Inzozi zishimishije zambwiye inshuti magara.
Ati: "Nzorota ko igihe cyo kuguruka mu rugendo rw'akazi. Kandi ubwoba bukabije, nk'indege, umurongo munini, ukuramo hagati y'inyubako zo hasi. Ntegereje kugwa, nkabona inshuti yanjye ndende. Mu nzozi, inzira y'ibitekerezo ni izi zikurikira: "Hamwe na hamwe ntidukora. None se kuki duguruka mu ndege imwe? "Nyuma yo kwibuka mu nzozi, bidatinze, nkanjye, arasohoka."
Bitandukanye no kuzamuka kwamazi ko ubukwe ari umunsi wishimye kandi wishimye mubuzima bwabashakanye, mubyukuri ntabwo aribyo gusa. Gushyingirwa, gutwita, kuvuka umwana - reka ibintu bitegerejwe igihe kirekire, ariko nanone mugihe kimwe.
Ijambo "Ikibazo" muri bumwe mu buhinduzi risobanura "inzibacyuho". Ngiyo impinduka zirumvikana, inzibacyuho muri leta nshya. Kurema umuryango, ivuka ryabana birashobora guterwa no kwitirirwa ibihe byibibazo. Usibye imvururu zishimishije no gutegereza ikintu gishya na nyirakuru, nabyo biranarane, kandi ubwoba, kimwe mbere yuko ibyo bitazwi.
Cyangwa ubwoba nimpungenge zikasenyuka, kandi ibyifuzo bibi bifite ishingiro, byakuwe mubyahise byuburambe cyangwa umuryango ushize. Kurugero, gutandukana, ubuhemu, kwishingikiriza cyangwa gutandukana.
Ikigaragara ni uko inzozi zacu mu nzozi zifite impaka. Ahari kubyerekeye imiterere mishya, uruhare ninshingano, ifata. Kubijyanye nibyo bimutegereje mugihe cya vuba, kigiye kuza. By the way, indege iragereranya cyane. Ntibishoboka kuva kera. Iyo avuye, nta nkomyi.
Ahari kuri ibi ninzozi bizaba umuhanda wumuhanda. Birateye ubwoba kandi birahungabanya. Nubwo, nemera ko amategeko n'imibereho n'amakadiri avuga ko ntahantu ho gutangaza muri izi mpinduka. Kubwibyo, abaho mu nzozi gusa.
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Maria Zebeskova, umuganga wa psychologue, Umuvuzi wumuryango, Amahugurwa Yambere Yimiryango Yiterambere Yumuntu Marka Khazina