Abagore benshi barota umubano ukomeye, kandi, nibyiza, kubyerekeye stade muri pasiporo. Ariko, mubyukuri, ntabwo buri muntu yiteguye ibikorwa bikomeye, gushyingirwa cyane ni intambwe ikomeye. Birumvikana ko rimwe na rimwe, umugabo afata igihe cyo kwitegura guhanga umuryango: kunoza imiturire y'imiturire, kunoza imodoka, gutema amafaranga ku buzima bwiza nyuma yo gushyingirwa nyuma y'imyaka mike nyuma yo gushyingirwa. Kandi nyamara, abamuhugu bagaragaza ibimenyetso byerekana ko bivuze neza - nta na rimwe, nyuma yumwaka umuntu ntazaba yiteguye guhambira ubuzima bwe. Reka tumenye uwo bidakwiye kumara igihe.
Yiruka ku nshingano
Nk'uko itegeko, umuntu yakugiriye neza, azokwirinda amateraniro hamwe n'abantu bahenze - ababyeyi n'inshuti. Kandi we ubwe azashaka kukumenyesha bene wabo. Niba umufatanyako wukuri nubukungu birinda no kuvuga kubantu bashoboye hamwe nibidukikije, tekereza niba ukeneye kumara umwanya.
Ntabwo buri muntu yiteguye ibikorwa bitoroshye
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Ntabwo ari inyungu zonyine zuje urukundo
Abagabo benshi, muburyo bumwe, bakusanya abagore. Ubwa mbere arabigeraho, kandi ukimara gutabwa, ahita abura inyungu atangira gushaka "igitambo" gishya. Witondere gushyingirwa hamwe numuntu nkuwo, kubishyira mu gatonga, ntibisobanutse. Fata umuntu wishimye rwose.
Ahora anegura
Kubitekerezo bye, ntabwo ukora byose: Ntabwo ari bibi kwibeshya, ntukabikebe nabi kandi ntuhure na gato. Ntutekereze ko igihe runaka azahinduka, ubuzima bwumuryango numuntu nkuyu azahinduka ikuzimu, uriteguye guhora uhakana igice cya kabiri?
Umugabo-ubusomeri
Akenshi, abagabo barakaza nkana umugore ku rukozasoni yo kumuruhuka, bakaganira no kwitonda ku myitwarire ye. Igitutsi gihoraho, kibangamiye gukura mu gisito, kivuga ko umugabo agerageza kukuvaho, wenda akabatera ubwoba. Na none, kubaka umuryango numuntu udashimishijwe, ntabwo ari ibintu byiza.
Fata umufatanyabikorwa uzagushimira
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Yirinda ibiganiro byerekeye ejo hazaza
Iyi myitwarire ifite ishingiro iyo uhuye nazo mugihe gito, nyuma yimyaka myinshi yumubano, umuntu asanzwe azi neza, ariko aba akeneye umubano nawe, ariko ntabwo abantu bose biteguye kwemera ko ameze neza nawe mubufatanye. Muri iki gihe, ugomba gufata iyambere mumaboko yawe ukaganira ahabigenewe umubano wawe wimuka.