Gutanga inama ni ikibazo cyigihe kidashima, cyane niba ntawe ubasaba, ndetse nibindi byinshi mugihe umwanya udakwiriye. Kurugero, mugihe cyimibonano mpuzabitsina. Nibyo, ntabwo ari ngombwa guceceka kubyo ntakunda umwe cyangwa undi mufatanyabikorwa bidakwiye, ahubwo ni uguherekeza cyane kubibera no guherekeza Ijambo nka: "Byaba ngombwa gutya, kandi Ntabwo aribyo ... "cyangwa" muri rusange, byaba byiza ... "Nayo. Bizasobanura imyifatire yose yumufatanyabikorwa, kandi nkuko tubizi, abagabo bumva neza kunegura, kandi umuntu wimbitse ntabwo ari ibintu bidasanzwe. Twahisemo kumenya impamvu abagabo barababara cyane, birakwiye ko umugore atangira ikiganiro mu ijwi ryigisha muburiri. Turatekereza ko igisubizo cyiki kibazo kirashobora kugutangaza.
Umugabo afite byose
Hafi kubahagarariye imibonano mpuzabitsina ikomeye, ni ngombwa kumenya ko ari umuyobozi. Reka burigihe bibe gutya, ariko ndetse nigipimo gito cyo kugenzura mubuzima bwe kizatera umugabo hafi yijuru. Nk'itegeko, ntabwo twizeye cyane mu mibereho y'umuntu, gerageza gufata umugore wabo, ugerageza ku buryo runaka kugenzura no gufata ibyemezo by'ingenzi kuri bibiri. Umugabo nkuyu azahita yinjira wenyine niba utangiye gutsindira byihuse imyitwarire itari yo muburiri. Umufatanyabikorwa arashobora kubabaza, nkuburyo bwa nyuma, kugira ngo yitabike, akimara kumva ko mubushobozi bwayo mu buryo bwimbitse batangiye gushidikanya.
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Umugabo aragerageza kukwemeza ko ari umuyobozi
Neza neza ingingo kuva iwambere. Abagabo benshi bizeye ko abagore basenga bikize muri bo no mu rwego rwo kwiyemera. Kandi hano hariho ukuri, ariko, ikoreshwa kure yabagore bose. Niba umufatanyabikorwa atangiye guteza imbere ibitekerezo bye mu buriri cyangwa, Imana yemeranya na we izagira uruhare runini, umuntu atangira kuzimira kandi, mubisanzwe, ntabwo ari ngombwa kurakara, kuko atari umuntu mumwanya wubuyobozi, kandi umugore we bwite. Niba ushaka guhuza umukunzi wawe, gerageza kubikora nkuko utabishaka ndetse birenze ibigerageza kubanza guteza imbere amakimbirane, ushimisha igitekerezo cyawe. Ba umunyabwenge.
Umugabo ntabwo afite inzitizi
Hariho kandi abafatanyabikorwa badakunda badakunda inzitizi umuntu uwo ari we wese. Nkuko twabivuze, ifasi yicyumba cyo kuraramo umuntu uwo ari we wese ni ahantu yifuza kwakira imbaraga zitagira imipaka, mubisanzwe, niba umugore asangiye ibyifuzo. Bibaho ko umugabo arwanya byimazeyo ibyifuzo nibyiciro byose, muriki gihe, kugerageza umugore kugirango atange ikintu cyose kugirango abone ikintu kibi. Ni ngombwa hano kumenya ko ntamuntu numwe ugomba kwihanganira ibyiyumvo, kubwibyo, kwagura umugabo ibyo ukunda, ndetse birenze, uko byagenda kose, uko byagenda kose