Akenshi, abakobwa n'abagore bifuza kubona kimwe cya kabiri, barongora ko kumuha umutima no kumera mu rukundo, bashishikariye bamuha inshingano zubuzima bwabo nubwisanzure,
Urashaka kubaho ubuzima bwawe, ahubwo urashaka ubuzima bwumusore cyangwa umugabo. Ahubwo, ufite kwibeshya ko ubu wasanze umufatanyabikorwa, ubuzima bwawe burangiye. Wowe ubwawe umva "byose" kuruhande "we."
"Ubuzima bwe ni ngombwa kandi bushimishije, kandi bwabwo, nkaho bidafite agaciro cyane, ndetse no kwa kabiri. "Igitekerezo cye" gihora ari ukuri, kandi nubwo watemeranya mu bugingo, bararakara kandi bararakaye, ntibishoboka kubigaragaza. Imyitwarire n'imiterere ye wafashe muri kiriya gihe, iratemba, nkaho couple yawe ari inzabya zitanga raporo. Imana ikinga ukuboko, "" "izanyurwa cyangwa irarakara. Uhita ubatera ubwoba, kandi urumva umerewe nabi kandi ucyaha.
Muri ubwo buryo, umufatanyabikorwa asa nkaho ari ishusho ishobora byose, ishobora gutuma bishoboka gukora imwe cyangwa ineza, ariko irashobora no kwamburwa byoroshye iyi myumvire, shyiramo kwifuza cyangwa kurakara.
Utegereje umufatanyabikorwa wikintu kimwe umwana akeneye, umaze kuri iyi si. Urukundo, urugwiro, kubakirana, ku buryo akeka kandi akora ibyifuzo byawe, akwitangira igihe n'imbaraga. Bimwe mubice imbere ntibyakuze. Ashonje mbere y'urukundo kandi akenera kwitabwaho no kwitaho. Birashoboka ko wumva witeguye gutanga urukundo runini kuri mugenzi wawe, uhinduka nyina. Gusa wowe na we, kandi ntawundi ukeneye.
Ariko bitinde bitebuke uvumbuye ko utabona ibyo ukunda dutegereje. Ntubyitayeho cyane, amagambo ye, igihe cyakoreshejwe, uramwemerera kumufata nabi kandi ukabona imyifatire nkiyi ikwiye, kuko yari irakaye. Mu bugingo, ububabare no gutukana, gutenguha no kurakara. Hariho ibikomere byinshi biturutse ku kutumvikana no kwangwa. Ariko umusore wawe ntazashobora gukiza ibi bikomere, nubwo washakaga rwose, nkuko byagaragaye mubugingo bwawe kera kandi bikatera ko winjiye mubyo winjiye muri salo.
Rimwe na rimwe, umubano urababara kandi ntushimishe ko bashaka kubavamo. Ariko irungu ni igiterane kuruta ububabare iruhande rwabafatanyabikorwa. Urasa nkaho wisanga muri swingi. Noneho uri mu byishimo iruhande rwumukunzi wawe, ubabarira kandi wibagirwe ibitutsi byose, mlema kuva imwe imbere ye. Noneho urumva uhuza kandi udakenewe, urakaye kandi ukayanga, wowe ubwawe n'umucyo wera, urwaye, urwara rwose kwifuza no kwiheba. Kandi biteguye gutanga ibintu byose kwisi kugirango babone "igipimo" cyurukundo, kizakuraho kandi kibabaza ububabare.
Sohoka mu kwishingikiriza, harimo nurukundo, ntabwo byoroshye. Icyemezo cyawe no kwifuza guhindura ibintu umubano ukoresha mubuzima bwawe ni ngombwa cyane. Kandi kandi icyifuzo cyo guhindura inyandiko yawe yimbere.
Ni ngombwa kumenya ko hari ikibazo cyo kwishingikiriza. Ntabwo utekereza ko ubuzima butagira uyu muntu kandi ntushobora kumuvaho, nubwo nubwo umubano utaguhagije cyane. Hamwe nibi ukeneye kugira icyo ukora, ikibazo ubwacyo ntikizashira, ariko gusa.
Ni ngombwa kuzamura ubwawe wenyine. Urashobora gukenera ubufasha bwinzobere. Ariko ugomba kwakira no kumva ko uri mwiza kandi ufite agaciro gusa kubera ko baje kuri iyi si. Ntabwo uri mubi kandi ntabwo uruta abandi bantu. Ufite agaciro nubwihariye bwawe nubuzima bwawe, nka buri muntu. Kugirango wumve wishimye kandi wuzuye, ntukeneye undi muntu, ugomba kumenya neza.
Ni ngombwa gukora ubuhanga bwo kugena no kurengera imipaka yawe, vuga "Oya" niba udashaka ikintu, cyangwa ikintu kidashaka. Akenshi ubwoba bwo kwangwa no gutereranwa, umukobwa ntikemuke ndetse no kuvuga iri jambo ryubupfumu "oya, bityo akakwemerera gukandagira no gusuka ibyiyumvo byawe. Icyarimwe wumva utishimye kandi utumvikana.
Ni ngombwa guhura n'amarangamutima yawe. Wige kumva uko bigenda kuri wewe. Ntabwo kubibera kumukundana numukunzi wawe no kubyo ashaka, ariko ibyiyumvo bye, ibyiyumvo bye. Uri umuntu utandukanye, ufite ibyifuzo byawe, ibyiyumvo nibitekerezo. Bakwandikira kubyo ukeneye cyangwa ibibi kuri wewe. Niba wize kumenya ibi bimenyetso, urashobora kumva urenze kandi wishimye kandi wuzuye. Uzakenera bike kugirango ushake inkunga mubindi.