntabwo byanze bikunze afite ibibazo byumugore - atari we wenyine, kandi yamaze gusuzuma ngo asuzume uko wabyitwaramo.
Ukuntu yitwara mbere na nyuma
Umugabo ushimishijwe cyane muri "uburiri" ntizigera umara umwanya muto, isura ndende kandi muri rusange, muri rusange, kugirango igutegure inzira. Mubisanzwe, igitsina kibaho vuba, kandi nyuma ye umugabo yaba asize, ahita asigara, atazirikana ukuhaba kwawe. Nkuko ubyumva, ntidukwiye gutegereza ibyiyumvo byimbitse kubafatanyabikorwa nkuyu.
Umugabo wuje urukundo ntazabaza ibibazo
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Ntatekereza kuri Kuringaniza imbyaro
Birumvikana ko bishobora kuba mu nyigisho, ariko muri babiri bateganya umubano wabo, ikibazo cyo kuringaniza imbyaro ni vuba cyangwa nyuma. Niba ushishikajwe numuntu uvuye ku mbaraga amajoro abiri, azagutekereza kumutekano wawe uheruka, cyangwa kugeza igihe uzabibutsa. Ni ngombwa kumva ko ibindi bivura indwara bidashimishije n'ikibazo cyo gutwita utateganijwe bizagwa ku bitugu, kandi abantu ntibashobora kuba hafi.