Intangiriro yubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina ntishobora gutegurwa, hariho ibintu byinshi ubutoni cyangwa bibangamira uburambe. Dukurikije imibare, abagabo bagera ku 10% batangiye ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina nyuma yimyaka 25-29, muburyo bugezweho ibihe bitoroshye. Niba utangiye umubano kandi mugihe usobanukiwe ko mugenzi wawe akiri "umuhungu", cyane cyane - kutabitera ubwoba kurushaho, kuva muri 90% byimanza umugabo agira ibibazo byukuri kuriyi nshuro, bivuze gukora neza. Nigute? Reka tubimenye.
Gahunda ntabwo buri gihe ihanishwa
Niba aribyo biza kuryama, urashobora kubashimira - washoboye gutera imbere kubafatanyabikorwa bose muriki gihe umugabo udafite uburambe. Birashoboka cyane, umugabo niba adashigikiye, rwose bizashimangira icyarimwe mwijoro ryambere. Ariko birashobora kubaho ko umuntu ashaka kugerageza, muriki gihe, gerageza kubishyigikira, ariko ni wowe ubwawe utubahiriza ubushakashatsi bwimibonano mpuzabitsina.
Wange ijwi ryigisha
Abagore benshi bakunda kuyobora abagabo, kandi ntabwo buri gihe aribwo bureba igitsina. Ku bitureba, gahunda kandi byigisha birashobora kuba intangiriro yimpera - kandi bikabije kandi umuntu utazwi arashobora gufunga byinshi, kandi udafite umunezero uhagije kuva yahabwa ubumwe bwa mbere. Birumvikana, ku ngingo zimwe ugomba kumubwira ikintu, ariko gerageza kubikora kugirango umugabo atumva ko asumbanya - ahantu hakomeye hamwe ningorabahizi ashyira igitutu cyumugore, cyane cyane mubihe bitoroshye.
Ntukemere ko urwenya rutagira ingaruka
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Ntukibande ku busugi bwe
Ntakintu kibi kirenze igihe ijana kugirango ubone kwibutsa akababaro kawe, ndetse no muriki gihe ari ngombwa kugirango ugere ku byishimo byinshi, kandi iyi nzira irabitsina, iyi nzira irahangayitse cyane. Nyizera, umugabo kandi rero mugihe cyibutsa imibonano mpuzabitsina, kandi no muri iki gihe iyo ari mubibazo byibasiwe, kandi intego yacu ni ukureba ko ubwambere Kuberako imyaka yimyaka yorohewe cyane.
Ntuzamure
Kwemera kuryamana numugabo udafite uburambe, birakwiye rwose gusuzuma ubushobozi bwayo kandi bumva ko ijoro ryawe rishobora kuba ridasanzwe kandi riracyari kure rwose. Ikintu kibi cyane umugore ashobora gukora ari ugutwara umufatanyabikorwa. Niba koko umugabo ari umuhanda nawe, muburyo, ntushaka kumubabaza cyane ibyiyumvo bye, ntukemere ko urwenya rutagira ingaruka zerekeye uburambe nibishoboka byumuntu.