Ninde kandi kuki ujya mu kigo nyuma ya 50?

Anonim

Nkunda amajwi n'uburebure bw'ikigereranyo cy'inzoka! Niki gishobora kuvugwa mu nteruro 3-4 zirashobora gusobanurwa mubice bitandukanye kandi uhitemo kimwe kizasubiza. Nzatanga munsi yinzozi z'abasomyi bacu. Kuva ku karorero kayo k'inzozi, biragaragara uko bimaze imyaka myinshi, kandi inzozi zirasobanutse, ndabamenyesha ishingiro ryikibazo.

Noneho: "Nzorota ko ngomba gukomeza gukora, subira mu nzira ya 4 z'ikigo cyanjye, kandi isomo rizatangira vuba, no ku gikari ku ya 2 Ukuboza. Ntabwo nari umwe w'indi somo kuva muri Nzeri, mbere y'ibizamini, kandi numva kandi ko mfite 2 "umurizo" ntashobora kunyura kubera amakimbirane na mwarimu. Kandi mu nzozi, ndatangaye, kuko nkora, nzongera kubishyira mu kigo nyuma y'imyaka 30, narangije nte? ".

Inzozi ubwazo ntizashoboye gusubiza ikibazo cyo gusinzira. Byarafashwe cyane kandi birakomeza. Kandi kugirango barumvikane ubutumwa, ugomba kureba niba ibintu byose bibaho kuruhande.

Umugore ukuze abona mu nzozi ko agomba gusubira mu gihe cy'ubuto bwe, aho habaye amakimbirane n'ingorane n'ingorane bidashimishije, akabatayikiza ukuze, ubu, kugira uburambe bwo kubaho inyuma ye. Ni iki gishobora kumubwira? Kandi ni ukubera iki ubu?

Ndashobora kumenya neza ko afite ibibazo bimwe mubusabane ko no hejuru yamaze kabiri. Ariko uhereye kuri pore y'urubyiruko, ni mu makimbirane, ku bw'ikizamini, bigomba kurengana no gutura "umurizo".

Birashoboka ko inzozi zimubwira ko mubugingo agikomeza kurisha mbere yo gutumanaho gukomeye nkumunyeshuri ukiri muto.

Ahari gusinzira byerekana uburiganya bwe, mumyaka yashize bishobora guhindukirira uburambe, guhinduka cyangwa igitutu. Birashoboka, ukurikije itumanaho n'itumanaho, ntaramenya no gufata ibizamini byabo, akane kunesha amasomo.

Amagambo make yerekeye amakimbirane. Fungura interineti no kuzamuka mubyifuzo byo gukemura amakimbirane, ibyifuzo byo kubaho utuje kandi uhuza. Muri icyo gihe, amakimbirane ni ikintu gikenewe cyo gukura, gushira umuntu. Nta makimbirane, nta shyirahamwe rihari. Ntuzabona umuryango utazi amakimbirane icyo aricyo. Amakimbirane ni ibintu bisanzwe bya kamere muntu. Ntidushobora gutekereza kimwe, tukishaka kimwe, twumva kandi tukaba turi kumwe. Binyuze mu makimbirane, turaduha agaciro abo turi bo, icyo dushaka n'aho twimuka, ni ukuvuga gutandukanya inyuma. Kuba uruhande ruvuguruzanya rimwe na rimwe ni ingirakamaro ku nkombe yimiterere yacu kuruta kuyitunganya no kuyikuramo. Icyemezo cyo gukemura amakimbirane, kandi ntirimuruka, gitanga ubuzima bushya. Urashobora kuvuga hafi amakimbirane, nkuko uboneka mu itumanaho ubwo aribwo bwose mu rugo, ku kazi, ku ishuri, hamwe n'abana - ahantu hose. Intambwe yukuri yakwiga uburyo bwo gufata iki gice cyitumanaho ryabantu, guhinduka, gushobora kubikemura ubwabo bafite inyungu.

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Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin

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