"Vuba aha, twaganiriye n'umukunzi werekeye imyumvire y'abasore n'imyitwarire yabo. Yavuze ko mfite imyifatire yoroshye cyane abo mudahuje igitsina kandi yashoboraga gukina nanjye. Ntabwo nzahakana ko kubice byinshi ntabwo ndihuta mumwanya wubusa ahubwo ni uko umusore yaba afite ibikorwa bimwe nkibyo. Ntabwo ndishimye, ndagushyira imbere gusa, kuko nshaka kuvuga kuri kimwe mu bibazo bikunze kugaragara hagati yabantu.
Wabonye ibibazo bingahe, bisa nkaho byarababaje kandi bishobora kwirindwa niba abantu batihuta? Kutamenya ko dukora "inguni zityaye" aho zishobora kwirindwa byoroshye. Aho kwishimira kuvugana nabashaka kuvuga no kureba, tuzana impamvu ibihumbi bitangira, hanyuma turababara niba ibintu byose bihindutse byoroshye cyane. Noneho nzagusobanurira: Kubera "Isanduku" ntituvugana n'abo ushaka, kuko bashoboye kuzana aho bagarukira. Twirukanye murubanza, kandi byaba byiza ahubwo twishimiye ibiganiro n'inama.
"Ubworoherane bw'imyumvire - Nibyo isi ya none ibuze"
Ndacyagoye kugerageza kwerekana ko umusore adashobora guhamagara "gusa," ntazafasha mugihe byibuze atabanje gutekereza ko aryamane nawe, kandi mubyukuri ntazabaza "nta musingtone. Ndabaza uwazanye ibi kandi kuki abakobwa babera cyane (buhumyi?) Emera imyumvire nk'iyi?
Amaherezo, abasore nabo ni abantu kandi bashaka itumanaho ryibihimbano, gusangira amakuru, gukundana. Abakobwa bakunda kuganira kubibazo byawe nabasore, none kuki badasaba utuntu duto "Rero," nta kintu kirenze ikindi? Ubworoherane bwimyumvire - nicyo isi ya none ibuze.
Kurokoka imyaka yingimbi, nizeraga ko umukobwa atagomba kwandika iyambere, ntabwo yahamagaye ihame, ahubwo yahamagaye kugenda - ibi niho amategeko runaka yubwoko runaka. Muri icyo gihe, ntabwo nagabanije abasore kuri "nka / inshuti / etc .. Ntabwo nateye intambwe igana umuntu uwo ari we wese! Kandi hashize imyaka ibiri, natangiye gufotorwa kandi hano ubushake bw'amahirwe byabaye ngombwa ko yandikira abafotora kandi nakunze guhura nabasore. Nibwo naje kubona ko nshobora guhamagara - ntibisobanura gutanga gukodesha inzu no gukora imbwa. Noneho ndashobora kwandika inshuti no guhamagarira gutembera (ibi ntabwo byagezweho, birumvikana, ariko reka reka bishoboka - ntabwo abakobwa bose bashoboye). Niba kandi namuhamagaye sinshaka kuvuga ibitekerezo byurukundo, kuki, mugihe ibi bibaye bitandukanye, nkwiye gutekereza ko adashobora kubaho tutari kumwe? Kandi nshobora kwandika "vkontakte" cyangwa "telegaramu" umuntu uzwi gusa kuko ndarambiwe kandi ntakintu nakimwe cyo gukora. Wasobanukiwe icyo nyobora, sibyo?
"Ntabwo ubimenye, dukora" Inguni zityaye "aho zishobora kwirinda byoroshye"
Tekereza ukuntu byoroshye kuvugana niba tutashakaga ibisobanuro byihishe aho bitari? Ni ukubera iki icyitegererezo cy'imyitwarire yitwa Naivetty, kandi "Gukuraho ubwonko" wenyine - Ubwenge?
Mubisanzwe, nari mfite iminsi msesenguye imyitwarire yumusore, ngerageza gushaka ikintu mubutumwa bwe nibitekerezo. Iyo umuntu agukunda, noneho imyitwarire ye isa nkiyi, birumvikana. Hano hanyuma uza ibibazo, ufate hamwe nakaga. Ikintu nyamukuru nukubuza ubushobozi bwa sherlock mugihe kandi ukishimira gushyikirana. Nyizera, niba umuntu ashaka kwegera undi muntu, azabona inzira kandi bizagaragara neza kandi biragaragara ko bitagomba kuva mubitekerezo mu binyampeke.
Nifuzaga kwerekana ukuri kworoshye: Itumanaho nuburyo bwo kwiga umuntu, ariko nta cyifuzo cyo kumarana ubusaza hamwe. Nibyo, birashoboka ko nyuma yigihe gito uzashaka kwitangira, ariko ntushobora gutekereza kubantu bose bakwereka bike.
Niba duhagaritse kwibeshya, nzarushaho kwinezeza gato, ndabizeza. "