Inzozi zishimishije zanyoherereje abitabiriye amahugurwa yo gukura. Irimo cyane muri twe, ikomeza gukorana n'ubwoba bwe, inzitizi n'ingorane n'ingorane, bihindukirira ibicuruzwa kubera iterambere ryabo. Aherutse gusangira inzozi, ibyo ntashobora gutegereza ngo nsobanure muri iyi nkingi. Yatekereje ko inzira yubugingo, umukobwa yakoze, kandi kandi yerekana ubushobozi bwo gufungura.
Inzozi nk'izo: "Mu ntangiriro y'inzozi, tugwa mu iduka. Igihe - Impeshyi. Bigaragara ko nta nzu dufite, kandi aho dukomeza inzira, natwe ntituzi. Gusa jya ahandi ... kumva ko wazimiye, nebula, umubabaro woroshye. Ububiko burimo ubusa, hagati hari konti imwe, igurisha ibiryo bitandukanye, ibiryo byihuse. Kubwimpamvu runaka, mfite imyumvire ko ushobora kuyifata kubuntu, cyangwa kugabanywa, kugirango ubashe gufata byinshi. Kandi ntangira kwandika ibi biryo byihuse kumuhanda. Mu buryo butunguranye, hari ikintu kibaho, kandi kunyerera ibiryo byihuse bitangira gutwika. Abantu batangira ubwoba bwo kubura mububiko, kandi ndeba gusa iki gice cyaka, ndatuza. Kandi mu buryo butunguranye, bamwe biruka ku rugi ntibagaragara, nkaho bumva ituze maze bahitamo kuguma. Kuri iyi ngingo, kumenya biza kuri njye ko tutagikeneye kujya ahantu hose. Tuzaguma hano kandi aha hantu hazubaka ubwitonzi bwacu. Mu buryo butunguranye, ibintu byose birahinduka, kandi ishusho nyayo ihinduka cyane. Aha hantu hahindutse ikirwa kiri mu nyanja, kandi twese dutandukanye. Twambaye nko mu gihe cyo hagati. Banneri zimwe kumubiri. Kandi dutangiye kubaka gutura mumiti no mu mukobwa. Nabaye umugabo ufite uruhu rwubururu, nko muri "avatar", kunamiwe, gukura hasi nuruhare rwanjye muri ubu buryo bwo gutura ninshingano umuyobozi. Hanze, nta mico mibi, ariko umudugudu wose umenya neza hano hano abayobozi nyamukuru. Umva imbaraga zanjye. Hanyuma hariho ibitunguranye. Kuri icyo kirwa hamwe n'urusaku, abanzi bagaragara ku kirwa cy'amakipe yatsimwotsi. Nibura, nuko mbibona. Bakura cyane, nka viking, n'intwaro, bakansanga. Ndahagarara nkareba. Ndutse, ariko ndumva ko filozofiya yo kurwanya ihohoterwa yemejwe ku kirwa cyacu, nta ntwaro dufite dushobora kwihanganira abo banyamahanga. Sinzi uburyo bwo kwirinda no mu bwoko bwanjye, kandi mfata icyemezo cyo kuva ku kirwa, kuko ngira ngo intego zabo nyamukuru ari njye, umuyobozi. Buhoro buhoro amanuka kumazi, nicaye mu bwato ndagenda uva kuri icyo kirwa. Ndimo ndeba uwagumyeyo, atakaza igihombo, intege nke, numva ukuntu imbaraga zose zasinze. Ariko sinzi guhangana muri uru rugamba, kandi mpitamo kureremba byoroshye, kwihisha.
Nahagaritse ku mugabane wa Afurika, ndasohoka mu muhanda, nicaye muri bisi, kandi azanjyana mu cyerekezo kitazwi, kure yikirwa cyanjye kavukire. Byongeye kandi nkuraho, intege nke nini, yatakaye, urujijo ndumva. Sinzi ibibera ubu kuri iyo kirwa, bizagenda bite nyuma aho ngiye, nkore iki ubu. Dutangiye kumva ko icyemezo cyanjye cyibeshye. Icyo nagombye kuba mpari, ku kirwa cyanjye, hamwe n'abantu banjye. Kandi nkaho alge igaragara iruhande rwanjye, sinzamubona, ariko ndumva amagambo ye. Arambwira ko nkeneye kugaruka, Nanjye ubwanjye ndabyumva ubwanjye. Nsohoka muri bisi nsubira ... Ndabyuka kuri ibi. "
Nyuma nk'urugero nk'urwo, inzozi zacu nazo zavuze uburyo yasesenguye inzozi ze bwite. No gusobanura kugiti cyawe burigihe ni ukuri kuruta kuruhande.
Igice cya mbere cyibitotsi: inkuru hamwe nibiryo byihuse no gutembera ahantu. Yasobanuye iki gice ku buryo bukurikira: "Nakundaga kubaho ntafite intego, ntacyo bivuze. Ikunganiye. Ibiryo byihuse - filozofiya ihendutse kubyerekeye ubuzima n'ahantu hanjye. " Kubwibyo, mu nzozi, ntabwo yagize ibiryo byaka. Yatwitse bitari ngombwa, bitari ngombwa, birimo ubusa.
Igice cya kabiri cy'abasinzi: inkuru yerekeye ubwoko n'abishyiramo. Imbere, azi ko afite imbaraga ku buryo ari umuyobozi. Nibyo, mugihe ubuyobozi bwayo bwihanganira, bworoshye. Ntushobora kwirwanaho. Gusinzira birerekana ko mugihe atazi kwirwanaho, indangagaciro zayo. Muri icyo gihe, iyo we, atinya igitero, ubwe akurwa muri indangagaciro, atakaza imbaraga, imbaraga no kwizera ubwayo.
Igice cya gatatu cyibitotsi ni urugendo ruva mu kirwa cyawe, gutakaza no gusenya. Gusubira inyuma.
Inzozi zacu zibona inzira yawe yubugingo nkiyi: Hashize igihe kitari gifite indangagaciro kigaragara, kandi yari ifite ibihagije kubintu byose bikurikiranye - kubiryo byihuse. Nyuma yaje kumva imbaraga ze, yawumwe mu bwoko bumwe. Muri icyo gihe, ibitotsi byerekana uburyo byoroshye gufata imyanya no kutigera kurengera ubuzima yahimbiriye. Nko mu gitutu cyangwa n'iterabwoba ribi, birashobora gusiga byoroshye. Noneho yiyemeje wenyine ko umurimo we ari uguhagarara ku ijambo rye no kuba afite agaciro. Kandi biha imbaraga zo kureba bashize amanga mumaso yukuri ko yabonaga iterabwoba.
Urugero rwiza! Ntekereza ko intwari y'urugero izashobora kuvuga uru rugero, nkubunganiye yatangiye kurwana, akavuga ku mipaka yabo: uburyo byakorwa, ariko uburyo bidashoboka. Ubu buhanga burashobora kumugirira akamaro mubuzima bwe bwite, kandi munzira yo gushyira mubikorwa ubushobozi nubuhanga.
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Maria Zebeskova, umuganga wa psychologue, Umuvuzi wumuryango, Amahugurwa Yambere Yimiryango Yiterambere Yumuntu Marka Khazina