Aya magambo yatangiye ibaruwa y'umwe mu basomyi bacu. Mubyukuri, ibintu byose ntabwo aribyo. Inzozi zanyoherereje, zisobanurwa muri ubu buryo: "Ndi mu banzi, bihishe. Ndarasa mu gahanga ushaka kuntangaza. No kubyuka. "
Birashimishije, bigufi kandi bitojura.
Ibyiciro byacu birasa neza cyane imvugo ngereranyo ibera mubururu bwacu.
Kurugero, Intwari zacu ziri mubidukikije.
Niba twari muburyo bwibiganiro, birashoboka kumenya aya matsinda nyayo mubuzima bwe urimo uvuga, ninde "strave" "ni nde w'abanzi" afatanya mubuzima?
Ingendo nyinshi turimo, ureba mbere, ukunda amahoro. Ariko mubyukuri, turateganya amayeri: Mu kipe ikora cyane ishyari rifite ishyari, amarushanwa arakomeye, yangiza imirimo rusange.
Rimwe na rimwe, ntitubona ko tugomba gukoresha imbaraga kugira ngo duhangane n'uyu mutwaro: Guhangana n'ibirego bya aderesi yacu, kunegura, agasuzuguro, kurenga ku mwanya wawe.
Mu nzozi, intwari irasa uruhanga rwe kumuntu ubonye ko ari "umunyamahanga", undi, bitandukanye na benshi.
Birumvikana ko ibitotsi bye byerekana ko igitero, kimugora mubuzima gusa kugaragariza. Mu nzozi zirasa, ntatekereje.
Ahari inzozi zimubwira ko igihe kirageze cyo kwiga kuvuga kuri aderesi, mu buryo butaziguye, "kurasa mu gahanga", kandi ntuhishe kandi ugende.
Igitero, birumvikana, ntabwo aribwo buryo bwiza bwo kumenya umubano - ariko rwose ningirakamaro.
Rimwe na rimwe, arakenewe kwirwanaho, irinde cyangwa gutsimbarara kuri we. Mu muco wacu, igitero gishinzwe guhagarika, bifitanye isano n'ubupfura, gukubita, kunegura. Ariko, iyi ntabwo aribwo bwose bwo kubigaragaza. Muri theepy, hari no gutekereza "kwishyira hamwe" - ni ukuvuga, kwerekana ubwabyo birasobanutse, gagaragara, byanze bikunze. Ibi kandi nigikorwa kikaze, icyarimwe - ibihangano bikomeye. Ibi, kuruhande rumwe, ubushobozi bwo kwerekana uburakari, no kurundi ruhande, - kugirango bisobanuke neza uwo bahanganye muburyo cyangwa yashoboraga kumva ishingiro ryubutumwa.
Ikigaragara ni uko inzozi ziri mu mvugo ngufi ivuga inzozi zacu.
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Maria Zebeskova, umuganga wa psychologue, Umuvuzi wumuryango, Amahugurwa Yambere Yimiryango Yiterambere Yumuntu Marka Khazina