Abahanga mu bya psychologue bizeye, ibibazo byinshi byacu biva mu bwana. Iyo duhindutse ababyeyi, dufite amahirwe yo kwirinda amakosa ababyeyi bacu bemerewe, ariko, ntabwo buri gihe tubona ko, tugerageza guhora abana bawe bashoboka, rimwe na rimwe tuzatubwira ibyo amakosa ahindura buri mubyeyi wa kabiri.
Ukoresha umwana
Ku mwana w'imyaka iyo ari yo yose, nta nteruro iteye ubwoba y'ababyeyi "Sinkunda / gukwirakwiza." Niba uhora wibutsa umwana ko uzahagarika kumukunda niba bidasohoza amabwiriza yawe, ushobora guhinga umuntu ukuze umutekano muke uzamenya neza ikintu kimwe - urukundo rugomba kuba rukwiye. Mu bihe bikomeye, umuntu azahora agerageza gutsinda abandi bashobora guhinduka mubitekerezo byinjira.
Uri Uruhinja rwinshi
Kugirango umuntu agaragaze ubwigenge, mugihe runaka, uburiganya bukeneye guca intege. Abantu bakuru b'impagi ntibarusheho kubaka nkumwuga watsinze, kugirango bamenyekane ubuzima bwihariye.
Ntibikenewe gukorera umwana icyo yashoboraga kwikorera, shishikariza gahunda iyo ari yo yose, nk'urugero, umwana akimara kwerekana icyifuzo cyo kurushaho kwanga uburiganya cyangwa kwambara mu bwigenge, nta mutungo wigenga, muri nta kibangamira.
Shishikariza ubwigenge
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Ntushaka gufata neza ko umwana wawe ari umuntu
Bibaho ko ababyeyi ntibabona inyungu zumwana, kwizera ko ari bo bonyine imbaraga nintege nke z'umukobwa cyangwa umuhungu, ndetse bagahitamo kandi isomo rishaka kubikora, atari umwana. Niba wubahiriza amayeri nkuyu, ntutangazwe nimitako yingimbi kandi, wenda, gutererana burundu itumanaho nawe mugihe umwana yigenga rwose.
Kurekura
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