Nubwo waba warababajwe na mugenzi wawe, kunegura gutyaye - ikintu kibi cyane ushobora kwitabaza ikibazo cyamatongatote. Buhorobuhoro, ariko mubyukuri ubu buzarimburana nubusabane bukomeye.
Abagore ni abagabo benshi mumarangamutima, byongeye, menya neza uburyo bwo kuyobora umufatanyabikorwa kugirango babone icyifuzo, ariko ntibateho uburyo bwo gusenya umubano wibyitayeho yumugabo. Tuzagabana ibyifuzo, uburyo bwo kwirinda gutongana, no guhagarika icyifuzo cyo gushaka umugabo.
Ntushobora guhindura umuntu
Benshi ba Zhknshchina bashaka "kurera" umugabo wabo kugirango rihuze ibyifuzo kandi ibyo byose bitwaye. Ni ngombwa kumva ko umugabo ari imico yashizweho idakeneye kugerageza kuyihindura kuri we.
Erega umugabo ntakintu kibi kirenze gutenguha, azanga umugore wahagaritse icyizere. Iyo umugore ahora "abonye" umufatanyabikorwa, kubara mu kirere gishyushye murugo kandi ubwumvikane mu mibanire ntibishoboka, kuko umugabo kumwanya mwiza ntazahagarara ngo areke kugerageza " kwibira "kuri we no gutukwa no kunegura.
Abagabo barumva cyane
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Reba amagambo
Reka abagore kandi bafatwa nk'agateganyo, abagabo ntawe bitabira kunegura no gushidikanya ku mibanire ye y'abagabo. Ariko, ibi ntibisobanura ko abanegura bagomba kwirindwa. Igitangaje ni uko Ukuri: Umugabo uwo mugenzi we ashimangira buri gihe kandi muri byose, atangira kubura, umubano ubura uburyohe bwambere - umugore ntakundana kuri we - umugore ntakundana na we. Kubwibyo, gerageza kunegura umukunzi mubyukuri, ntabwo biteye isoni kandi ntibituka, ndetse birenze ibyo utanenga mubantu. Kunegura byoroshye bizanyeganyeza umugabo.
Nta rusange
"Mwese muri mwebwe!", "Ni iki kindi kikwitega kuri wewe!" - interuro izafata numuntu utuje. Mu buryo nk'ubwo, gutukwa ku giti cye bisa nkaho: "Ntushobora ...", "Ugomba ..." Gutongana nyuma yamagambo ntashobora kwirindwa. Umugabo azatangira kugira ngo akunde, kuko azi ko ukunda gufata interuro za sharoide zibabaza ubwibone. Nkuko twabivuze kare, kunegura gusa murubanza kandi nta rusange.
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Nk'itegeko, abagore batangira gukoresha, kubuza imibonano mpuzabitsina, igihe izindi mpaka zitagumyeho: "Niba unkunda, nari gukora ...". Utabonye icyifuzo, umugore arashobora kujya ku ngamba zikomeye - gutangira kunegura amahirwe yimibonano mpuzabitsina. Ariko, ni ngombwa kumva ko guhagarika no gutukwa uzahabwa umuntu wangiza wifuza kandi amaherezo uzarambirwa no kuboneka kwawe, cyangwa ahita arekura, aho nta mpuha nk'iki zizabaho, aho ntihazabaho igitutu nk'iki.
Irinde ibitutsi
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Wibuke ko rimwe na rimwe abantu bumva kurusha abagore, bityo rero ugomba gukuraho amagambo yose ateye isoni mu magambo yawe yo gutanga no kunegura kunegura umugabo wawe. Gusa muriki kibazo birashoboka gushyiraho ibiganiro kandi bikomeza kubaka umubano ukomeye.