Birashoboka, hafi ya buri mugore wibajije, ugatangira umubano numuntu mushya, ni kangahe umugambi we, kuko rimwe na rimwe umuntu ashobora kuvuga, iyaba wemeye kumarana na we. Nigute rero gusobanukirwa ko ushishikajwe gusa nintege nke? Twahisemo kugufasha kumenya mugihe ukeneye gutekereza cyane mbere yuko ukomeza umubano.
Iraguhuza nimugoroba gusa kumunsi wicyumweru
Niba umuntu yahujwe gusa mubyambaye hafi yerekeye kukubaha, azitanga gusa muminsi mikuru gusa, ariko birashoboka cyane, kuva kera, kuva igihe cye cyubusa azahitamo kumara undi mugore: Abagabo bakunze kugira abagore bake icyarimwe, niko bimeze bityo, ubana nawe kuri gahunda. Uhora wemera kuba ku nshingano za kabiri hanyuma utegereze kugeza agukomereye isaha yinyongera?
Amateraniro yawe arahabwa gahunda
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Kuva gukora gusa gukundana nawe
Ibyo utavuga, ikiganiro gihora kikuyobora ku ngingo zo kuryama, nubwo wageraga muri supermarket. Umugabo arashobora kubaza mu buryo butunguranye, mu ishami ubwo aribwo bwose wifuza gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ntabwo bigoye kuri iyo ngingo umufatanyabikorwa azahuzwa, niyihe gahunda yo kubaka umubano wigihe kirekire kandi wibanga nawe.
Ntagutumira ku matariki
Mubisanzwe, umarana umwanya, ariko izo nama ntabwo zimeze nkaya matariki yurukundo watekereje. Nk'itegeko, araguhamagarira gusangira, hanyuma nimugoroba byanze bikunze birangirana n'imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ibyifuzo byawe byose bishakishwa muri wikendi kuri sofa yo kureba firime kuva buri gihe yanze, yerekeza ku kazi? Tegereza ko iyi sano izahinduka ikintu gikomeye, rwose ntabwo bikwiye.
Ntabwo iguma mugitondo
Nk'uko amategeko, umugabo wifuza gusa nka nyirabuja, ako kanya nyuma yo kumenya kuzatangira gukusanya urugo cyangwa, niba bibaye ku butaka bwayo, azagira inzira inzira zose wagumanye. Ntukirire ifunguro rya mugitondo - ntabwo bikubiye muri gahunda ze.
Azirinda amafoto ahuriweho
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Ntashaka kugaragara nawe ku ifoto
Umukunzi wawe yirinda amafoto ahuriweho? Irashobora kandi kuvuga kubyerekeye ubushake bwimigambi ye, kandi wenda ndetse no kuba hari abandi bagore - ntashaka ko abunzi be bose bamenyana mumaso. Ntazigera avuga mu mbuga nkoranyambaga kandi, birashoboka cyane, kunyeganyega kandi urabikora.
Ntakumenyesha inshuti
Nko ku mbuga nkoranyambaga, mugenzi wawe ntabwo ashaka kumenya ibibakikije kubyerekeye ishyaka ryigihe gito. Bite? N'ubundi kandi, ahari umwanya wawe uzatwara vuba undi mugore. Mubyongeyeho, ntoya ufite umubano rusange, byoroshye kumena umubano nawe.