Byiza cyane. Niba wowe na kabiri ufite ibitekerezo byinshi cyangwa bitarenze imiryango no murugo uklade. Kubwibyo, iyo uhuye nikibazo, witondere kuba kimwe cya kabiri cyuburambe bwashize kivuga ibyo akunda. Witondere umuryango wawe wahisemo (watoranijwe). Icyitegererezo cyubuzima bwe bwumuryango Abantu bakunze kubaka mwishusho kandi bameze nkababyeyi babo, nimwitonze - uriteguye kugabanywa gutya? Ikindi kintu kiremereye nuburyo umuntu afata imyanzuro. Niba wowe, kurugero, kubana mumyaka imwe cyangwa ibiri kandi ntagutumiye kwemerera umubano - iyi niyo mpamvu yo gutekereza.
Imwe mu ngingo zingenzi mumibanire iri hagati yabashakanye ejo hazaza ni ikizere. Nibyiza ko abantu babiri baganira ku ngingo zingenzi zijyanye nigihe kijyambere. Ni iki gikeneye kuganirwaho mbere yo kwinjira mubukwe?
Olga Romaman
Imari
Ni ngombwa kuvuga uburyo bwo gukwirakwiza imari, fata kumarana cyane kandi uburyo bwo gusubikwa. Igitangaje gihagije, abantu benshi mubashakanye barakariye imiterere yumukunzi, ariko icyo aricyo cyo kwanduza cyangwa ni ubugingo. Ikintu cyukuri nukuganira ku rubanza rwamafaranga mbere yuko utangira gutongana kubera amafaranga.
Amacumbi
Inguzanyo, kugura amazu ni ingingo yingenzi, kubera ko zisangiye ubuzima busangiwe, nkitegeko, niyo mpamvu nyamukuru yo kubona mubukwe abantu babiri badakundana igihe kirekire. Nibyiza kuganira kubibazo bitabanje kubona umutungo utimukanwa gusa, ahubwo ni nanone uburenganzira kuri yo mubihe bikomeye.
Bana
Bibaho ko umugabo mugitangira umubano ashaka ko gito isubika ikibazo cyo kubyara. Umugore, yinjiye mubukwe, nkitegeko, ako kanya atekereza gukomeza ubwoko. Kugirango tutatumvikanaho, bababajwe, muganire kuri iki kibazo hakiri kare kandi urongore gusa mugihe mwembi muzaba witeguye gutegereza cyangwa gushaka kubyara umwana vuba bishoboka. Ntabwo ari ngombwa kuganira kumwana uzabana numwana.
Gucunga Ubukungu
Ninde uzishora mu gusana, kugura ibicuruzwa, gusukura, gukaraba amasahani, wita kubana, kora amasomo nabo kandi ubatware b'incuke? Byose bigomba kuganirwaho mbere yo gushyingirwa. Hanyuma uze mu bwenge rusange bwari kunyurwa byombi. Noneho ibibazo mumibanire bizaba bito cyane.
Kuruhuka
Abantu mubashakanye ntibakatiwe kugirango bakoreshe umwanya wabo wose. Kubwibyo, nibyiza kwerekana ibihe nkibi hakiri kare nkitumanaho ninshuti, ibyo akunda, ibyo ukunda. Igice cyawe ntigomba guhura nabyo niba yicaye murugo wenyine, kandi umanika ahantu muri club nijoro muriki gihe. Kubwibyo, wemera ku nkombe uburyo couple yawe izakoresha muri wikendi, nimugoroba, ibiruhuko - bizakiza umwanya kubituruka bya gitugu.