"Kandi ukuntu utagira isoni!". Emera ko bumvise interuro nk'iyo mu bwana kenshi kuruta "mu gitondo cyiza!". Kandi ko icyaha cyo gutwa, buri mubyeyi wa kabiri hakurya yisoni azana umwana we. Hakozwe n'isoni kuba umunyeshuri mubi, isoni zo kuba umurambo, gukora mugihe buriwese yitwaye atuje, afite isoni gushaka ikintu ababyeyi badafite amafaranga. Hakozwe n'isoni kurya no kurya, ibiryo bivanga kugirango umutobe utemba ujye. Ibintu byinshi bifite isoni, sibyo?
Isoni ziragoye cyane ko ari byiza kuba mwiza no kumvira kuruta guhangayikishwa nabantu. Kandi icyarimwe, isoni ni ubumuga nyabwo: ibyiyumvo, ibitekerezo, ubwayo no kwigaragaza ubwabo. Abameze bose, ntibazi uburyo bwo kwihagararaho. Ndetse no mu manza zigaragara kandi zirenganya ubwabo, kwishinja. Niba ababyeyi bari bazi ingaruka zubuzima bwose busiga uburere bwa "link" uburere!
Ikigaragara ni uko isoni ari imyumvire, turimo tubyifatamo abantu mugihe tubwiwe ko nkatwe, nta burenganzira dufite. Mubwana, turabyumva kubantu bafite intego, hanyuma tuvugana natwe ubwacu, twihosheje rwose mubikorwa byose. Isoni yigishwa nzego zose mu buzima bwacu: amafaranga, amashuri, icizigiro, umutungo, kugira mu nzu, kurya ku meza, ibitsina, umubiri ubushobozi, ishusho, udushya, idini, ibitekerezo bya politiki, amagambo rusange. Ibitekerezo byacu byose byukuri, ibyifuzo byacu hamwe nibyiyumvo byacu twihisha mu mfuruka yibanze yubugingo bwacu, kugirango tutaterwa isoni nayo, birababaza cyane guhangayika.
Ariko, inzozi zacu zifasha guhangana nubwoko no "gusya" ibintu byisoni.
Kutamenya ibintu byimbitse byubuzima bwinzozi, nzatanga igice kigufi cyo gusinzira:
"Njya mu rugo rwanjye, muri T-shirt, mu mapantaro n'amaduka, ngamanurwa ku mavi, no mu bukando bukabije, njya guterera imyanda. Ifasi hafi yinzu ni iyanjye, ntabwo rero mfite isoni, ariko nkimara kuza ku irembo, mpita mpinduka nabi, mu buryo butunguranye, umuntu abona. Hindura umutwe, kandi ndeba umukobwa runaka kuva mu idirishya ryindi nzu ifite idirishya. Nakururaga amabuye, nsohoka guta imyanda. "
Iki gice cyerekana inzozi zacu ko yarebye ibyabaye mu kimwaro, kimwe, nkuko bisa nubusambanyi. Bibwirwa n'ikigo kinini, ipantaro.
Inzozi zirasobanutse neza. Kurota kwacu bishobora kwifata muri izi nzozi?
Ubwa mbere, ahanganye na we abirengagije ibitotsi hamwe nibibazo hamwe nisoni, ntabwo ari inkubiriro.
Icya kabiri, agomba kureba ibyiyumvo bye. Cyane cyane iyo bigeze kubintu byihariye, byimbitse. Arahagarara kandi mu nzozi, menya neza ko ari byiza cyane kuburambe bw'amarangamutima atandukanye. Mu nzozi, yagonganye n'ikimwaro, asiga ahantu "kwizerwa". Isoni, nkibyiyumvo bigoye, ntibishoboka kubaho rwose nta nkunga yizewe. Birashoboka cyane, tuzayireka, duhindukirira ibikorwa birenze, guhangayika cyangwa ubwibone. Gusa ahantu hizewe ubwabo, tekereza, hafi yinshuti yizewe, hafi no gutanga inkunga numuntu, tugaragaza mubyukuri ibintu bibabaza kandi byimbitse, tuzadusiga tubifite. Bitabaye ibyo, bazagumana natwe, bahindukirira igicucu. Tuzabarwanya, turasohoka, ariko baracyumva.
Inzozi zacu zirashobora gushyirwaho no kurema umwanya wizewe hamwe nitsinda ryunganira kubiganiro byinyangamugayo ningingo zitari zo.
Kandi ni izihe nzorora?