Birashoboka ko ikintu kidashimishije gishobora kubaho mubuzima bwawe - ubuhemu bwumufatanyabikorwa. Byongeye kandi, guhindura birashobora guhindura umufatanyabikorwa kuruhande imyaka myinshi, kandi igice cyacyo ntibuzatekereza. Twahisemo kumenya uko ushobora kubara umugabo utari wo. Uriteguye?
Umubano wawe na mugenzi wawe watangiriye kubeshya
Afite rimwe mu makosa manini buri mugore washutswe umugore akora, "atekereza ko atazigera ahindura uwo mugabo kutagira impinduka, bityo rero yemerera umubano numuntu mubucuti. Wibuke ko niba umukunzi wawe yamaze kugusize kimwe cya kabiri cyawe, ntakintu kizamubuza kwinjira hamwe nawe.
Guhindura rimwe, umugabo ntashobora guhagarara
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Atangira kugufata mu buriganya
Nk'ubutegetsi, abagabo bumva icyaha cyabo mbere yuko umugore atangira gutera uwambere, bizeye ko utazagira imbaraga zo kubifata mubuhemu. Umuntu akwimugira imyitwarire ye kuri wewe, urebye ko ushoboye kubeshya.
Umufatanyabikorwa atangira gukoresha ibirenze mbere
Niba yaraburiye ko agiye kumarana, nta mpamvu gusa yo guhangayika, ariko niba kuzigama bitangiye kuzimira ku ikarita ifite aho amafaranga ye agenda udafite ubumenyi bwawe.
Atangira kumuteguza imyitwarire ye
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Umugabo atangira kudutangaza muburiri
Mumeze igihe kirekire mubucuti, ariko mu buryo butunguranye umufatanyabikorwa agaragaza ibitangaza muburiri, mbere yuko utabibona. Birashoboka, umugabo yahisemo kugatandukanya imibonano mpuzabitsina, cyane cyane niba ukunda imibonano mpuzabitsina ya kera kubundi buryo bwose. Kandi nyamara birakwiye kwitonda nimpinduka nkiyi muburyo bwimibonano mpuzabitsina.
Atangira kudutangaza mu buriri
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Uhora wumva kunegura muri aderesi yawe
Byasa, mubucuti bwawe ibintu byose bigenda neza, kandi mu buryo butunguranye utangira kwakira ibitutsi nibirego mubibazo byose ubumwe bwanyu bukurikirana. Muri iki gihe, umugabo agereranya ubuhemu nkikintu cyatanzwe mubihe bisa, nkibisanzwe, ibi bibaho mugihe utangiye gukeka ikintu gitinya umuntu ufite icyo uhisha, bityo akaba agerageza Inshingano kuri wewe. Hano ukeneye kumva ko uko umubano wawe ariwo wose, amakosa mubugambanyi ibinyoma gusa kumuntu wahisemo ku bugambanyi, kuko guhitamo ari uguhindura umubano - burigihe.