Mubikorwa byanjye, mpora mpura no kubura icyizere muri njye no kudashobora kwisuzuma bihagije. Byongeye kandi, akamaro k'ibi bibazo ntikisuzugura. Umuntu araza agira ati: "Shyiramo" ikizere, "kuzamura" kwihesha agaciro. "Hano, birumvikana ko murakoze kashe cyane muri firime na pseudo bitera imbere ko niba ushobora kukubwira imbere yindorerwamo" wowe Irashobora ", ibibazo byose byakemuwe. Imizi yibibazo no kwihesha agaciro byimbitse kandi ikorana nabo kuri gahunda.
Gukura mu mutwe
Kwihesha agaciro bitari byo biva muri sisitemu yagaciro. Kandi sisitemu itari yo iva mu buryo budahuye n'imyaka nyayo na psychologiya. Wibagirwe imibare muri pasiporo, ndetse no mu zabukuru, abantu bashoboye kuguma kurwego rwiterambere ryishuri. Imyaka yihariye ya psychologiya ni ngombwa - ibisubizo ntabwo ari inzira yo gusaza, ahubwo ni inzira yimiterere yimikorere runaka. Iyo umuntu avutse, akeneye kwiga gutunga umubiri we, noneho yiga kubumenyi, umwangavu yakusanyije ubumenyi kandi akiga gutura muri societe, abasore bakaba muri societe, urubyiruko rwakatije gutura muri sociimalism, nibindi byiciro bya mbere, Ariko rero kunanirwa birabaho. Nkigisubizo, umuntu abakuze kumugaragaro, ariko ntabwo yiteguye ubuzima bwabantu bakuze, bityo ntibibaho.
Mu mwanya wa nyuma-mu Busosiya, abantu benshi baguma mu cyiciro cy'umwangavu, kandi iyi ni ibyago. Umwangavu ni iki? Umuntu ushingiye kubitekerezo by'undi, yiteguye kuzamuka mu ruhu ku byemejwe n'undi muntu. Kuri iki cyiciro cyegereje, amategeko agenga imyitwarire (akurikije Kant) atarashirwaho, asimbuye gushakisha igitekerezo cyo hanze no kubura igitekerezo cye kubibazo byinshi. Hano ufite ibibazo byo kwihesha agaciro, kandi ukutamenya neza.
Inzira yonyine yo gusohoka nuku gukura. Ni kangahe udasoma mantra imbere yindorerwamo, icyizere nyacyo gitangirana nurwego rwumuntu mukuru. Mukuru - ibi nibyo nigisha abambwira.
1. Ntureke ngo amarangamutima ashaka.
2. Kuramo ingaruka zibikorwa.
3. Saba ubungubu n'ibizaza, kandi ntabwo ari ibyahise.
4. Itegereze uburinganire hagati yinshingano zawe ninyungu zawe.
5. Tanga imyumvire yawe "ibibi" n "" nziza ", wirengagize kunegura abantu nibindi bitekerezo kubyerekeye icyiza n'ikibi.
Ntukemere
Mu bibazo bimwe, ubwonko bwacu numwanzi nyawe cyane. Inama Njyanama "Ntukemere" Natanze mu bikorwa byanjye, birashoboka ko, inshuro miliyoni. Iyo twemeye, duhora tunyuranye kandi tuzirikanwa kubintu byarabaye bidashoboka. Turahindura iyi page ziteye isoni mumutwe kandi twihana kuberako itagishoboka guhinduka. Birumvikana ko nta cyizere muri njye, nta kwihesha agaciro n'imvugo ishobora kuba. Wowe hashize imyaka makumyabiri, nariye Bayushkino jam hanyuma ajugunya injangwe! Oya oya oya oya! Rwose, umuntu mubi ntabwo akwiriye kwishyura umushahara, ntakintu nakimwe cyo kubikemura umutware.
Icyizere kizagera iyo wibutse ko ibyahise atari. Kera. Hariho rwose, bigusaba kwitondera cyane no kwibanda. Kubwibyo:
1. Guhagarika uhagarare.
2. Ndibuka amakosa yahise gusa hagamijwe gusesengura kandi ntagisubiramo.
Wige kuvuga "Oya"
"Oya" - ijambo ry'ubumaji cyane muri lexique yacu. Aya mabaruwa uko ari atatu azakurinda abancupulator ko guhora banga ibyo wasabye kugirango bakemure ibibazo byose - ibibazo byabo byose. Kuki ari ngombwa? Kuberako iyo ukoze ubucuruzi bwa manipulator yawe, ubucuruzi bwawe bwite ni ubusa. Kubwibyo kutanyurwa ubwabyo. Kandi wanze ubwoba, kuko uzatekereza nabi noneho - kandi umuntu mubice bya psychologiya yingimbi nibyingenzi kubandi! Noneho urumva impamvu twatangiye tubiganiro byimyaka myinshi?
Niba aya mabaruwa atatu yubumaji ahembwa bigoye, kora ibi:
1. Sobanukirwa ko kwangwa gushyira mu gaciro bitagutera umuntu mubi.
2. Menya: Kunanirwa ntibisobanura ko ufata umuntu nabi. Ninde uvuga ibinyuranye - iyo manigulator.
3. Ubwa mbere, shyiramo ibisanzwe - 10 "Oya" kumunsi. Urashobora kwanga inshuro icumi kubwimpamvu iyo ari yo yose - nziza cyane! Niba bigoye, byibuze inshuro eshanu.
4. Niba udashoboye kubona imbaraga zo kwanga, ibaze igihe ubwawe ubwawe wasabye ubufasha kuri uyu muntu wihariye kandi wakiriye ubu bufasha. Kwibukwa - ubufasha. Kandi muri icyenda muri icumi hamwe n'umutimanama utamucira urubanza, bwira Manipulator "Oya".
Kuri iyi batatu, uwa kane, Banal: Icyifuzo. Niba uri mu cyiciro cyiterambere cy '"ingimbi", kugirango ubone inyungu, ugomba gukora imbaraga nyinshi kandi uhora ukurikirana moteri yawe. Uzagomba kuba Baron Munchhausen, wavanye mu gishanga cy'ingurube. Mubuzima nyabwo, amayeri nkiyi ntabwo yemerera guhindura physics, ariko muri psychologiya, imbaraga nyinshi zikora ibitangaza. Kora wenyine, ntucike intege, hamwe no gukura kwabonetse no kwigirira icyizere.