Kora ku mibanire ntabwo ari umurimo woroshye, kandi ntabwo buri gihe bishoboka gukiza ubumwe, nubwo waba wifuzaga gute. Ni ngombwa gusobanukirwa mugihe bidafite ishingiro kubungabunga umubano mwiza. Tuzatanga inama nke kugirango dufashe gufata icyemezo gikwiye.
Intego zawe mubuzima wahagaritse impanuka
Amakimbirane yo mu muryango, nk'ubutegetsi, ntashobora kugabanuka, niba abashakanye bafite icyerekezo rusange mubuzima bwumuryango. Kurugero, urateganya kuba ababyeyi mugihe cya vuba cyangwa ushaka kugura metero kare. Ariko, umukunzi wawe akimara gutangira ibiganiro byose bijyanye na gahunda zihuriweho mbere yashoboraga kuganira nawe amasaha, tekereza kubyo ubana. Nibyo, igitsina cyiza kandi, reka tuvuge ikintu gihuje hamwe, ari cyiza, ariko kubakwa kumuryango ntibihagije. Niba amatonga aherekeza buri munsi wawe, birashoboka ko utagomba kubika ibitandukanijwe?
Kwizera - kimwe mubintu byingenzi byo kubaka ubumwe
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Imibonano mpuzabitsina yazimiye mubucuti bwawe
Birumvikana ko ari ibicucu kwitega ko ishyaka ryagutegereje mumezi yambere yimibanire, ibintu byose bizakomeza kuzenguruka umutwe. Nyuma yigihe runaka, ituze, ubwumvikane nubwuzu biza gusimbuza igitsina cyumuyaga. Byongeye kandi, injyana yinjyana yubuzima bwumujyi munini ihindura gahunda zayo za hafi. Kandi, niba utangiye kumenya ko uhora ushakisha urwitwazo, gusa ntukajyanwa numugabo kuryama, birashobora kuba inzogera ya mbere umubano uteza imbere mu mpera zapfuye.
Uhagaritse kwizera mugenzi wawe
Imwe muri "baleime" ubumwe bwawe bufashe ni kwizera. Birakwiye ko umufatanyabikorwa byibuze rimwe kugirango utegure ibyiringiro byawe, ubundi buzima hamwe bizahabwa bigoye cyane. Mubihe byo kwiringirira aho kwiringirwa byuzuye, kandi kugerageza kwawe kudafasha gusubiza umunezero mubucuti, ugomba kwemera ko umubano nk'uwo udafite ejo hazaza.
Rimwe na rimwe, biroroshye gutandukana kuruta guswera ibyaracitse
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Ntukumva unyurwa nubusabane.
Nkuko tumaze kuvuga, umubano nigikorwa kimwe, gusa irangi. Niba umufatanyabikorwa atabonye kugerageza gushiraho, ntabwo ashima ko akenshi uri kubwumvikane, ibaze ubwawe uko wishimiye mugihe ugufashe muburyo busa. Niba umubano utishimye, ariko bizana gutenguha gusa, kugirango ubikomeze kubwimpamvu yumubano, ntabwo ari ukuri, kandi amaherezo izakuyobora gutandukana.