Ku bitugu byawe amashuri icumi hamwe namasomo atanu (kandi umuntu afite ane)? Birashoboka ko uri umutware cyangwa umukandida wa siyansi? Muganireho, uyu munsi impamyabumenyi yawe, imaze kuba ifite agaciro kandi ni ngombwa, gutakaza ibyemezo byamasomo menshi, amahugurwa, marato igamije ibintu "kuvoma" - kuva kumukunda karma mubucuruzi. Icyamamare cyo kwiteza imbere gitangira gutera ubwoba - kandi kigutera gutekereza: Kuki ninde ukeneye ibi byose? Kandi ntabwo igihe cyo kwinjira kugirango wiyandikishe muri "Drumkruzh, uruziga kumafoto ..."?
Wishimira neza: Ugomba kwigereranya numuntu umwe kwisi - hamwe na Ejo imbere. Ntugatakaze umwanya ku ishyari, buri munsi mushya witanze kurwana no guteza imbere, iterambere no guharanira inyungu. Umuhamagaro uratera imbaraga kandi mwiza, ariko isoko rya none ritanga icyerekezo kinini cyane amaso ahunga, kandi amaboko atazi ibyo bafata. Waba ukeneye byihutirwa kugirango ururimi rwigishinwa, niba uhagaze munzira yumutoza wubucuruzi, niba ugomba gukomeza iterambere ry'ubuhanzi bwiza bwo kureshya. None, ni gute kurohama mu isi yo kwiteza imbere? Tangira biragaragara - komeza icyerekezo cyumwuga.
Ibyiciro:
1. kumenya. Ntukihute kwihutira kwihutira amahugurwa n'amasomo n'umutwe wawe - gerageza gushiraho intego zawe kandi wumve ibyo ukeneye n'ibikenewe. Gusa mugusobanura inzira, urashobora gutera imbere neza, kubitekerezo.
2. Kumenyekana. Emera amaherezo, ko wowe ubwawe ko kubaka ingamba nubuyobozi bwitsinda, reka kandi byumvikana neza, - atari ibyawe, kandi ubugingo bwamasomo yo gutema no kugenda. Nta kintu giteye isoni cyangwa gisekeje. Kurikiza umuhamagaro wumutima!
3. Guhitamo. Ngwino guhitamo amahugurwa ubishaka kandi numutwe ukonje. Soma ibisobanuro, jya muminsi yumuryango ufunguye, witoze umujyanama utazaba umwuga mwiza gusa, ariko nawe uzabikunda wenyine.
Pompe Byose
Mbere ya byose, birakwiye gusobanukirwa impamvu dukeneye. Hano, abantu bose bazahita bakura ubwabo bazahita basangira amatsinda abiri manini: abayikeneye iterambere ryumwuga nibibazo byumwuga, kandi bifuza kuba verisiyo nziza yabo itunganye gusa.
Guhitamo bwa mbere mugihe ubutunzi bugaragara ari buto: bakeneye kunoza ibyangombwa? Imbere! Ohereza ubuhanga bushya? Ndabibajije! Ukeneye ururimi? Murakaza neza kumasomo yindimi. INAMA: Nubwo waba utagiye guhangana nubusobanuro bwihariye, ariko urashaka gukora imishyikirano yubucuruzi kurwego rukwiye, aracyakora hejuru "kandi agume mumashuri hamwe na kaminuza bishobora kuguha icyemezo mpuzamahanga kizasubirwamo Ntabwo ari ku isoko ry'Uburusiya gusa. Iyi nama ireba abakeneye kwiga ururimi rwamahanga gusa.
Amasomo yo kwigunga, rero ubu, agomba kugira ibisobanuro byiza nigiciro gihagije. Ntibishoboka muminsi itanu kandi ingano igihumbi kugirango ube umutware wa manicure cyangwa muziko (Niki ugomba kuvuga kubyerekeye gusubira inyuma kubarimu cyangwa abayobozi?). Kandi rero kugirango utaba umuyaga, uzahita wishyura kabiri, hitamo witonze amasomo ufite, kurugero, muri salo nziza namavuriro.
Ibintu byose ntibisobanutse neza kuri izo gahunda namahugurwa adashimangira ibisubizo byihariye byumwuga, ahubwo bisezeranya ko uzagenda neza, byiza kandi birashimishije kuruta uko byari bimeze. Tuzabibwira muburyo burambuye.
Menya charlatan
Amafaranga hejuru! Nta masomo ageragezwa, birashoboka kumenyera uburyo, "ameza azenguruka" cyangwa ibiganiro bifunguye mubitabiriye amahugurwa. Wishyura amasomo yose ako kanya hanyuma ugura injangwe mumufuka. Ntukore ibyo.
Yasuka amazi adasubijemo ibibazo byihariye, atanga amagambo adasobanutse kandi acika intege ninteruro rusange.
Kubaho kwabakiriya ni umwanya wihishe: Umuhanga utangira arashobora gufatwa, utaragira amahirwe yo gukorana nabantu benshi. Kandi nyamara isubiramo abantu bazima bafite uburambe bwo kwiga hamwe numutoza cyangwa gutoza ni wongeyeho.
Intsinzi inyuranye
Kuzamuka kugiti cyawe, amahame yubuyobozi no gutangaza ubushobozi bwabo, ubuhanga bwigihe no kubaka kwigirira ikizere kandi ni iki, niba atari umugani? Uyu munsi, uhereye kuri "usanzwe" ubifashijwemo na (aho utaba) abanyamwuga bahishura amabanga yo kwihuta "kuvoma" ubwabo, urashobora guhinduka guru mu itumanaho, ubucuruzi nurukundo.
Mubisanzwe amahugurwa yose yo kuvoma ubwayo agira ingaruka kubintu byitsinda cyangwa psychotherapi kugiti cye.
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Mubisanzwe amahugurwa yose avanze kubintu byitsinda cyangwa psychotherapi yumuntu, intego yacyo ihinduka kugirango umenye intege nke zawe. Byasa nkaho bahishuye - kandi bakazi! Kandi hano akaga kambere ibinyoma: Ikigaragara ni uko amahugurwa n'amasomo yose ari byiza cyane ku bantu, mu ntangiriro muri bo gushidikanya, ntibizeye umutungo n'imbaraga zabo. Umukiriya nkuyu ni ushakisha isoko ryo guteza imbere imiterere: Kusohoka murimwe, rwose azajya ahandi - kandi ntabwo ashaka rwose ko ntaho ntarengwa, ariko kubera ko yijejwe: Nkuko agiga kandi yiga. Ni ngombwa kwibwira "guhagarara" kandi ugerageze kumva icyo ushaka kugeraho. Ibi birashobora gufasha tekiniki zitandukanye, uhereye kubitekerezo byigenga kugeza kumasomo numutoza, bizagufasha kukuyobora muburyo bwiza. Ntugerageze gupfuka byose hanyuma, mu rugendo rwihuta rwiterambere ugomba kwinjira buhoro buhoro.
Mbere ya byose, shakisha kandi wemere ibintu byawe bwite. Hano kora neza (ariko, birumvikana ko byagereranijwe) Ibizamini byubwoko bumeze nka Typologiya ya Myer-Briggs (icyamamare cya Mbti. Gukwirakwiza nibyiza kwizihiza psychoanalyst, ariko birashoboka kwihanganira no kwigenga. Ntukabone ibisubizo nkisuzuma ryashyizweho umukono, ibyo bizamini birakenewe kugirango tumenye kandi tubone imbaraga zabo kandi tumenye uko twaba dufite intege nke - ahubwo twumve impamvu muri kimwe cyangwa ikindi kibazo ubona nkawe reba. Bikunze kubaho ko umuntu udafata icyemezo kandi utuje aracika intege, adashobora kugira ipfunwe mu bayobozi, atangira "gutsimbataza" gutera imbere ". Nubwo byari ngombwa kutagutera imbaraga kamere yabo, ariko gerageza gukorana numutungo wawe - kurugero, gukora cyane, kwitonda, ubushobozi bwo kubona utuntu duto nibisobanuro, ishyaka ryukuri. Ikosa rya "Tihoni" riri mu cyifuzo cyinangiye kuba umuyobozi mwiza (kandi amasomo n'amahugurwa yasezeranijwe!) Hamwe no kwanga ibintu bidasanzwe, bishimangira ibintu bisanzwe kandi byingenzi.
Reka rero twemere ko gukura kugiti cyawe niterambere murufunguzo rwabomo isoko ryabo rigezweho bumva atari uko buri gihe ibyo dukeneye muburyo dukeneye. Akenshi, uruhare utagira ingano mumahugurwa n'amahugurwa afite serivisi yubudozi: Umuntu uhora ashakisha verisiyo nziza yatakaye, irashonga kandi ibura ibyo bihe byatwara kugirango ushimishe hano na none. Ishusho yumugore wubucuruzi cyangwa rwiyemezamirimo watsinze mumafaranga yamahanga ihenze, ariko ntabwo ari byiza, kandi rimwe na rimwe aradushyiraho. Inyandikorugero iraburira guhuza no gutekereza neza uyumunsi irababaje, aho kwishyuza no gufasha kugirango ufate umuraba w'ishyaka.
Amasomo yo kwigomeka, kubwibyo rero ubu, agomba kugira ibisobanuro byiza nigiciro gihagije.
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Aho ugomba gukomeza kubadashaka kuba umucuruzi guru na kamere yibanze?
Kandi abantu bose biruka, kwiruka, kwiruka ...
Isi yimbuga nkoranyambaga yafunguye ubwinjiriro bwisi ibangikanye - isanzure rya marato (igice cyibikorwa bimwe bigomba kuzuzwa mugihe runaka), guhangana nibindi bikorwa kuri buri buryohe. Hamwe nabajyanama ba Instagram urashobora kugabanya ibiro, wige kuririmba, koresha pp-cake, shikindabire ziterwa no guterura ibinyoma n'amaboko yawe kandi wumve uburyo bwo gushushanya ubufasha bwubwonko. Mubantu bafite ubwoba bwinshi bwibyifuzo birashimishije cyane.
Ahantu hakomeye dutwarwa nibisa bitandukanye, kandi benshi muribo baragufasha rwose. Yoo, ariko guhuza ibitsina mu gihugu cyacu ntikirabashye - kandi bisezeranya abo bahanaguye gusa kuri interineti. Hasi hamwe na Hubbees no gushidikanya: Mu batoza ku buzima bwimbitse bw'ubuzima harimo imitekerereze y'abaganga bakora imitekerereze no kugenzura gahunda zifatika. Niba utiteguye kugura injangwe mumufuka, urashobora kwiyandikisha kumutoza wawe ukunda ukabireba kubikorwa byayo. Akenshi, usibye ibikubiyemo, abanyarubuga batanga amakuru menshi kandi yingirakamaro amakuru aboneka.
Hamwe na ndwaye, ibintu byose nibyiza, ariko urukundo ntiruherereye, kandi abashakanye ntibakuze? Kandi icyifuzo cyawe kizaba gifite abanyabukorikori bazavuga ngo basabe neza abagabo mubantu, igikenewe kwambara kugirango bashushe bugufi, nkuko gukundana no kujya kumunsi wambere. "Ubumenyi bw'ishyaka ryoroheje" burashobora kugukorera mu buryo buzengurutse, ariko abashaka kwifuza ubumenyi ku buryo iyo ari yo yose ntibigabanuka, ariko ibisabwa, nkuko tubizi, bitanga icyifuzo. Nk'uko ibiro bishinzwe ubwanditsi, birakwiriye gushora imari mu masomo ya massage, gusura imbyino za latin yo mu kilatini n'umufatanyabikorwa w'amajwi n'amasomo menshi kuri psychologiya ishingiye ku mubiri. Amategeko, ntabwo ari ngombwa kwibagirwa: kwikunda - naho abasigaye bazagukunda.
Amasomo yo gusoma no kwandika, gutema no kudoda kera, birakwiye kumenya. Ariko n'amahugurwa yimibonano mpuzabitsina akomeza kuba kure mugihe cyo gutegura imyifatire nyayo. Niba bidakora iyo bidakora, kandi sinashoboye gufasha ubucuruzi guru, binjira mu mukino - amashuri yubumaji nubupfumu. Nibyo, yego, ntugomba rwose kuba harter potter hanyuma wakira ibaruwa yandikiwe iposita, uyumunsi byose biroroshye: Amabanga yabatangabuhamya arahari kubantu bose, kubisabwa.
Mu mijyi minini hariho amaduka yihariye aho ibintu byose byabanyeshuri binjiye munzira yubumaji bigurishwa. Amaguru y'inkoko yumye? Umurizo w'abakwatsi? Amaso z'Abahashaniya? Hano urashobora kugura ikintu cyose kugirango usohoze imihango ikenewe, yishyuza amabuye kugirango atsinde no kuba mwiza kandi, birumvikana ko guteka umwanya wigeragezwa. Hatabayeho icyemezo cyihariye uri umurozi kandi watsinze inzira yo kwiga ukoresheje amabanga ya kera namabanga, cyangwa amababi ntazakora.
Muri rusange, birashoboka guhura - nta gusebanya birenze no gusebanya. Wizere ubushishozi bwawe (cyangwa numupfumu muto?), Ukemure umunezero, uhe icyifuzo kidasanzwe kandi wige amaherezo ufashe ubufasha bwubugingo, kandi ntabwo ari brush (yego, hari ikintu nkicyo!). Hagarika kwiyumvisha, gahunda, amahugurwa, icyiciro cya Masters nkikintu giteganijwe, gikenewe, bitabaye ibyo tutazashobora rwose kuba verisiyo nziza yawe, ahubwo yo gutekereza no kugatekereza. Vuga ko unyigisha uburiri bwo kuririmba iminsi itatu? Nkomeretsa nyuma yicyumweru cyane, nzaba imana ya massage kandi irashobora gutsinda abagabo umwe? Niteguye! Amaherezo, ikuzimu kidasetsa?
Wige, wige kandi wongere wige - Isomo nicyubahiro kandi ndashimira, ariko rimwe na rimwe birananira kandi (yewe, ubwoba!) Rimwe na rimwe ntibikenewe. Ntushake ibyiza mubyiza, kuko uzapfa gukunda no kwifatira uko uri. Kandi iterambere ryo kureka rigira umunezero gusa n'ibyishimo. Wibuke: Ndetse no ku ishuri, ubwoko nyamukuru bw'ibikorwa ari ikarishye ya granite ya siyansi, hari iminsi mikuru. Mugukurikirana ibitekerezo, ntukibagirwe ko ukeneye ikiruhuko. Wigire ku rukotiro rwihuse uhora utanga kuruhuka no guhumeka, gukora sisitemu zose za filozofiya ya Noschena (ibuka byibuze niksen na hyugge). Umwaka urangiye uri hafi, nuko igihe kirageze cyo guhagarara no kureka ubushake. Kwiteza imbere bizategereza rwose kugeza igihe cyishuri ritaha. Indamutso y'ibiruhuko!